Will you go bare if you scored with a straight guy?

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    Jan 10, 2009 1:42 AM GMT
    I will. Did, actually. It's a pattern. Please do not hate nor moralize me.
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    Jan 10, 2009 3:10 AM GMT

    a 'straight' guy that fucks you in the ass is not really straight. We call those closet cases. And yes, it was incredibly stupid for you to not use protection. Imagine how many other 'straight' guys he had sex with before you. And we've all heard the routine...'dude I never do this' or 'I have a gf' or 'I've never been with a guy'. I suppose if you're dumb enough to fall for those lines, you're also dumb enough to make the mistake of not using a condom. Remember there are some things you cant take back.

    ah! gay men can be such idiots.
  • Thirdbeach

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    Jan 10, 2009 3:37 AM GMT
    FBfugitive saidI will. Did, actually. It's a pattern. Please do not hate nor moralize me.


    Saying something like that makes me think you are thirtywhore. icon_lol.gif

    I'm just saying.
  • Timbales

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    Jan 10, 2009 3:47 AM GMT
    bare? as in no condoms?

    That's stupid. Always condoms - always. When you always do something, you don't forget.
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    Jan 10, 2009 4:38 AM GMT
    Thirdbeach said
    FBfugitive saidI will. Did, actually. It's a pattern. Please do not hate nor moralize me.


    Saying something like that makes me think you are thirtywhore. icon_lol.gif

    I'm just saying.

    ah the cover, you're blowing it,.
  • Thirdbeach

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    Jan 10, 2009 4:44 AM GMT
    Fable said
    ah the cover, you're blowing it,.


    You know something I don't?

    I'm just wondering?
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    Jan 10, 2009 6:17 AM GMT
    I'm very sorry was in a bad mood when I wrote this.. just ignore me..
  • EricPrado

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    Jan 10, 2009 9:07 AM GMT
    collegeswimmr said
    a 'straight' guy that fucks you in the ass is not really straight. We call those closet cases. And yes, it was incredibly stupid for you to not use protection. Imagine how many other 'straight' guys he had sex with before you. And we've all heard the routine...'dude I never do this' or 'I have a gf' or 'I've never been with a guy'. I suppose if you're dumb enough to fall for those lines, you're also dumb enough to make the mistake of not using a condom. Remember there are some things you cant take back.

    ah! gay men can be such idiots.



    Ouch. Well that was a bit harsh...

    I do agree with everyone here though. But no, i'm not going to call you stupid or an idiot. I mean, at the time you probably thought it would be alright. Just learn from this man. And I would go get checked if I were you. You have to know that not everything that people tell you is true. And the guy is probably gay...

    Next time don't do it!
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    Jan 10, 2009 1:49 PM GMT
    You ask: "Will you go bare if you scored with a straight guy?"

    My answer: No, never, not once, not ever.
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    Jan 10, 2009 1:57 PM GMT

    1) ALWAYS use a condom.

    2) The guy you let screw you isn't straight: He got off on screwing another man. There are lots of studies around on men who identify themselves as straight but who have sex with other men. They've given rise to the term "Men Who Have Sex With Men" (MSM), which is used often in STI and HIV-AIDS research. Some studies have shown that up to 10% of men who report as being straight only have sex with other men.

    3) Check with your doctor or a testing clinic and figure out the intervals at which you need to be tested to rule out the (admittedly unlikely) chance that this guy infected you with something.

    Best of luck.
  • Koaa2

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    Jan 10, 2009 3:36 PM GMT
    If I were you I would try and figure out what made you give into this guy, and avoid all sensible knowledge and not use a condom. There must of been some reason, other than you thinking he was straight, that your thinking would let you put your life/health in danger. Lots of people make slips, and do not use condoms, and feel guilty about it later. Try to figure out why you did it, without beating yourself up. I think if he comes back for more, tell him you have to have him use a condom. If he does, you might just be able to relax a little more and have a better time. If he doesn't want to, send him on his way.
    I love getting fucked by "straight" guys!
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    Jan 10, 2009 6:33 PM GMT
    Honest to god, don't you sometimes just want to put an ad out there saying you're straight and want to do it with a guy for the 'first" time? Buy yourself a cheap wedding band and it's even easier ...

    I don't get the fascination, but I do agree that the best thing is to have a policy for yourself. Now, if your policy is, "I always use protection except with straight guys ...", well, both you and your policy may be screwed in the end.

    Besides, that's a bit insulting to gay men!

    but really, "straight" guys are sooooo likely to be a problem re: HIV. They're already in a certain state of denial. It doesn't take much to extend that denail to "I won't get HIV because I only top" or "I only mess with young guys who can't be poz." On top of that, they are less likely to ask their docs for an HIV test, since they're unlikely to admit they're having sex with men, or outside their marriage, etc.

