I am 34 and never have wrestled in my entire life. Amateur wrestling looks like a very interesting sport and I think it might help my self-esteem and health to get involved with it. The problem is that I am not in college right now and you have to be REALLY good to get on a college team as previous high school experience is needed. Is there another way I could wrestle? I have heard there are gay wrestling clubs around, but I don't have that information. Im in NJ and I can go to NYC by train, anyone know of any wrestling clubs in the nj/nyc/Philadelphia area?

Im 5'5, weigh 215, but its mostly belly fat. I want to lose weight or gain muscle, but preferably both if possible. Anyhow, if anyone has any information, please im me. Ltr. -JohnnyQHomo7