Publicly being complimented on your cock in the gym; how would YOU react?

  • TallGWMvballe...

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    Jan 11, 2009 7:50 PM GMT
    I know most of you will not believe this but yesterday in the Hollywood Ballys locker room, full of people, I was coming back from the shower and drying myself off when this very handsome (but not my type) Latino guy...about 6 feet, 180 pounds in great shape but with a mustache early 30s I would guess started looking at my crotch from across the gym saying "great cock" may I have some, and other things like that.... YES everybody noticed but no one said anything,,, I said thanks but please stop.... he followed me around and was polite but went on and on not so quietly. I told him NO! (he wanted to do something right there, right then!) He eventually stopped but kept staring and making licking gestures.


    What would YOU guys do ?


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    Jan 11, 2009 8:07 PM GMT
    Ugh. 'Great cock' is a great compliment in passing. But the harassment and licking is trashy.
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    Jan 11, 2009 8:58 PM GMT
    Say "no" politely, firmly and as loudly as he´s saying "gimme sum" (ie aimed at the whole changing room). In the end he´s the one who will look like a idiot.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:02 AM GMT
    ROFL.

    Smile, and eloquently say, "Well, thank you."

    Then, go see if you can get the guy's membership yanked.

    There's a limit to the amount of crap that's appropriate, and that guy is WAY OUT OF BOUNDS.
  • Timbales

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    Jan 12, 2009 2:05 AM GMT
    I honestly have no idea what I would do.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:10 AM GMT
    8 years at the gym.
    4 different gyms.
    0 cock compliments.

    Where's that plastic surgery thread gone? I'm changing my answer.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:11 AM GMT
    I would have smiled at the cock compliment, but as for the rest of his behavior, I would have told him to "fuck off" just as loudly as he was talking.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    I've had guys ask me to pull back my foreskin. When it comes to comments like that I just leave. If someone says "nice cock" I say thank you, but thats about all my patience will allow me to verbalize.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:12 AM GMT
    we'll require pictures to substantiate his motivation
  • MuslDrew

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    Jan 12, 2009 2:15 AM GMT
    i'd report him to management. i'm guessing he's done this before.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:15 AM GMT
    after he ignored the "thanks, but please stop," I would report him to management.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:16 AM GMT
    TallGWMvballer saidI know most of you will not believe this but yesterday in the Hollywood Ballys locker room, full of people, I was coming back from the shower and drying myself off when this very handsome (but not my type) Latino guy...about 6 feet, 180 pounds in great shape but with a mustache early 30s I would guess started looking at my crotch from across the gym saying "great cock" may I have some, and other things like that.... YES everybody noticed but no one said anything,,, I said thanks but please stop.... he followed me around and was polite but went on and on not so quietly. I told him NO! (he wanted to do something right there, right then!) He eventually stopped but kept staring and making licking gestures.

    What would YOU guys do ?


    Even just one hit on is enough to file a complaint, BUT you have the option to accept or reject. However if you have already rejected them once and they persist, the I would definitely report them to the front desk.
  • auryn

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    Jan 12, 2009 2:21 AM GMT
    I think you handled it fine. I would have gotten dressed quickly and left.
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:30 AM GMT
    I would of looked around and screamed "i need an adult!"
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    Jan 12, 2009 2:31 AM GMT
    Tell him that your boy friend will have to have a talk with him later if he does not get the point.
  • toybrian

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    Jan 12, 2009 2:41 AM GMT
    I agree with the rest of the guys and would have reported him to the management....or met him outside to tell him off...
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    Jan 12, 2009 3:00 AM GMT
    I typically pretend to start to make out with guys like this.

    ...

    Then I bite their ear right off.


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  • Timbales

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    Jan 12, 2009 3:08 AM GMT
    crownroyal117 saidI would of looked around and screamed "i need an adult!"


    good answer! icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 12, 2009 3:11 AM GMT
    crownroyal117 saidI would of looked around and screamed "i need an adult!"


    Its the Family Guy way icon_biggrin.gif
  • Aquanerd

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    Jan 12, 2009 3:18 AM GMT
    That crap ranks right up there with stroking off in front of others not interested, get him kicked out.
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    Jan 12, 2009 3:20 AM GMT
    I agree. If it happens again, report him to management. The gym's not a place for sexual harrassment. Save that for the workplace.icon_twisted.gif
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    Jan 12, 2009 3:27 AM GMT
    uh gross, report him to the club mgt.
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    Jan 12, 2009 3:42 AM GMT
    I'm guessing your gym is a LOT more gayer than mine! I would interpret it as a sexual pass (as I'm sure would anyone who over heard it) which would totally not be cool at my gym. I would be embarrassed and not take it well.
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    Jan 12, 2009 3:53 AM GMT

    I would say "thank you... it IS huge for my size" icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    lol but no seriously, gross. The licking gestures are creepy. I'd cover up and probably report him.

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    Jan 12, 2009 3:54 AM GMT
    4outof6 saidI'm guessing your gym is a LOT more gayer than mine! I would interpret it as a sexual pass (as I'm sure would anyone who over heard it) which would totally not be cool at my gym. I would be embarrassed and not take it well.

    Always the gentleman, I would say:

    "I beg your pardon? Are you queer?"

    As he fumbled for an answer, or whatever he managed to reply, I would continue:

    "Then take your eyes off my crotch before I report you to the management."