    So, no, no BB for nobody, no time. Don't take this as moral advice, I'm in no position to give that to strangers. Take it as health advice.
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    Jan 10, 2009 6:41 PM GMT
    Hell yea. Go for it. Damn, gay dudes can be so judgemental.
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    Jan 10, 2009 7:26 PM GMT
    Your dilluding yourself if you think fucking with a straight guy is automatically safe?

    If that were the case no women would be HIV +

    Be safe, not stupid.

    ...and it's not JUST HIV you should be concerned about contracting and don't forget, if he's ready to fuck you, who else has he fucked?
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    Jan 10, 2009 8:07 PM GMT
    FBfugitive saidI will. Did, actually. It's a pattern. Please do not hate nor moralize me.


    lol
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    Jan 12, 2009 4:36 AM GMT
    FOR THE RECORD, I WORE A CONDOM WHEN HE FUCKED ME BARE!!! hrmpf!!!
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    Jan 12, 2009 5:11 AM GMT
    Ridiculous. That wasn't his first time with a guy. If you can persuade him, so can another gay guy.

    You gotta think about your health, man. A good fuck is fine. But what about the repercussions? Not just HIV, but syphillis, gonorrhea, herpes, etc.

    It is crazy. All because he is/was cute. I'm sorry. I am not going to lay my ass in a hospital bed or at home with some shiznit because of some guy that was cute.
  • tas_515

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    Jan 12, 2009 6:41 PM GMT
    TheGuyNextDoor saidNot hating,, but I would like to smack you if you don't mind... Lemme know when your sense returns.... Grrrr.icon_rolleyes.gif


    Heh, he said don't hate or moralize, so it's OK to smack'm.

    Tim
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    Jan 13, 2009 1:01 AM GMT
    I can't hate you 'cause I don't know you. And I won't wag my finger at ya. But I wish you good health in spite of what happened.

    Like others, I'd give you a loving smack and say "don't do it again!" But I also know from experience and observation that as men we are all vulnerable to making stupid decisions when we are uncontrollably horny and in the midst of a good sweaty fuck. Something about good sense draining from the brain when our dicks stiffen. It doesn' have to be that way - and I like to think most of us learn to listen to that hunky angelic voice gently reminding us to cover over stump when we hump... icon_lol.gif

    Please keep in mind there are three incurable STDs out there:
    1) HIV
    2) Herpes
    3) Hep C

    ... and make your call with your health as you see fit.

    BTW: in Canada it is, by way of precedence form a court case, a criminal offense to have unprotected sex knowing you are infected and not telling your partner before fucking with him/her. IIRC it is called aggravated assault. Just letting you know there may be a law where you live to watch out for - whether you are a victim or a perp...

    Oh yeah, I forgot, knowing my sexual history, and knowing "for sure" the str8 guy's sexual history, I might. It's conditional on me trusting the situation - odds are for me ninety-nine percent the condoms will get used...
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    Jan 13, 2009 1:15 AM GMT
    Foolish man. What is wrong with you? Straight men can carry diseases too. I dont even have bare sex with my boyfriend. Can I suggest you make an appointment with your doctor. Get tested. NOW
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    Jan 13, 2009 12:42 PM GMT
    gymguy1 saidFoolish man. What is wrong with you? Straight men can carry diseases too. I dont even have bare sex with my boyfriend. Can I suggest you make an appointment with your doctor. Get tested. NOW


    Let's just say I live in a cuntry that's 99.99% STD-free.
  • zakariahzol

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    Jan 13, 2009 1:06 PM GMT
    You mean only gay got AIDS. Straights guy having sex with prostitute or Hiv + women cant get AIDS. Thats is the strangest thing I ever heard. Aids didnt discriminated....gays, straights, women , men, white , black, Asian , old , young ....they all can get AIDS.
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    Jan 13, 2009 1:37 PM GMT
    No, I didn't say that nor do I imply it. I mean regardless of sexual orientashun.
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    Jan 13, 2009 3:44 PM GMT
    FBfugitive saidLet's just say I live in a cuntry that's 99.99% STD-free.


    HA HA HA HA HA!!!!

    That is a good one. What country is that? Vatican City? You keep fucking like you live in such a magical place and see what happens.
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    Jan 15, 2009 4:28 AM GMT
    lilTanker saidI'm very sorry was in a bad mood when I wrote this.. just ignore me..
    that is the most hateful thing I've eve seen.







    just playing; at least you're man enough to censor yourself.