styrgan saidPosts like this make me think that gays have really lost all sense of sexual freedom.
You guys make it sound like your cock is some sacred object. Do you seriously feel "violated" if someone grabs you at a club?
Your sexual "freedom" ends where someone who does not give consent begins. Being gay doesn't give you the right to molest anyone against their will. This isn't the '70s anymore.
Grab my crotch WITHOUT talking to me first? That's what I call asking for a right hook.
Well for starters...
"I personally prefer not to be groped, so I try to visit establishments where that doesn't happen. But if it does, I'm not going to complain or make a scene about it."
If you don't want someone touching you, just remove their hands from you and firmly tell them not to touch you. It's not as big of a deal as you're all making it.
Some bars and clubs are just more wild than others. If you don't like that particular club, go to one that is more inline with your level of sexual openness. There's really no need to start a fight or go nuts about it. And in case you're wondering, I've heard a few stories where such a fight has occurred and the person who delivered the blow was always charged with assault.
Next off, you're g0y... do you even go to gay clubs? Isn't that against the self-depreciating worldview that is g0y?