Disliking anal sex...

  • woow

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    Jul 18, 2014 12:22 AM GMT
    I'm a self-defined gay man who's not interested in anal sex. I've tried (mostly topping, and bottoming was just not pleasurable really) but it's just not my thing, and im happy with have little or none of it. I enjoy kissing, oral sex (giving and receiving) and other activities as mutual masturbation, frot, and even a few tickling with a finger in the anus area (I don't find anuses horrible by themselves). I enjoy the pleasure of contact and orgasms are just great. I'm wondering if there are more men like me in here who are nit centring their lifes in anal sex. I know that there are many who dissagree strongly with me saying that penetration is everything (I wonder if just getting fucked, literally with no other thing involved count as sex to many, but a nice session of many sexual activities but anal sex, would count). However, I just want to know if I'm alone in this.
    I would highly prefer people thinking like me posting than just people against posting rude and offensive comments
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    Jul 18, 2014 12:29 AM GMT
    No, you're not alone. There have similar posts like this before.

    I've never done anything anal (except being fingered but only briefly) and I honestly do not care for it.
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    Jul 18, 2014 12:34 AM GMT
    Having/enjoying anal sex is not a prerequisite for being gay. Be yourself, have sex the way you want to and find someone with the same interests as you. icon_smile.gif
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    Jul 18, 2014 12:39 AM GMT
    You're not alone. I'll admit that there are times when I can get into it, but my life would not end without it. Just the naked skin on skin contact with another man is enough for me. I love the athletic male body and there are so many ways to explore it and adore it. Anal sex does not have to define gay sex.
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    Jul 18, 2014 12:40 AM GMT
    Really odd how the poop hole seems to bring a vast amount of pleasure and you know what??

    The other day I was listening to the radio. Rock station KUPD and the DJ'S- str8 were really talking up......ANAL and how it's better than the pussy. I just couldn't take it. SO now the str8 have finally found out what is tighter??? LOL

    Top vs. Bottom are all labels in the gay subculture. It's ok I guess for those who want it. I don't really care either way. I am not here to be anyone's fuck toy or expect that from another guy......But I will say this......

    You better be packing something more than 2 inches. HAHAA
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    Jul 18, 2014 12:40 AM GMT
    You are NOT alone....sex and the pleasure of it are more than a physical reaction......it is in the brain! Sex is as unique and different as the individuals having sex. Never been a competition and certainly not about doing "right".....Enjoy sexy the way you like it......in millions of years and BILLIONS of people.....can any of us REALLY claim that we are the first and only one to like oral or Tantric sex over anal penetration?...icon_cool.gif now come over here hotness....LOVE to blow you! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 18, 2014 12:43 AM GMT
    You're not alone. I don't mind it with someone I truly care about because it's more about the intimacy and thought of it than the act itself. Otherwise it's not a huge deal to me.
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    Jul 18, 2014 1:13 AM GMT
    I actually find anal sex quite distasteful.
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    Jul 18, 2014 1:15 AM GMT
    Definitely not alone.
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    Jul 18, 2014 2:13 AM GMT
    I agree. I'm versatile, but for the past 10 year friendship with a top fb, I've finally started to enjoy being bottom. When I was younger, if a guy did not play with my cock while fucking me, the sex was from uncomfortable to boring.
    My 1st time, at age 22, the guy tore my butt with his space shuttle shaped cock. I've had hemmorhoids that show up sometimes I think from that event.

    I really enjoy watching a guy do his most private dance in me. So much so that when it's my turn, I don't like being watched. I have to close my eyes to relax, accept the love of topping and being admired.
    In my 20's, when a guy would fuck me for a long time, I would start moaning, cooing, kissing etc while thinking, "Just cum and get the fuck off of me!".

    I broke up with my friend for a while years ago and found a versatile guy to be with and when I could top him (since I hadn't been allowed for so many years with my fb friend that), I trully enjoyed myself and heard, "boy your greedy".

    I'd like to find a versatile guy who doesn't need anal every week. I definitely do not like a finger up my butt, it's too hard. I've had a small and a long rubber cock toy once and the long one felt better because it took a longer time with each stroke. But I was too embarrassed to keep them in my home so they got trashed.
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    Jul 18, 2014 2:16 AM GMT
    You are definitely not alone in this. It's just not talked about very often.

