eb925guy saidI don't think relationships are a rarity among gay men at all. They may not fit the standard conservative Christian way of a str8 relationship, that being a monogamous relationship that flames out more than 50% of the time but they exist regularly.
sf_swimmer saidRelationships are a rarity among gay men because most aren' really interested in them.
I agree completely with eb925guy
here and what he said earlier: go out and do what you already enjoy, and you will meet others who will already have something in common with you. If they aren't available, they'll have friends, ... Bike, run, theater, book club, dancing, fishing, take a class.... Check the MEETUPS in your region http://www.meetup.com/find/
for other ideas; if you don't find one you like, create your own group. Just keep active and avoid closeting up in your apartment.sf_swimmer
, your response seems to indicate that you've been hurt before; sorry if that's the case, but it does no good to rain on this guy's parade. Let's keep this conversation civil and upbeat, OK?