Odd behavior

  • whytehot

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    Jul 19, 2014 1:03 AM GMT
    I can't seem to understand this situation... perhaps someone can explain this guy's motivations:

    I messaged him on jack'd. His response was "text me #######" We don't know anything about each other including our names, so I texted him mine, with my screenname, and he gave me his. He asks for my facebook, I declined, saying I only add people I know. Then he asked for a face pic, even though I had one on my profile, but I sent it again anyway. He texted me a lot in the next day or so, and tonight we're going out, and he's already made plans for the next time we go out.

    But when our plans for tonight are almost finalized, he said he forgot how I look like, then asks if he can stay over since it's hard for him to go home late at night.

    It makes no sense, the only explanation I can think of is either
    a) he's a slut willing to sleep with anyone
    b) he wants to rob me in my sleep lol
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    Jul 19, 2014 3:11 AM GMT
    So who's the guy next to you in your photo?
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    Jul 19, 2014 3:52 AM GMT
    He asked for your FB because he wanted to see more pics of you and possibly to make sure you were real.

    Most likely asked to stay over so that way sex is almost definite.

    I wouldn't trust anyone i don't know sleeping next to me though.
    Hopefully he isn't going to try and rob you... Good luck! icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jul 19, 2014 3:54 AM GMT
    This doesn't sound kosher to me. Danger Will Robinson, danger!
  • PRDGUY

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    Jul 19, 2014 6:27 AM GMT
    Major mental illness perhaps? I agree with what was said above- actually was going to put it down until I saw it was already there ...which speaks to my generation
    as the robot says: danger Will Robinson danger
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 19, 2014 6:35 AM GMT
    time to say buh-bye!
  • whytehot

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    Jul 19, 2014 7:06 AM GMT
    He then said he'll have to cancel if he can't stay over, so I pretended to change my mind just to see how it plays out.

    He suggests we go get some g, I ask what's that, and he's like "er the drug, wtf r u new to the scene? oh btw if I come out will it be fun? and will we sleep together?"

    I half-joked he must be on drugs already to be saying these things, and he explains he's taking T3 for a fallen arch in his foot.

    I stopped replying and turned my attentions to a less-hot but saner back-up date lol. After a few minutes silence the first guy started cursing at me. A shame since he was so nice and normal-sounding for the last couple days.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Jul 19, 2014 7:53 AM GMT
    Sounds like he's probably a crack head looking for someone to rip off
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    Jul 19, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    whytehot saidHe then said he'll have to cancel if he can't stay over, so I pretended to change my mind just to see how it plays out.

    He suggests we go get some g, I ask what's that, and he's like "er the drug, wtf r u new to the scene? oh btw if I come out will it be fun? and will we sleep together?"

    I half-joked he must be on drugs already to be saying these things, and he explains he's taking T3 for a fallen arch in his foot.

    I stopped replying and turned my attentions to a less-hot but saner back-up date lol. After a few minutes silence the first guy started cursing at me. A shame since he was so nice and normal-sounding for the last couple days.


    I'm sure your back-up date would be thrilled to hear they were choice number 2.
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    Jul 19, 2014 4:03 PM GMT
    go_dreaming said
    whytehot saidHe then said he'll have to cancel if he can't stay over, so I pretended to change my mind just to see how it plays out.

    He suggests we go get some g, I ask what's that, and he's like "er the drug, wtf r u new to the scene? oh btw if I come out will it be fun? and will we sleep together?"

    I half-joked he must be on drugs already to be saying these things, and he explains he's taking T3 for a fallen arch in his foot.

    I stopped replying and turned my attentions to a less-hot but saner back-up date lol. After a few minutes silence the first guy started cursing at me. A shame since he was so nice and normal-sounding for the last couple days.


    I'm sure your back-up date would be thrilled to hear they were choice number 2.


    Oh come on, it's just dating. If anyone gets mad for being number two they must have some issues already.

    Except when a guy cancels a already set up date because somebody more attractive came into the game later. Which doesn't sound like this situation.
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    Jul 19, 2014 4:21 PM GMT
    I suggest you chase after this guy because from your posts on here, you're a real douchebag and should be thankful for whatever dates you can get. Seriously.
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    Jul 19, 2014 4:29 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidI suggest you chase after this guy because from your posts on here, you're a real douchebag and should be thankful for whatever dates you can get. Seriously.


