Sexual Fantasies: Are they worth pursuing?

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    Aug 03, 2014 5:09 AM GMT
    I've learned that quite a few men have never looked into the deepest (and dare I say dirtiest) parts of their sexualities to see what truly makes them tick.

    I could preach about how unimportant sexual stuff is but I'd be lying out my ass. It's real easy to preach like that when you've never been with a dude that satisfies you in bed, Yeah, there's a big difference between getting your rocks off and being sexually satisfied...but that's another story.

    I've been lucky enough to have one of my fantasies fulfilled. I knew it wasn't going to be a repeat but I enjoyed it bigtime. So...do you guys think pursuing a sexual fantasy is worth your time or a waste of it? I look forward to the responses!
  • Apparition

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    Aug 03, 2014 2:29 PM GMT
    anything that doesn't do permanent damage is fine.
  • takashi

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    Aug 04, 2014 11:17 AM GMT
    When you look at what is advertised on craigslist personals, there are a whole lot of people looking for very specific situations, such as bbc, bdsm, dad/son, crossdressing, multiple partners, etc. These things are probably very important to these people.
    What is your fantasy?
    I actually fantasize about the things I've done in the past. I was in some strange situations. Cannot possibly recreate those situations now.
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 04, 2014 1:30 PM GMT
    Apparition saidanything that doesn't do permanent damage is fine.

    Yes. This. But be careful. A lot of dicey guys out there. The crazier the fantasy, the less you'll have the luxury of checking out your partners. Some fantasies prob should remain on the internet.
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    Aug 04, 2014 9:11 PM GMT
    Destinharbor said
    Apparition saidanything that doesn't do permanent damage is fine.

    Yes. This. But be careful. A lot of dicey guys out there. The crazier the fantasy, the less you'll have the luxury of checking out your partners. Some fantasies prob should remain on the internet.


    Sheese...I guess my fantasies are simple because it sounds like many guys are into some freaky shit lol.
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    Aug 04, 2014 10:08 PM GMT
    Steel101 saidI've been lucky enough to have one of my fantasies fulfilled. I knew it wasn't going to be a repeat but I enjoyed it bigtime.

    So what was it? We're all dying to know! As for your question, yes, definitely worth fulfilling, if possible. I think our society puts such holds on sex in any fashion other than what we've been led to believe is appropriate that many miss the fun of some sexually physical activities.

    For example: A threesome or orgy. Most men and women probably never experience this yet it's not really a 'danger' issue if you know the other persons and all play safe, it's more of a cultural disgust with sex outside of a single person or a relationship.

    If society was more open about the natural pleasure of sex, I think 'outside the box' fun would be more acceptable. Take a look at two of the big SF gay festivals, Folsom Street Fair and Dore Alley. Both are attended by a LARGE number of men AND women, gay AND str8. To walk around and just view who's there and who's watching what is an eye opener to those that have fantasies that are being suppressed in favor of societal norms. Many will talk about how wrong those festivals are and how disgusting but the crowds tell a very different story!!!

    Now, what was the fantasy you fulfilled? icon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gificon_eek.gif
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    Aug 05, 2014 1:16 AM GMT
    I got to get down and dirty with a gorgeous, buff soldier. Heh...still gives me goosebumps
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    Aug 06, 2014 2:42 AM GMT
    Steel101 saidI got to get down and dirty with a gorgeous, buff soldier. Heh...still gives me goosebumps

    Sounds HOT! Never deny yourself your fantasies!
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    Aug 10, 2014 8:54 AM GMT
    I still want to fulfill my 3some wish with a hot pair of twin hunks. icon_redface.gif
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    Aug 10, 2014 10:37 AM GMT
    Studies have shown that fulfilling necro fantasies can be harmful or fatal if swallowed.
  • Gayslut

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    Aug 12, 2014 6:03 PM GMT
    Of course it's worth pursuing. Then I'd blog it in my memoir. Haha...
    memoirsofagayslut.blogspot.sg
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Aug 16, 2014 7:53 AM GMT
    The theory of evolution claims that we have developed higher intelligence mostly for the purpose of facilitating better sexual selection of our mates.icon_smile.gif

    If you have a sexual fantasy, no one really gets hurt permanently, why not organize the event? Sure, the fantasy dude is not ringing at your door just because you would want him to... but this is where your smarts come in.

    SC
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    Aug 16, 2014 6:26 PM GMT
    I'd definitely go for it, there's only one life to live and so many hot guys in it. icon_razz.gif But always be safe. Don't screw up your health and life for just one moment. And of course, I wouldn't let anyone know about it if it felt like majority of people might find it disgusting. icon_wink.gif