Are my shoulders too broad? I want to be fem and my shoulders and muscle mass impede me from being that way.

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    Jul 06, 2014 10:54 PM GMT
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    Jul 07, 2014 12:00 AM GMT
    No it's what's between your legs that ruin it for you. icon_lol.gif The pic you imbedded did not load for me but looking at your profile, I'd say no. There are plenty of women who have broad shoulders. Think Joan Crawford. You may have to google that one.
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    Jul 07, 2014 12:06 AM GMT
    Are you a boy or a girl? icon_confused.gif

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    Jul 07, 2014 12:09 AM GMT
    I think you have a great career ahead of you as a drag queen. At least for a few years, anyway. Your build will not be an obstacle.
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    Jul 07, 2014 2:05 AM GMT
    You have yet to see my graduation pictures where my shoulders look huge
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    Jul 07, 2014 2:07 AM GMT
    You'd make a lovely ladyboy
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    Jul 07, 2014 2:31 AM GMT
    Thank u
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    Jul 07, 2014 4:22 AM GMT
    Your height and weight are good. Broad shoulders and muscle mass shouldn't be an impediment. Man hands and feet, and adam's apples, are - IF you have them.

    I once knew a M-T-F ("Bobby") who I met first at the early stages of the transition (where he was an ugly boy with mousy hair and plucked eyebrows, and a former soldier) and then near the end (when he shook with excitement when, even after I recognized him late night outside of a club, I told him he totally "passed" as a lithe blonde, which he did). But a few years later...

    I'm in a fancy deli on 2nd & 48th or so in NYC and my attention is drawn by a sexy little blonde in a leopardskin catsuit flirting with all the hairy, unibrowed Italians behind the counter who were positively eating her up. Something was off about the whole scenario; she was a little too loud, a little too interested in average guys, a little too "gesture-y," a little too attention-whore-y, and that catsuit in midafternoon was a bit much. Then I got it - it was Bobby. She looked the part, but overplayed it. So the point is - if you want to pass for a real woman, you have to act like one. Not a caricature of one.
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    Jul 07, 2014 4:28 AM GMT
    Not really, I think you are fine. I have that problem too, I am a bottom, and i have very broad shoulders, and appear big, when i am actually pretty twinky lol, but i am also tall around 6'1, and people always think i am a top!