Do sexy guys in their 40's & 50s give you hope?

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    Jul 13, 2014 3:10 AM GMT
    They give me reason to believe things arent too late, that's for sure. icon_cool.gif
  • Kwokpot

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    Jul 13, 2014 3:15 AM GMT
    mikeyslc saidThey give me reason to believe things arent too late, that's for sure. icon_cool.gif

    It's NEVER too late! I only started working out 7 years ago at 46. Started a diet change two years before that. I'm looking and feeling the BEST that I EVER have, and I'm never looking back!

    Good Luck and be well!
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    Jul 13, 2014 3:19 AM GMT
    no
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    Jul 13, 2014 4:10 AM GMT
    kevex saidno


    How pessimistic. icon_rolleyes.gif I think they do.

    This thread needs some pics. icon_razz.gif
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    Jul 13, 2014 4:20 AM GMT
    Hope for what? Not sure what OP is getting at here.
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    Jul 13, 2014 4:22 AM GMT
    This guy's in his 60s...

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    Jul 13, 2014 4:29 AM GMT
    bon_pan saidThis guy's in his 60s...

    < img src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-cw3wlemrAZI/UriYJO-dwqI/AAAAAAAAAKc/-dA2I6tuS_U/s1600/Tom+Bianchi+3.jpg">

    I need to become a "photographer" so that I can have various hot naked guys hanging out at my house. icon_biggrin.gif

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    Jul 13, 2014 4:31 AM GMT
    http://silverandsmart.blogspot.ca/search/label/Nude
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    Jul 13, 2014 7:45 AM GMT
    There are some very sexy guys in their 40s and 50s but they are very few and far between. The average guy in the street of that age group is not very attractive really. Luckily for us most of the ones that still look good are gay.
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    Jul 13, 2014 7:56 AM GMT
    mikeyslc saidThey give me reason to believe things arent too late, that's for sure. icon_cool.gif


    that what's not too late?
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    Jul 13, 2014 9:11 AM GMT
    You are extremely attractive so it's never too late!

    And no matter what age you are, how you look, how you act, there will always be somebody attracted to you. Keep a positive mindset and you'll be surprised how well things fall into place.
  • mickeyrj

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    Jul 13, 2014 3:38 PM GMT
    I find it a little insulting that people are surprised that a guy in his 50s can still be fit and attractive. It smacks of ageism, but is more likely because that many guys in that age group just haven't put in the effort. I've worked at keeping in shape, but haven't done anything extraordinary that anyone who's maintained a healthy lifestyle couldn't do.
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    Jul 13, 2014 4:46 PM GMT
    mickeyrj saidI find it a little insulting that people are surprised that a guy in his 50s can still be fit and attractive. It smacks of ageism, but is more likely because that many guys in that age group just haven't put in the effort. I've worked at keeping in shape, but haven't done anything extraordinary that anyone who's maintained a healthy lifestyle couldn't do.

    ^This...

    and

    several other factors: At around age 40, more or less, a man reaches the peak of his development as a man, physically, mentally, intellectually, based on what is naturally going to happen to his body. As he chronilogically ages further, other factors kick in to greater importance. If he has abused his body with smoking or excessive drinking or excessive exposure to the sun, the effects of these begin to be quite evident in ways perhaps it was not earlier. Due to the penchant for eating more than one's daily requirement, there is now typically in American society an increase in one's weight, often into the range of some stage of obesity. It is also in one's 40s and 50s that hair loss often commences, if one gets the genetics for thinning or balding, as well as the color change with the appearance of white hairs. Finally, there is the trump card -- what genes did you personally get from your parents. and some guys are going to be a lot luckier than others. An additional deleterious factor a lot of the under 50s are going to have to face who have engaged in tattooing is the aging of these tattoos in conjunction with these other aging factors.

