First and foremost sex should be fun! So, I like a lot of flirting during the day, in the supermarket, in the car, at my mom's house, everywhere and anywhere. Rogue smiles, grab his package when he's least expecting it and when no one's looking. Pin him up against the wall of the elevator when you 2 are alone in there and tell him when you get home you gonna suck him off or something. Entice him to look forward to getting home. Next: FOREPLAY!!! It's a must. Massages, sexy clothing, undress him or strip for him and stuff alike can get the juices and mood going. I like when bottoms talk to me during sex. Not about the curtains that need cleaning but how good my cock feels inside them. Take a little
control when you're on the bottom, tell him to fuck you slower or harder or however you want it. In spite of the fact that we are very elegant, educated and classy in our daily lives, I do enjoy a little coarse language during sex. "Fuck me" seems to be one of my favorite sentences I like to hear. As a top I try to be creative. My role is to give you pleasure, so I'll do my best to take you on a crescendo until you reach your climax. That may imply but not limited to position changes, music, lighting, food/drink, candles, incense, places (not only the bedroom), blindfolds, using restraints during role plays can be really hot!(if you're into that kind of stuff), adrenaline (in case we're in a public place or have the fear of getting caught), so let your top take and be in control. Let your top know you're about to cum. The phrase: "I'm gonna cum!" seems to trigger a turbo nitrogen engine in my pelvis. That line will make me pound you so hard and so fast I won't stop till I see you cream the sheets, or your stomach and chest, depending on the position we're in. When it come to positions, my favorite is when the dude I'm going to possess is lying face down, flat on his stomach, spread eagle and me on top. Like this:
Towards the end, I like to see that I was able to make another man cum. So for that, this position would be my favorite:
To finalize my input to your question, just let loose, have fun, tell him you're having fun and make him feel like the one man with the most amazing and beautiful cock on the planet.