Jul 23, 2014 2:12 AM GMT
Your photos are like writing a CV; you want to look good, but without straying into bragging territory. Firstly, try to avoid cliché. Also, all selfies? You look like you have no friends. All group shots? It's impossible to tell which one you are. It's RJ, not Guess Who.
Witty one-liners such as "I'm just looking for my RJrella" get old fast, and tangential quotations from celebrities aren't helpful. Mr Mark Twain once observed, "It is better to keep your mouth closed and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt."
3.It's a jock site,
not advertising space
This should go without saying, but some are using it to promote their latest business venture. No, you're not an "RJrepeneur", you're an idiot.
4.Don't be a man whore
Some guys like to play the numbers game and reply yes to everyone. Sadly, this will probably work, but will yield results of questionable quality. Maybe try first only replying to the ones you actually fancy and then resorting to the blunderbuss approach if you don't get any matches.
5.You'll probably have to make the first move
Due to the aforementioned numbers game, masculine men get far more matches than others, so you'll probably need to be the one following up on the initial contact. Just avoid the depressingly obvious opening gambit of "Hey, sexy!"
6.Don't be weird
Interact with guys as you would at a baseball game. Yes, try to be interesting, but don't employ stupid pick-up lines, and it's best not to share your bizarre sexual fantasies until several conversations in (or never, fantasy depending).
Apparently bad spellign and grammar are a big turn-off, as r poamess abrv8ions.
8.Take note: RJ isn't for everyone
If you generally rely on your charisma rather than your looks to get guys, maybe this "judge a book by its cover" site isn't for you. Get out into the real world, Casanova.