What is your "DEAL BREAKERS" when it comes to dating

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    Jul 22, 2014 10:12 PM GMT
    Name one personality trait and one physical trait that are TRUE deal breakers for you.

    Smoking and dishonesty top my list of deal breakers.icon_neutral.gif
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    Jul 22, 2014 10:26 PM GMT
    If I don't like you.
  • FuerteC

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    Jul 22, 2014 10:54 PM GMT
    No recreational or hard drugs. No smoking. Too many tattoos is a no no. Healthy men.
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    Jul 22, 2014 11:44 PM GMT
    Willful ignorance

    Religiosity

    Arrogance

    Attention whoring

    Elitism

    Racism
  • jgymnast733

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    Jul 23, 2014 1:22 AM GMT
    No Ambition
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    Bad teeth...............
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    Jul 23, 2014 10:58 AM GMT
    kevex saidWillful ignorance

    Religiosity

    Arrogance

    Attention whoring

    Elitism

    Racism


    You say it perfectly. I hate attention whoring that's a "no no"for me.
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    Jul 23, 2014 11:11 AM GMT
    Bipolarism, any mental case, dishonesty, lack of self grooming, lack of education, alcoholism, drug abuse, unemployed icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Jul 23, 2014 11:36 AM GMT
    I agree with most of the ones already said, but also
    someone with bad breath and/or smokes (which usually go together),
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    Jul 23, 2014 11:49 AM GMT
    A flake
  • dabcrt

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    Jul 23, 2014 12:19 PM GMT
    Must have the three shuns, (education, occupation, transportation) otherwise it is a NO GOicon_razz.gif
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    Jul 23, 2014 12:30 PM GMT
    Smoking

    Heavy drugs

    Dishonesty

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    Jul 23, 2014 12:51 PM GMT
    For me, he Must be able to hold a conversation that doesn't involve sex and gay scene issues and be of reasonable intelligence

    Must be attractive but not conceited. Particularly guys who say their fit and can't keep pace with me when we go out into the wide world

    Guys who take the idea of looking good and feeling healthy to extremes and spend their whole time in the gym or fussing over not having one single meal that isn't completely fitting their diet

    Guys who are hypocritical of me and others ie. I hate smokers but I drink heavily. I get people have preferences but hypocracy can be a serous character floor

    Overly critical people who point out the failings of others when their is no reason to or impact on them for people making adult choices good or bad

    Guys who hate sports and even more so if you spend a lot of time in the gym and proclaiming your fitness. To me that shows you are just doing it for show

    Selfish lovers who show no geniune care for me as their lover also if they don't care about their own physical/sexual needs that something maybe of concern about their motives

    Guys who live their whole lives in a gay village triangle and not even willing to explore this great city, state and nation of ours

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    Jul 23, 2014 1:20 PM GMT
    Smoking.
    Not being able to talk about anything but himself.
    Lack of patience.
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    Jul 23, 2014 1:21 PM GMT
    Smoker, to many tattoos (a few is ok), Drugs, fem acting...Luckily the majority of guys are ok.
  • HndsmKansan

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    Jul 23, 2014 1:22 PM GMT
    Personality trait: Unfriendly towards others

    Physical: lack of cleanliness with bodily care.
  • ATLRuff

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    Jul 23, 2014 1:29 PM GMT
    Men in "chaste" relationships or still living with an ex--and guys who still cling to their mothers.
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    Jul 23, 2014 2:24 PM GMT
    Feminine guys and "know it alls".
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    Jul 23, 2014 2:30 PM GMT
    1. Lack of Honesty

    2. Immaturity

    3. Too much drama

    4. Lack of communication

    5. Being overly social (too worried about social status)

    6. Too selfish


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    Jul 23, 2014 3:19 PM GMT
    1. Not crazy but thinks I'm hot.

    2. Healthy , fit- muscular ,
  • CuriousJockAZ

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    Jul 23, 2014 3:26 PM GMT
    smoking, bad breath, a snob, lack of ambition, mean-spirited, too many tatts, drug or alcohol abuse, and piercings are all pretty easy deal-breakers for me
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    Jul 23, 2014 3:35 PM GMT
    Drug user, alcoholic, horrible teeth, racist, too political, tattoos (either too many, specific designs or in specific places, it really depends), wearing make up, or who are too sedentary.
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    Jul 23, 2014 3:54 PM GMT
    There's a lot of crap I won't put up with for one second from strangers in person or online. Like if someone tries to mischaracterize me or puts words to me that I did not say or tells me that my vote isn't worth what their vote is, I immediately tell them to fuck off.

    Disrespect me and expect disrespect in kind. Be kind and I will be kind in kind.

    I really can put up with a lot of crap from someone already in my life though. I've even dedicated decades to a family member with a personality disorder, putting up with so many years of abuse until the bitch broke the camel's back with the depths of her depravity.

    Even I will eventually walk away from that as need be, even as sadly as that might be. I generally try to be live and let live. I never try to live someone's life for them and I do not allow them to live mine for me. I believe in sharing lives, in intersecting not overtaking the other.

    I recognize that everyone has their own peculiarities. I certainly have mine--and I quite do enjoy them. And I allow for that in others. In them and in myself. We are individuals and we should be creative with that.

    Where I draw the line, build a wall, dig a mote and fill it with alligators, light a barrier of fire, don a Kevlar suit, is when someone tries purposely to hurt me--for whatever their reason. That is my deal breaker and there's no coming back from it. That person has revealed their hand and their character and no slight of hand will hide that card again. I will always see it on their forehead and I will walk away from that deal every time hence.

    The more they act upon their vindictiveness, the more they obsess and stalk, the more they make themselves look the fool, they show everyone else that their true nature. I reach down for them to the bottom of my heart but all I find there for them is pity.
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    Jul 23, 2014 4:00 PM GMT
    SpainDude saidBipolarism, any mental case, dishonesty, lack of self grooming, lack of education, alcoholism, drug abuse, unemployed icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Douchebag alert.


    A deal breaker for me would be someone who can't stop talking about himself and doesn't show any interest in other people.
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    Jul 23, 2014 4:16 PM GMT
    If you're a huge meany and if you bring down others.
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    Jul 23, 2014 4:18 PM GMT
    SpainDude saidBipolarism, any mental case, dishonesty, lack of self grooming, lack of education, alcoholism, drug abuse, unemployed icon_rolleyes.gif
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    You named all of them...especially...

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