Dildo or butt plug?

  • Jexxo

    Posts: 28

    Jul 19, 2014 8:22 AM GMT
    Hey guys

    I've always been a complete top but recently have got kinda curious about bottoming! I want to get a toy to play with first to get used to it before the real thing but don't know whether to start with a butt plug or dildo?

    Never had anything up there before so I'm gonna be super tight! :/

  • Apparition

    Posts: 3516

    Jul 19, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
    get a christmas tree shaped one with different sized balls on a stick kind of shape. Take as much or as little as you want.
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    Jul 19, 2014 10:35 PM GMT
    Jexxo saidHey guys

    I've always been a complete top but recently have got kinda curious about bottoming! I want to get a toy to play with first to get used to it before the real thing but don't know whether to start with a butt plug or dildo?

    Never had anything up there before so I'm gonna be super tight! :/



    Use your fingers first.
    Trim your nails.
    Buy some "finger cots".
    Get a couple of different types of lube and learn how to pleasure yourself first.

    Dildos are generally for active play, unless you get a special harness to keep it in. Butt plugs are generally for longer term insertion (like going out for the afternoon on a bike ride or such), but you can work one in and out for that fucked feeling.

    With either dildos or butt plugs which you've got inside of you if you adventure out...
    Don't stray too far from home in case you get the sudden urge to expel. It can be a bit embarassing if you're in the supermarket and it drops out and down your pant leg or out of your shorts.