    My suggestion as well. Seriously.
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    Jul 19, 2014 5:33 PM GMT
    dustin_K_tx said
    Scruffypup saidI suggest you chase after this guy because from your posts on here, you're a real douchebag and should be thankful for whatever dates you can get. Seriously.


    My suggestion as well. Seriously.


    I concur wholeheartedly.
  • whytehot

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    Jul 19, 2014 6:39 PM GMT
    lol who r u and what's ur beef?
  • FRE0

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    Jul 20, 2014 1:10 AM GMT
    whytehot saidI can't seem to understand this situation... perhaps someone can explain this guy's motivations:

    I messaged him on jack'd. His response was "text me #######" We don't know anything about each other including our names, so I texted him mine, with my screenname, and he gave me his. He asks for my facebook, I declined, saying I only add people I know. Then he asked for a face pic, even though I had one on my profile, but I sent it again anyway. He texted me a lot in the next day or so, and tonight we're going out, and he's already made plans for the next time we go out.

    But when our plans for tonight are almost finalized, he said he forgot how I look like, then asks if he can stay over since it's hard for him to go home late at night.

    It makes no sense, the only explanation I can think of is either
    a) he's a slut willing to sleep with anyone
    b) he wants to rob me in my sleep lol


    Dump him. He's unreliable.
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    Jul 20, 2014 3:08 AM GMT
    Sounds like a flake or a catfish.
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    Jul 20, 2014 3:32 AM GMT
    Seriously? The guy just wants to cuddle.
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    Jul 20, 2014 3:59 AM GMT
    okay, i'm just gonna stop you at the sentence "I messaged him on jack'd"

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    Jul 20, 2014 6:09 PM GMT
    In "reconsidering your ex" You wrote on June 30th "We've been back together for about a week now."

    You dumped him, if I remember correctly (I'm going to reread this BS) for some inane reason, then found out he was famous for some design work and you wanted him back. (I said he should run away) You got him back, only NOW to tell of your exploits on Grindr.

    Flake.
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    Jul 20, 2014 6:38 PM GMT
    RoadsterRacer87 saidokay, i'm just gonna stop you at the sentence "I messaged him on jack'd"

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    What's wrong with Jack'd? Of all the apps, it was the only one where I ended up dating some of the people I met there. More spontaneous than POF, and less hookup-oriented than Grindr and similar, IMO.
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    Jul 20, 2014 9:20 PM GMT
    gooddaytoday said
    RoadsterRacer87 saidokay, i'm just gonna stop you at the sentence "I messaged him on jack'd"

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    What's wrong with Jack'd? Of all the apps, it was the only one where I ended up dating some of the people I met there. More spontaneous than POF, and less hookup-oriented than Grindr and similar, IMO.


    oh christ its the worst of the lot. nothing but fakes, frauds, horndogs and liars. The number of freaks on there is mind-boggling.
  • whytehot

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    Jul 20, 2014 9:40 PM GMT
    timmm55 saidIn "reconsidering your ex" You wrote on June 30th "We've been back together for about a week now."

    You dumped him, if I remember correctly (I'm going to reread this BS) for some inane reason, then found out he was famous for some design work and you wanted him back. (I said he should run away) You got him back, only NOW to tell of your exploits on Grindr.

    Flake.


    I should never have mentioned the "famous" part; that totally derailed the thread. Anyway he left last week to Paris for the next month and a bit; the trust isn't there to do long-distance yet so we'll resume when he gets back. Not exactly something I'd like to announce with a follow-up post. Call it an open relationship, since it somehow sounds better than "fear of commitment" around these parts.
  • glowstik

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    Jul 20, 2014 9:48 PM GMT
    Back up date ha ha , if you're gonna be top dawg you gotta be the hottest and always one step ahead of the grindR/jackD boy bots.
  • mybud

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    Jul 21, 2014 4:42 AM GMT
    You jus like bumpin uglies wif dem cray-crays.....