I want a sexual fling with an older guy

  • Lewnatic

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    Jul 18, 2014 3:36 PM GMT
    By older, I mean early-mid thirties. I don't really know why I want one... Perhaps it's because the first person I ever did anything with was off Grindr, and he was 31 while I was 19. I've used Grindr perhaps 4 times since, but never again for a hook up.

    Am I weird? Should I act on this?
  • Destinharbor

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    Jul 18, 2014 3:48 PM GMT
    No, you're not weird. Don't ever be afraid to try new things. Experience is how you decide what's right for you. And stop worrying about what others think. Who says they've got the right answers, though some will certainly believe they do, and they will be unpleasant in telling you how to live your life.
  • Lewnatic

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    Jul 18, 2014 4:34 PM GMT
    Thank you icon_smile.gif. I guess I should be more open to things! Not sure how to go about meeting such a guy but whatever!
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    Jul 18, 2014 6:18 PM GMT
    Lewnatic saidNot sure how to go about meeting such a guy


    Just ask them to form an orderly queue.
  • Lewnatic

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    Jul 18, 2014 6:31 PM GMT
    Oh, you. icon_wink.gif
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    Jul 19, 2014 11:00 PM GMT
    When I was 16 I was banging with guys in their 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's.

    Hot is hot. Bang who you think is hot.

    Play safe.
  • takashi

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    Jul 19, 2014 11:17 PM GMT
    Early mid-thirties is Older??

    If you are still in your teens and legal, them by all means go for older men.
    They have the experience.
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    Jul 19, 2014 11:29 PM GMT
    GAMRican saidWhen I was 16 I was banging with guys in their 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's.

    Hot is hot. Bang who you think is hot.

    Play safe.
    Wow. My parents would've killed me for staying out past 12
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Jul 24, 2014 5:07 PM GMT
    Lewnatic saidBy older, I mean early-mid thirties. I don't really know why I want one... Perhaps it's because the first person I ever did anything with was off Grindr, and he was 31 while I was 19. I've used Grindr perhaps 4 times since, but never again for a hook up.

    Am I weird? Should I act on this?


    If you find the dude attractive, and the feeling is reciprocal, why wouldn't you enjoy a romp in the hay? Why is this "weird"?

    Remember that "Poor is the man whose pleasures depend on the permission of the others."

    SC
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    Jul 24, 2014 5:39 PM GMT
    Ajjax said
    GAMRican saidWhen I was 16 I was banging with guys in their 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's.

    Hot is hot. Bang who you think is hot.

    Play safe.
    Wow. My parents would've killed me for staying out past 12


    There was this evening. I was 15. I lived in a two-story townhouse in West Broward where I could unlock my balcony door and quietly climb down. While in neutral, I quietly rolled the car out of the parking space and down the street until I could start the car without being heard.

    Long story short, when I got back a little too late (circa 0600am), my dad had taken the other car to work and my balcony door was now locked.

    My mother and I had "a conversation".
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    Aug 02, 2014 12:09 AM GMT
    Lewnatic saidBy older, I mean early-mid thirties. I don't really know why I want one... Perhaps it's because the first person I ever did anything with was off Grindr, and he was 31 while I was 19. I've used Grindr perhaps 4 times since, but never again for a hook up.

    Am I weird? Should I act on this?


    If "older" means 30s, then I'm dead at 52!

    Arrgh!
  • whytehot

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    Aug 02, 2014 6:16 AM GMT
    As a 32 year old, I highly recommend it. No conflict of interest at all. rolleyes.gif
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    Aug 02, 2014 8:07 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidbanging with guys in their 20's, 30's, 40's and 50's.

    Hot is hot. Bang who you think is hot.

    Play safe.


    +1

    BTW, those older 30 year olds will most likely have had a lot more sexual experience than the 20 year olds of your social millieu. You might have a much better time with a 30 year old than a 20 year old guy.