Would you date a whore?

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    Jan 09, 2009 8:14 PM GMT
    You have been dating a guy for a few months. Things are great,and bright future together. Then out of nowhere he asks you if he can go do this trick with a guy offering to pay him $200 to J/O in front of him wearing a leather. J/o and that is it.

    He says he wouldn't asked but the guy approached him. He also states he could use the money.

    Do you drop him? or continue to date him?

    Even if you say no and continue to date him, can you trust in him that he didn't go ahead and sell himself?

    So could you date a guy knowing he had sold him self for money while with you?
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    Jan 09, 2009 8:31 PM GMT
    If he needs the money, I would offer to help him. I would never let the person I care about humiliate himself like that.
    And if he wants to do it... he's gonna have to go on without me, I could never date a man like that.
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    Jan 09, 2009 8:33 PM GMT
    He's only getting $200?
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    Jan 09, 2009 9:10 PM GMT
    I'm not uncomfortable if a guy has less money than me; many do, as many others have more than me. But this is stretching the concept a bit. Money for sex, even if merely exhibitionism, is more than tawdry in my view.

    This is just my opinion, but you did ask: drop the creep.
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    Jan 09, 2009 9:22 PM GMT
    My first question is, are the guys monogamous? If no, then I see no problem. If yes, then consider that this would be infidelity in most people's definition of the word.

    Either way, I wouldn't drop him just for asking. But it does indicate that you need to have a long talk about what you want from each other sexually.
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    Jan 09, 2009 11:48 PM GMT
    If he just dropped this one on you "out of the blue" it's not a good sign. . Chances are he's done it more than once before (maybe before he met you or worse, after and without you knowing).

    The way you describe it, it seems he's very "matter of fact" about it, as if he wouldn't understand why it would be a big deal for him to turn tricks for cash while he's seiing you. I'd end it with him.
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    Jan 09, 2009 11:50 PM GMT
    Ir all depends on how you guys have defined your relationship. And your personal views on sex for money. Every guy here will have a different view based on his own understandings and preferences.
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    Jan 09, 2009 11:52 PM GMT
    Did this happen to you? This is quite a scenerio. I wouldnt let the guy i was dating even have to go that route.
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    Jan 10, 2009 1:35 AM GMT
    If we could make it an outing and get $400 out of it, I'm all for it.

    If I had $400, I could retire.
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    Jan 10, 2009 1:46 AM GMT
    I dont have a preference really on this matter however read some of the posts there are many ppl who whore themselves out for free.. I mean hooking up w guy(s) from the bar, online, etc.. Would you date a stripper? To me its kind of the same difference. Not that its right or wrong everyone has their own opinion..
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    Jan 10, 2009 1:47 AM GMT
    I would ask your significant other to talk the "client" into having YOU participate in the whole thing. Then again it depends on you. But as the saying goes, "Partners who play together... play together". icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 10, 2009 1:53 AM GMT
    I couldn't date someone that would even consider doing something like that and action there's nothing wrong with it.
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    Jan 10, 2009 2:16 AM GMT
    No, wouldn't date a whore.

    I mean really... why ask for more risk?
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    Jan 10, 2009 2:34 AM GMT
    It's kinda like being in a relationship with someone who's still sleeping around. I personally think it's a bad idea, but it comes down whatever you're comfortable with.
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    Jan 10, 2009 3:35 AM GMT
    How many of us have been offered money for sex?
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    Jan 10, 2009 3:53 AM GMT
    depends...is he willing to share some of his earnings with you?
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    Jan 10, 2009 4:27 AM GMT
    Well, hey, I'd totally date a stripper, and I'd collect change at the door for anyone who wanted to watch my "whore" boyfriend JO for a trick.
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    Jan 10, 2009 5:33 AM GMT
    fulldelight saidIf he needs the money, I would offer to help him. I would never let the person I care about humiliate himself like that.
    And if he wants to do it... he's gonna have to go on without me, I could never date a man like that.


    I concur, but the fact that someone would even consider it would probably be the end of it for me.
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    Jan 10, 2009 5:36 AM GMT
    It's the oldest profession around, and certainly, if a guy can charge for something many guys can't give away, well, there's something to be said for that.

    Because of the inherent risk of disease, I wouldn't have sex with someone who is a man of the night, any more than I'd go to a bath house (sluts live there).

    I don't think there's a whole lot of difference between fucking the sluts at the bathhouse or from online, than fucking someone who does it for a living. They just have sex with whomever, and that's the way of many gay men, whether they get paid, or not.

    One should be an equal opportunity fucker, when he is fucking folks, and considering who they're fucking.

    All that being said, I've had just 3 sexual partners in the last two years, and I like it that way.
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    Jan 10, 2009 6:25 AM GMT
    I've dated an escort before. It's no big deal. He just better be there when I'm ready to get it on.

    I've also dated a guy that had done some amature porn. He wasn't that good in bed hence the amature.

    So, yeah, I guess I would. Now a guy that actively seeks out sex just for sex that's a completely different thing and that answer would be no.

    As far as it being only a J/O as your post describes then no I would not have a problem with it.
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    Jan 10, 2009 6:29 AM GMT
    "Always make sure you can buy your own diamonds... but always make sure you never have to!"
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    Jan 10, 2009 6:36 AM GMT
    makeumyne saidIf we could make it an outing and get $400 out of it, I'm all for it.

    If I had $400, I could retire.


    LMAO

    Top off any losses from last year?
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    Jan 10, 2009 6:55 AM GMT
    A guy in Buffalo once offered me a shopping spree plus $300 so he could give me a blow job..

    God.. if I didn't have morals i'd be driving my IS by now..icon_neutral.gif
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    Jan 10, 2009 7:54 AM GMT
    SouthillsmuscleFL saidHow many of us have been offered money for sex?


    I can name three instances in the past 12 months LOL!
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    Jan 10, 2009 9:32 AM GMT
    StripperRocco said"Always make sure you can buy your own diamonds... but always make sure you never have to!"
    My Mother


    Can I use this? Totally dissertation worthy quotage.