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  • Bunjamon

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    Jul 18, 2014 2:53 AM GMT
    Kuestion saidHaving/enjoying anal sex is not a prerequisite for being gay. Be yourself, have sex the way you want to and find someone with the same interests as you. icon_smile.gif


    This.
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    Jul 18, 2014 4:11 AM GMT
    Tushies can be cute. That's why they call them tushies. But ass is gross. That's why they call it ass. They put it all the way in the back so you don't have to look at it. If it was pretty like penis they'd have put it up front and center where you could show it off without looking like your trying to get your head up your ass.

    You might have noticed farts come out of your ass. They designed it like that on purpose. That's so you can walk away from your farts. Otherwise you'd walk into them. Eww. And nothing that smells like fart can be good for you. A fart is a warning. Beware of Ass. It's like outdated milk. Here, smell this, does this smell bad? eww.
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    Jul 18, 2014 4:25 AM GMT
    I wish guys would be interested in anal sex with me.
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    Jul 18, 2014 5:29 AM GMT
    You may never like it, but it's an acquired taste. I didn't like it till I was in my mid 30s. Doesn't mean a thing....still GAY! lol
  • Mohannned

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    Jul 18, 2014 6:08 AM GMT
    I like the idea of it
    I like it on porn ,,, but I hate it in real life (Top or Bottom) ,,, in my country me and u are labeled (sat'hy) in Arabic means superficial
  • buddycat

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    Jul 18, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    Yes, being gay isn't about what you like in bed. I am personally repulsed by anuses and that doesn't make me less gay (of course liking things done to mine does).
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    Jul 18, 2014 8:23 AM GMT
    Mohannned saidin my country me and u are labeled (sat'hy) in Arabic means superficial


    interesting. is it an insult? sounds like it icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 18, 2014 8:35 AM GMT
    I love man-to-man skin contact. The warm touch of the man when he runs his hand over my body, his fingers playing along is heaven for me.Never been primarily attracted or interested in fucking a guy or getting fucked. Its the man that attracts me not his erect tool or his tight hole. But i am still gay. Am I not? icon_rolleyes.gif
  • Mohannned

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    Jul 18, 2014 8:42 AM GMT
    JackBoneTX said
    Mohannned saidin my country me and u are labeled (sat'hy) in Arabic means superficial


    interesting. is it an insult? sounds like it icon_biggrin.gif


    actually it's not ,,, hear this out
    Tops called Mojeb means positive
    Bottoms called Salib means negative lol
    versatiles are the only ones got a right translation icon_lol.gif
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    Jul 18, 2014 9:28 AM GMT
    Mohannned said
    JackBoneTX said
    Mohannned saidin my country me and u are labeled (sat'hy) in Arabic means superficial


    interesting. is it an insult? sounds like it icon_biggrin.gif


    actually it's not ,,, hear this out
    Tops called Mojeb means positive
    Bottoms called Salib means negative lol
    versatiles are the only ones got a right translation icon_lol.gif


    you hear that bottoms?? yer all negative!


    /runs
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    Jul 18, 2014 10:24 AM GMT
    I'm bi and have never been into anal at all too. Even with girls it is just not for me.
  • woow

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    Jul 18, 2014 11:59 AM GMT
    I'm quite impressed with all the responses icon_biggrin.gif (and the so little amount of trolling). It's cool to know there are more like-minded blokes around.
    Just to be clear. I don't think anal sex is horrible and a crime. I just don't like it really. I don't think anuses are ugly. Many blokes I've met have a very pretty bum and anus. Unfortunately, most men I've met go directly to: "top or bottom?" and if I say "neither" they quite freak out icon_sad.gif. I won't change my view just to please people. Anyway, I would like to find people who care little for anal sex, as something that might happen once in a while, but definitely is not an common "meal". However, it's not easy

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    Jul 18, 2014 12:46 PM GMT
    woow saidI'm quite impressed with all the responses icon_biggrin.gif (and the so little amount of trolling). It's cool to know there are more like-minded blokes around.
    Just to be clear. I don't think anal sex is horrible and a crime. I just don't like it really. I don't think anuses are ugly. Many blokes I've met have a very pretty bum and anus. Unfortunately, most men I've met go directly to: "top or bottom?" and if I say "neither" they quite freak out icon_sad.gif. I won't change my view just to please people. Anyway, I would like to find people who care little for anal sex, as something that might happen once in a while, but definitely is not an common "meal". However, it's not easy



    There's that whole g0y thing (is that still a thing?) but they also claim that not wanting to fuck means they're not gay, either, so it may be baggage you don't want to wade into.
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    Jul 18, 2014 1:17 PM GMT
    It would be nice if the general public, gay and straight, knew that not all gay men engage in anal sex. It would separate a perceived "act" from a person's sexuality.