Glory holes??

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    Jul 31, 2014 4:02 AM GMT
    Just wanted to know your ideas on them. Are they dirty? And is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:09 AM GMT
    Barook saidJust wanted to know your ideas on them. Are they dirty? And is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.


    Glory holes can be clean. All you need is a slave to give both sides a good wipe in between "customers".

    It is only whoreish if there is a transaction of services in return for consideration of value.
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:12 AM GMT
    Only happens in porn.
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:17 AM GMT
    kevex saidOnly happens in porn.


    Nope. Real life.

    http://www.blowbuddies.com/
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:18 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    kevex saidOnly happens in porn.


    Nope. Real life.

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    Jul 31, 2014 4:20 AM GMT
    Barook saidAnd is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.


    Depends on your definition of "whoreish" but, I definitely think the idea of sucking off a random person at one of these things is disgusting.
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:24 AM GMT
    GAMRican saidGlory holes can be clean. All you need is a slave to give both sides a good wipe in between "customers".

    I always thought the dried and sticky half dried cum on the walls added to their allure and ambience. icon_twisted.gif
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:29 AM GMT
    GAMRican said
    kevex saidOnly happens in porn.


    Nope. Real life.

    http://www.blowbuddies.com/


    Yeah. There are a lot of adult book stores in manhattan that have glory holes. That's why I wanted to try it.
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:34 AM GMT
    Barook saidYeah. There are a lot of adult book stores in manhattan that have glory holes. That's why I wanted to try it.

    You're much more likely to catch an STD that way.
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:35 AM GMT
    ACRO_Slim said
    Barook saidAnd is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.


    Depends on your definition of "whoreish" but, I definitely think the idea of sucking off a random person at one of these things is disgusting.


    Ahhh! Judgement! I knew we could expect to see it sooner rather than later.

    Don't forget. There are a lot of people in the world who think that anything sexual between two men is "disgusting".

    Do you really want to go down the road of judgement?

    Are you the one to cast the first stone?
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:36 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Barook saidYeah. There are a lot of adult book stores in manhattan that have glory holes. That's why I wanted to try it.

    You're much more likely to catch an STD that way.


    Anonymous sex does present one dimension of the widest possible universe from which to meet up with an STD vector.
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:39 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Barook saidYeah. There are a lot of adult book stores in manhattan that have glory holes. That's why I wanted to try it.

    You're much more likely to catch an STD that way.


    Yeah that makes sense :/

    Too bad huh. Lol
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:43 AM GMT
    Gonorrhea, NGU, and HPV are 3 things you could get at a glory hole. There may be others, herpes?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gonorrhea
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NGU
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus
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    Jul 31, 2014 4:45 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidGonorrhea, NGU, and HPV are 3 things you could get at a glory hole. There may be others, herpes?

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gonorrhea

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/NGU

    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_papillomavirus


    Absolutely, HSV-1 and HSV-2 are communicable through sex (not just glory hole sex).
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    Jul 31, 2014 5:57 AM GMT
    Yes, there are plenty of glory holes around. They're for when you're desperate to get off, but you wouldn't be able to get it up if you knew what was on the other side.

    (Un?)fortunately, my imagination is too vivid for that to work.
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    Jul 31, 2014 12:13 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
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    Barook saidAnd is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.


    Depends on your definition of "whoreish" but, I definitely think the idea of sucking off a random person at one of these things is disgusting.


    Ahhh! Judgement! I knew we could expect to see it sooner rather than later.

    Don't forget. There are a lot of people in the world who think that anything sexual between two men is "disgusting".

    Do you really want to go down the road of judgement?

    Are you the one to cast the first stone?

    Ok, I'm confused...since when is having an opinion considered judgmental? He didn't say that he thought the guys who did that were disgusting, just what they were doing was disgusting (voicing his opinion). I have to say that I agree with him. I'm not judging anyone that does it; live and let live, and all that, but I would never do that, for a number of reasons, and that's just my opinion.
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    Jul 31, 2014 5:44 PM GMT
    Premedmuscjock said
    GAMRican said
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    Barook saidAnd is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.


    Depends on your definition of "whoreish" but, I definitely think the idea of sucking off a random person at one of these things is disgusting.


    Ahhh! Judgement! I knew we could expect to see it sooner rather than later.

    Don't forget. There are a lot of people in the world who think that anything sexual between two men is "disgusting".

    Do you really want to go down the road of judgement?

    Are you the one to cast the first stone?

    Ok, I'm confused...since when is having an opinion considered judgmental? He didn't say that he thought the guys who did that were disgusting, just what they were doing was disgusting (voicing his opinion). I have to say that I agree with him. I'm not judging anyone that does it; live and let live, and all that, but I would never do that, for a number of reasons, and that's just my opinion.

    You're splitting hairs. If you tell someone that some activity that they engage in is disgusting you're clearly implying that they're disgusting and therefore passing judgement on them.

    For example, I don't like Harry Potter books or movies. If you said you like Harry Potter movies and suggested that we watch a Harry Potter movie and I said that the books and movies are stupid I'm saying that you like stupid things, implying that you're stupid. The safest thing for me to say is that I don't like Harry Potter movies.
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    Jul 31, 2014 6:06 PM GMT
    It used to be fun and hot a decade or two ago I have to reluctantly admit. Would never go now. Upscale Santa Barbara bookstore was a hotspot then. Full house of hot guys especially on weekends. But the dried cum on the walls was always scary.
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    Jul 31, 2014 6:16 PM GMT
    wow I would love to try it in the giving end
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    Jul 31, 2014 9:19 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
    Ahhh! Judgement! I knew we could expect to see it sooner rather than later.

    Don't forget. There are a lot of people in the world who think that anything sexual between two men is "disgusting".

