If you were regarded as unattractive

  • Matthew56

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    Jul 09, 2014 1:02 PM GMT
    Would you feel really depress to the point of contemplating suicide because of your looks and in order to combat would you seek plastic surgery or do other things like go gym

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    Jul 09, 2014 1:26 PM GMT
    No, I'd seek therapy.
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    Jul 09, 2014 2:26 PM GMT
    I'd stock up on rope and roofies.
  • tj85016

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    Jul 09, 2014 2:30 PM GMT
    I'd join Oprah's book club and masturbate a lot
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    Jul 09, 2014 2:37 PM GMT
    No , there's always some one worse of then what you think.

    Suicide is not worth it, maybe therapy.
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    Jul 09, 2014 3:14 PM GMT
    Living is survival of the fittest, not the prettiest.

    No matter how many heads you turn in youth they'll turn away as you age.

    Face your vanity issues now or they will be your demise.

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    Jul 09, 2014 3:29 PM GMT
    I'd go to the gym and get fit. I'm talking super fit! Then, when I get all fit and sexy and supermodel-esque. I'd flaunt it at all the people who wouldnt give me the time of day. That'll teach them! I'll be the new assbag of the town and, wait no, thats not what I want to be icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 09, 2014 3:50 PM GMT
    stimpy saidI'd go to the gym and get fit. I'm talking super fit! Then, when I get all fit and sexy and supermodel-esque. I'd flaunt it at all the people who wouldnt give me the time of day. That'll teach them! I'll be the new assbag of the town and, wait no, thats not what I want to be icon_confused.gif


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    Jul 09, 2014 3:57 PM GMT
    Attractiveness is superficial , personality and the way to treat people is what is attractive to others !
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    Jul 09, 2014 4:48 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    stimpy saidI'd go to the gym and get fit. I'm talking super fit! Then, when I get all fit and sexy and supermodel-esque. I'd flaunt it at all the people who wouldnt give me the time of day. That'll teach them! I'll be the new assbag of the town and, wait no, thats not what I want to be icon_confused.gif


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    YES, I think Stimpy offers wise advice.

    Make something positive out of the insecurity you're feeling.
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    Jul 09, 2014 5:31 PM GMT
    I'd spend as little time on gay men's Websites as possible in favor of doing things you enjoy.
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    Jul 09, 2014 5:41 PM GMT
    I doubt Matthew was referring to himself.
    If he was, he has a serious case of body dysmorphic syndrome.
    If I had a major disfigurement that was surgically correctable, yes i would have surgery. (I mean cleft lip, giant port wine stain on my face, burns, etc.)
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    Jul 09, 2014 5:49 PM GMT
    Confidence is attractive. I harped on my looks as a younger guy, was reluctant to approach people socially, etc., and had my eyes opened (literally) by someone I randomly met in a bar. He was not what the magazines would call handsome, but he not only did the best he could and then some with what he had (not only very fit but always well-dressed, groomed, etc.) but exuded confidence. He walked right up to me and introduced himself, and we ended up staying long-distance friends for years.

    So much of how others see you comes from what you say with your body (expression, posture, etc.) and that can get you a lot further than looks alone.

    That said, a large percentage of gay men are lookists and say some incredibly nasty things to each other. I see this as a reflection of their own insecurity vs. anything you should take seriously.
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    Jul 09, 2014 6:01 PM GMT
    I feel like unattractive people should just lift like crazy, maybe inject some steroids, and get ridiculously big. Honestly, if a guy's bicep is bigger than my head, I'm not gonna say SHIT about his face. I'm gonna fondle that motherfucker and blow him till he shoots his load all over my pretty face.
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    Jul 09, 2014 6:22 PM GMT
    neffa saidAttractiveness is superficial , personality and the way to treat people is what is attractive to others !


    Beauty is skin deep. A person is judged and defined by who they are as an individual and their actions.

    A person may look attractive on the outside but their attitude, beliefs and personality will ultimately make them unappealing and unattractive to others.
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    Jul 09, 2014 6:26 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi saidI doubt Matthew was referring to himself.
    If he was, he has a serious case of body dysmorphic syndrome.
    If I had a major disfigurement that was surgically correctable, yes i would have surgery. (I mean cleft lip, giant port wine stain on my face, burns, etc.)

    He is referring to himself. He's posted on here many times, and he's been told many times that he needs to see a therapist. There's no one on here that can help him. Only he can help himself, and that's when he chooses to.
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    Jul 09, 2014 6:27 PM GMT
    Avsigkommen saidI feel like unattractive people should just lift like crazy, maybe inject some steroids, and get ridiculously big. Honestly, if a guy's bicep is bigger than my head, I'm not gonna say SHIT about his face. I'm gonna fondle that motherfucker and blow him till he shoots his load all over my pretty face.


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    Jul 09, 2014 7:01 PM GMT
    A cucumber face mask works wonders!

    Just keep yourself in in the best condition as possible.

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    Jul 09, 2014 7:15 PM GMT
    Lots of people turned me down when i first started dating. I was flat out called ugly, unattractive, and not fit enough. Some of those same guys tried to flirt with me years later... but it didn't make me happy.

    What made me happy was being fit, strong, happy, and healthy. Why would you want to change your body... for the ones who don't want you know? or are straight up dicks too you? everyone's attractive to somebody.

    And attractive is also personality, how you present yourself, your manners, integrity, respect, and how you treat others.
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    Jul 09, 2014 7:28 PM GMT
    Have faith in yourself. Focus on your personal style, abilities and talents. Take inspiration from MADONNA'S DANCERS......Why? Many of them including her well known back up singers and dancers have very unique looks. They are different!!!

    Attractiveness is on so many different levels......

    Have style, class and be happy!

    Watch the video......get your grove on BOY!


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    Jul 09, 2014 7:45 PM GMT
    Learn to love yourself. There are others who will love you just the way you are, and even more when you love yourself
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    Jul 09, 2014 8:41 PM GMT
    HOT is very subjective. Lol, you see many mismatch hot/non-hot couples all the time. As far as gym/building muscles, **Urg, I hate muscles just as long as his u know what isn't crooked, and straight!!* LOL icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif You should love yourself first.
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    Jul 09, 2014 9:30 PM GMT
    homejames said
    neffa saidAttractiveness is superficial , personality and the way to treat people is what is attractive to others !


    Beauty is skin deep. A person is judged and defined by who they are as an individual and their actions.

    A person may look attractive on the outside but their attitude, beliefs and personality will ultimately make them unappealing and unattractive to others.


    "Fine fur may cover spoiled meat" Anybody know the book?
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    Jul 10, 2014 12:58 AM GMT
    There are certainly things you can do to look better and feel better about yourself, but there's a limit.

    You can change your hairstyle, your clothes, glasses/contacts, etc. You can exercise, work out, get in shape, lose/gain weight and improve your hygiene to look better. These are things that are good for you any way.

    Then some people go to extreme to get plastic surgery, liposuction, etc done. I don't think anybody needs to go that far to improve their looks unless it's detrimental to their health.

    All in all, be true to yourself and never lose your true identity for someone else.
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    Jul 10, 2014 3:54 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidLearn to love yourself. There are others who will love you just the way you are, and even more when you love yourself
    Logic sounds so boring. icon_razz.gif