Why do oppressed people oppress people?

  • Nearon

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    Jul 17, 2014 7:08 PM GMT
    At my job I'm pretty quiet and even-tempered, I keep to myself. At first I dealt with some mild bullying but it went away once they hired this new kid. He's around my age, kinda scrawny, wears glasses, kind of awkward etc. So the alpha male types I work with often give him a hard time, but he doesn't say anything back to them. I have publicly berated them for picking on this kid and told them to mess with someone their own size but they just laugh it off.

    So here I am thinking I made an ally in this kid, but I notice he will do the very same thing to me what they do to him. Like when I'll politely ask him did he finish completing a task, he'll look at me and roll his eyes. Like, obviously he's not afraid of me, but he's sure as shit afraid of those guys. I've even overheard him laughing along, trying to fit in when once of the guys in the "alpha" group were making fun of me. And I am the one who stood up for this kid when they were picking on him. I really don't get people like that who don't understand the cycle the abuse and how to break it. It's an awful cycle and I guess I'm on the VERY bottom of the food chain since other nerds and misfits think they can get their licks in on me as well.

    Has anyone experienced this? Is there a clinical term for people who have experienced bullying but turn around and bully others? It's something that has always fascinated me.
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    Jul 17, 2014 7:10 PM GMT
    More stupid dumb inane shit from the biggest loser and fake account in this site. Please, jump off a cliff.
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    Jul 17, 2014 7:12 PM GMT
    kevex saidMore stupid dumb inane shit from the biggest loser and fake account in this site. Please, jump off a cliff.

    like for real ?
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    Jul 17, 2014 7:14 PM GMT
    Okajuurou said
    kevex saidMore stupid dumb inane shit from the biggest loser and fake account in this site. Please, jump off a cliff.

    like for real ?


    Yes. The guy is a fake account that spams the forums with these idiotic stories that never happened. Even sadder is the fact that hundreds of mororns on this site will feed his self worth by commenting pretty things here.
  • Nearon

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    Jul 18, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    kevex saidMore stupid dumb inane shit from the biggest loser and fake account in this site. Please, jump off a cliff.


    Fall the fuck back, ugly fat faggot. If you think my threads are "trolling" scroll right on past them and keep it moving.

    Ugly, miserable, insecure, catty, stuck up, bitter, jaded homosexual.
  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 18, 2014 2:49 AM GMT
    I'm wondering where the hell you work where behavior like this is tolerated by anyone. icon_confused.gif
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    Jul 18, 2014 3:32 AM GMT
    Bunjamon saidI'm wondering where the hell you work where behavior like this is tolerated by anyone. icon_confused.gif


    No where. It's all bullshit. He keeps inventing these unlikely stupid stories to get people's attention.
  • mybud

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    Jul 18, 2014 3:39 AM GMT
    Nearon..I told you this several times,you need Therapy...Lots of it...Awe fuck bye.