    As one attends regular and frequent high school reunions, the sometimes shocking aging and "shocking" non-aging which occurs is one of the fun aspects of such events. As to the sex appeal, if the stars have aligned on these factors, then yes, guys (and gals) remain attractive. Probably the single biggest downer on the sex appeal aspect is the one most easily controlled by individual effort and will, which is fat. Far too many have lost attractiveness due to being overweight. Living a healthy life with moderation is what pays the benefits to maximize one's genetics.
  • buddycat

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    Jul 13, 2014 6:46 PM GMT
    Saying guys in their 40 and 50s can't be attractive is like saying all 20 somethings are. We all know that is far from the truth.
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    Jul 13, 2014 6:54 PM GMT
    http://www.charlesthomasrogers.com/pages_bodies/bodies.htm

    http://www.charlesthomasrogers.com/pages_fiftyplus/fiftyplus.htm

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    Jul 13, 2014 7:15 PM GMT
    kevex saidno


    Really? Why is that? The vast majority of guys that I have seen on here who are over 40 are in MUCH better shape than you are now at 21. Have you lost all hope of ever being in good shape?
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    Jul 13, 2014 7:41 PM GMT
    strokeme220 said
    kevex saidno


    Really? Why is that? The vast majority of guys that I have seen on here who are over 40 are in MUCH better shape than you are now at 21. Have you lost all hope of ever being in good shape?


    If you read his many ageist comments (under other nom de plumes) you'd realize he's emotionally invested in his hatred.

    I left this site because of people like him, but reading other badly informed messages I came back. Different name, I couldn't retrieve the old one.

    Ironically he'll become that 60 YO guy who is chasing 20 somethings to validate his attractiveness. If you only find youth attractive, growing older will be a daunting experience.


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    Jul 13, 2014 8:57 PM GMT
    To me there is a difference between attractive and sexy. A person who is sexy exudes sex appeal. They do not necessarily have to be attractive in the sense of good looking. Think Clark Gable or Humphrey Bogart. Although being good looking doesn't hurt you in the attractiveness and sex appeal departments.

    I've met guys who were by no stretch of the imagination the typical gay ideal of good looking but they had sex appeal and I've met Greek gods who had none (usually because of their attitude or lack of personality).
  • starboard5

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    Jul 13, 2014 9:49 PM GMT
    Sexiness is subjective. There's no avoiding the truth that age takes its toll on you. But I'd like to believe that even though ageing is inevitable, being old isn't. My mom lived to be 73 but always had the spirit of a young woman. So much depends on what you project, so work on that. Keep fit and, just as important, keep interested. Have a curiosity about something.

    I will turn 60 in less than a year. I can't say I'm in the best shape of my life because age has imposed limitations: I have a lot of arthritis in my spine and my right shoulder and I can't do everything in training I'd like to do. So I accept my limitations and adapt. But in terms of diet and exercise, I've never been healthier. And I wake up every morning with a feeling of happiness and gratitude. I hope that comes across to the people I meet.
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    Jul 13, 2014 9:52 PM GMT
    Life gets better and better as you get older. "Sexy" is pretty unimportant, one bad car crash tomorrow morning on your way to work will change "sexy" in an instant and forever. Kindness, wisdom and clarity are what I enjoy most about getting older. Love my 40s just as much as I loved my 20s and God willing, looking forward to 80! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 13, 2014 10:51 PM GMT
    Kwokpot said
    mikeyslc saidThey give me reason to believe things arent too late, that's for sure. icon_cool.gif

    It's NEVER too late! I only started working out 7 years ago at 46. Started a diet change two years before that. I'm looking and feeling the BEST that I EVER have, and I'm never looking back!

    Good Luck and be well!


    Damn that is so inspirational icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 14, 2014 12:27 AM GMT
    Guys in this age range usually hit on me. Lol, I like some of them, if they're like buff, sorta bears type. Maybe a bear 41 older professional? Lol
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    Jul 14, 2014 2:38 AM GMT
    mikeyslc saidDo sexy guys in their 40's & 50s give you hope?

    Nah. They only want to be with other sexy guys.
  • MikeW

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    Jul 14, 2014 2:54 AM GMT
    No. In their 70s though...
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    Jul 14, 2014 3:06 AM GMT
    eagermuscle said
    mikeyslc saidDo sexy guys in their 40's & 50s give you hope?

    Nah. They only want to be with other sexy guys.


    LOL