Does the scene both on line & in the gay venues reliance on a promise of sex, love or intimacy which fuel the perception for gay men to believe that it's sex and attraction are the only things that we have in common & for some the idea that's all they have that is good in their lives

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    Jul 10, 2014 1:48 PM GMT
    Our Gay meeting places in the real world such as clubs, bars or saunas cater for this & manage to overcome the differences by creating a safe n comforting
    Gay men are very diverse which results in very few issues being important to all of us and it's usually about appealing to the primal urge for sex, love the possibility of not being alone, even if it is for one night or even someone gets their load off

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    Jul 10, 2014 2:17 PM GMT
    Alcohol plays a HUGE factor in the bar scene. The sauna, well, you're already almost naked so the shields are way down. Online is really a 50/50 thing. If they want sex and you don't they will hit that red X in the top corner so fast you'll be sitting there thinking, dafuq!? But online can be other things as well like online gaming. Believe me the last thing on your mind is sex when you are slaughtering people is some online combat game (pew pew pew) icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 10, 2014 2:35 PM GMT
    We are sexual beings. Get over it. Oh, that, and shorten your titles. Thank you.
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    Jul 11, 2014 1:41 AM GMT
    what about every opera, figure skating venue, dog show, antique market, art gallery....there are far more well attended gay venues than the OP
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    Jul 11, 2014 1:45 AM GMT
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    Jul 11, 2014 2:07 AM GMT
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