Why do I feel like this?

  • Robsky53

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    Aug 04, 2014 5:25 AM GMT
    I'm sure you guys get this often but nevertheless I needed a place to get this secret off my chest and I guess here is better than any.

    I consider myself a very straight male, I have had multiple girlfriends and consider myself particularly dominant in bed. I never questioned my sexuality before.

    However roughly a week ago I was very drunk at a club and proceeded to dance with a man, soon he was buying me drinks and after a while he took me in his car to a quiet place and starting kissing me, I offered no resistance and soon I found myself with something big and hard in my mouth. It didn't go much further after that.

    This week I have found myself shocked at what i let myself do but at the same time I am having many sexual thoughts about guys. Also I have this new strong desire to be submissive and let a guy have total power over me.

    I am just a bit confused how fast my feelings have changed and needed a place to vent myself. Any suggestions as to what I should do would be great.
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    Aug 04, 2014 5:29 AM GMT
    You've been a member of a GAY forum for year and a half, participating in threads like "would you kiss the guy above you?" and such - that alone makes it very hard to consider yourself a "very straight guy", so don't pretend you're surprised you ended the night with a guy.
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    Aug 04, 2014 5:31 AM GMT
    Robsky53 said Any suggestions as to what I should do would be great.




    1. Delete this account.

    2. Get drunk.


    3. Have sex with a girl


    Bye
  • MikeW

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    Aug 04, 2014 7:17 AM GMT
    A lot of 20yo males want to hump anything that moves. Why worry about it. Go with the flow, do what you wana do. You don't even have to label it if you don't want to. Just play safe, k? STDs & HIV are real.
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    Aug 04, 2014 9:32 PM GMT
    David3K saidYou've been a member of a GAY forum for year and a half, participating in threads like "would you kiss the guy above you?" and such - that alone makes it very hard to consider yourself a "very straight guy", so don't pretend you're surprised you ended the night with a guy.

    Yes, your story is hard to believe. Why would you be here posting in forums other than fitness and nutrition if you didn't think you had a little gayness in those shorts? Guess you now know you do.

    As for someone your age that really is straight, experiencing with guys is no big deal. We all enjoy the physical pleasures of sex (meaning casual kissing, to touching, to bromance, to playing around and seeing what other guys are packing), it's no big deal.

    So guys that are truly straight still have a curiosity and a wonder of what they're missing. Being inebriated probably didn't help any but was most likely a catalyst to let you try something you might not otherwise ever tried (if you were actually straight).
  • mybud

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    Aug 05, 2014 12:17 AM GMT
    You're young, and everything is new and exciting...Be safe, and enjoy bro.