    Do you really want to go down the road of judgement?

    Are you the one to cast the first stone?


    Like I said I think that they are disgusting. I am entitled to my own opinion and that's exactly what the OP was asking for. Sorry not sorry
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    Jul 31, 2014 9:20 PM GMT
    Premedmuscjock said
    Ok, I'm confused...since when is having an opinion considered judgmental? He didn't say that he thought the guys who did that were disgusting, just what they were doing was disgusting (voicing his opinion). I have to say that I agree with him. I'm not judging anyone that does it; live and let live, and all that, but I would never do that, for a number of reasons, and that's just my opinion.


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    Aug 01, 2014 12:28 AM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Premedmuscjock said
    GAMRican said
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    Barook saidAnd is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.


    Depends on your definition of "whoreish" but, I definitely think the idea of sucking off a random person at one of these things is disgusting.


    Ahhh! Judgement! I knew we could expect to see it sooner rather than later.

    Don't forget. There are a lot of people in the world who think that anything sexual between two men is "disgusting".

    Do you really want to go down the road of judgement?

    Are you the one to cast the first stone?

    Ok, I'm confused...since when is having an opinion considered judgmental? He didn't say that he thought the guys who did that were disgusting, just what they were doing was disgusting (voicing his opinion). I have to say that I agree with him. I'm not judging anyone that does it; live and let live, and all that, but I would never do that, for a number of reasons, and that's just my opinion.

    You're splitting hairs. If you tell someone that some activity that they engage in is disgusting you're clearly implying that they're disgusting and therefore passing judgement on them.

    For example, I don't like Harry Potter books or movies. If you said you like Harry Potter movies and suggested that we watch a Harry Potter movie and I said that the books and movies are stupid I'm saying that you like stupid things, implying that you're stupid. The safest thing for me to say is that I don't like Harry Potter movies.


    Exactly! Instead, saying "That practice is not to my own tastes" might be a more enlightened response than calling somebody else's tastes "disgusting".

    I do hope that everybody is engaged in some sort of sexual practice with others may find "disgusting".
    Why?
    For two reasons:
    1. Being on the receiving end of the word "disgusting" can help provide an enlightened sense of empathy which can translate into a more enlightened sense of tolerance towards others.
    2. If you're not doing something "disgusting" to somebody, then you're probably "bad sex", "boring sex" or worse..."annoying sex". And, being any of those three is, well, pitiable.

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    Aug 01, 2014 12:51 AM GMT
    kevex saidOnly happens in porn.

    I still see public men's rooms today with glory holes punched through the stalls. I can't imagine another reason they'd exist if not that they've been used.

    I also know gay guest houses and bathhouses with glory holes in play rooms and so-called man caves. Most are in wooden partitions within a kind of maze, not actually restroom stalls.

    Personally I don't seek that kind of action. If I'm gonna blow a guy, or be blown, I wanna see & touch his whole body. But apparently for some guys it's an exciting recreation of how they've had sex in the past. Maybe for older guys the only way they COULD have sex years ago.
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    Aug 01, 2014 1:27 AM GMT
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    kevex saidOnly happens in porn.

    I still see public men's rooms today with glory holes punched through the stalls. I can't imagine another reason they'd exist if not that they've been used.

    I also know gay guest houses and bathhouses with glory holes in play rooms and so-called man caves. Most are in wooden partitions within a kind of maze, not actually restroom stalls.

    Personally I don't seek that kind of action. If I'm gonna blow a guy, or be blown, I wanna see & touch his whole body. But apparently for some guys it's an exciting recreation of how they've had sex in the past. Maybe for older guys the only way they COULD have sex years ago.


    Yes, these days I sense that this type of anonymous sex in real public (not just in special clubs, or play spaces) is just not as rampant as I saw back in the 1980's.

    "Public Sex" is a very powerful fetish. In Pat Califia's book "Public Sex: The Culture of Radical Sex, 2nd Edition she updates a seminal collection of essays on extreme sexual behavior and the socio-political context. It is really a "must read" for those who have any "disgusting" fantasies or urges (which should be just about everybody).

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    Aug 01, 2014 2:10 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal said
    Premedmuscjock said
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    Barook saidAnd is it whoreish to go there and you know what to a guys ding dong.


    Depends on your definition of "whoreish" but, I definitely think the idea of sucking off a random person at one of these things is disgusting.


    Ahhh! Judgement! I knew we could expect to see it sooner rather than later.

    Don't forget. There are a lot of people in the world who think that anything sexual between two men is "disgusting".

    Do you really want to go down the road of judgement?

    Are you the one to cast the first stone?

    Ok, I'm confused...since when is having an opinion considered judgmental? He didn't say that he thought the guys who did that were disgusting, just what they were doing was disgusting (voicing his opinion). I have to say that I agree with him. I'm not judging anyone that does it; live and let live, and all that, but I would never do that, for a number of reasons, and that's just my opinion.

    You're splitting hairs. If you tell someone that some activity that they engage in is disgusting you're clearly implying that they're disgusting and therefore passing judgement on them.

    For example, I don't like Harry Potter books or movies. If you said you like Harry Potter movies and suggested that we watch a Harry Potter movie and I said that the books and movies are stupid I'm saying that you like stupid things, implying that you're stupid. The safest thing for me to say is that I don't like Harry Potter movies.


    I couldn't disagree more! If I thought something someone liked was stupid (especially someone I knew and liked), I would not think THEY were stupid. Everyone doesn't agree with everything or likes everything everyone else does, so it's not a judgment of them at all. It's MY opinion of that thing, and not of them. It would be a pretty boring world if everyone all agreed on and liked everything the same. So, NO, thinking something someone likes is stupid, or disgusting, does NOT mean that's my opinion of them, unless there are other reasons why I might feel that way about them.