4 when we first get in bed, and when we wake in the morning. 3 is how we usually sleep, both of us on our sides, best for our backs. I'm on the right. We can't spoon all night, we both move around in our sleep, and too hot in Florida, even with A/C.
Although 5 also partially represents us, but both bare ass, me under a sheet, him often not.
What's missing is the way we typically fall asleep, just holding hands. And sometimes, if we both find ourselves reawakened on a restless night, we'll hold hands again, until we fall back to sleep. His touch reassures and relaxes me, as I think mine does for him.