Jul 29, 2014 6:15 PM GMT
So I have this straight? Friend who I've known for 4 years we have become very tight so much that everyone we know thinks we are a real couple! He says he doesn't care and I've also started to notice that we go on double dates with other couples and he seems to really like it. If only known him to be with one girl this whole time and he said they had sex all the time but after they broke up she told me that they never had sex and it was part of the problem she told me she thought he was gay. Anyway one time I even went to his job and his boss had asked me how long have we been together I then start to think and realized I was in love with him. I told him how I felt and he said he didn't feel the same so I left it alone, after I told him he became very sweet to me and it was like he was happy to know I liked him soon after he took me home to meet his mother and after I left the house she freaked out on him and asked him if I was his boyfriend to which he told her it was none of her business and no he was not gay. Now he's pulled away from me and is always talking about girls he likes but then he stares at me and saying things around our friends when we hangout like how I'm his date and sometimes he calls me the wife!? When we are out he pays for me, will pick me up anywhere in his car and even go to my doctors appointments even take me to his job so I can hangout in his office all day! I'm so confused sometimes I think he's confused about his sexuality and sometimes I think he's straight. And btw if I hangout with other men he gets very jealous! He even admits it he what's me to be with him at all times when he's available. I'm mad for him but he says he's not interested, I do find it odd that he's never said the words NO or that He wasn't gay!! He just says he doesn't feel the same but I feel he is running away from he's feelings for me. Am I crazy? I don't know what's going on or what I should do! I need help! I'm starting to get depressed and pulling away as we'll I'm even going far away for 10 days just to collect myself! Any advice?