Aug 03, 2014 6:52 PM GMT
So I have been 100% out for the last year. I was out to some prior to that and was dating and sleeping around at that time. I am continuing to date and am using the usual apps as well as Match and Compatible partners. I struggle to find gay men attractive. I can certainly find them physically attractive, however once I get to know them I struggle to even want to build a connection. I am much more attracted to Bi and straight/curious guys, but that rarely works out. Masculinity is important to me. I know that I need to move past whatever is causing this issue. Has anyone else struggled with this? Also I am struggling to find myself attractive which I never did prior to coming out 100%. It seems like most of the gay guys I pursue rarely find me attractive. A little advice would be great. Thanks