Looking for the right person

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    Aug 05, 2014 1:53 AM GMT
    Why is it that I am having such hard time trying to find the right person? Do I really have to 'blend in" with everyone in order to find that right person? Any advice would be helpful. No flamers or bashing, please. Only advice and honest insight need apply.
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    Aug 05, 2014 7:45 AM GMT
    fredknee saidWhy is it that I am having such hard time trying to find the right person?
    Because according to the CDC, only 1.6% of the population is gay, and most of them are taken now that marriage is becoming more accepted. Looks like you'll have to settle for the wrong person like everyone else.
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    Aug 05, 2014 8:12 AM GMT
    Already been down that road, rather not do that again.

    Any other suggestions?
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    Aug 05, 2014 8:47 AM GMT
    Turn straight.

    After all, you didn't specify gender. icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 05, 2014 5:12 PM GMT
    OF course I didn't. I am looking for friends, not a bf nor gf.

    Hence a guy to hang with.
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    Aug 05, 2014 6:49 PM GMT
    Uhm well wanting it maybe...

    people tend to be attracted to people doing stuff w/o relationship as a thing :S

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    O.o

    hmm
    maybe think about doing [more?] stuff and that'll just happen..

    I mean online dating works too buuuuut :S I UNNO! I would forget about that tooo.....

    Works for me :s
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    Aug 05, 2014 7:13 PM GMT
    fredknee saidOF course I didn't. I am looking for friends, not a bf nor gf.

    Hence a guy to hang with.


    so what do you want to do with these friends?
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    Aug 05, 2014 9:41 PM GMT
    It is pretty much detailed in my profile.......

    One click on the link over my pic won't hurt ;)
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    Aug 05, 2014 9:55 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidTurn straight.

    After all, you didn't specify gender. icon_wink.gif
    If you live in a small area, you're probably shit outta luck.

    Right now I'm temporarily in a financial cookie without work. My family offered to have me go back to Arkansas (a very rural area, far from anything) until things get worked out so I can get back to my normal life down here in South Florida. I exact words were "There's nothing for me in rural Arkansas...no jobs suitable for my skillset (commercial pilot), no activities other than fundamentalist churches and religion-oriented stuff, and no people I can relate to. Remember how I grew up? I'll live and die on the streets here on the beach before I move back to that hell hole." Fortunately things took a turn for the better today, but that's a whole different story.

    In other words, if you're having so many problems finding friends, first look inward to see if it's something about you (for me, it is). Then see if it can be changed (for me, it can't). If it can't be changed, then move to a place where you can find like-minded people. And trust me, living on the streets with friends is much better than living with a family that thinks (and constantly reminds you) that you're going to hell for being gay.
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    Aug 06, 2014 2:11 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    paulflexes saidTurn straight.

    After all, you didn't specify gender. icon_wink.gif
    If you live in a small area, you're probably shit outta luck.

    Right now I'm temporarily in a financial cookie without work. My family offered to have me go back to Arkansas (a very rural area, far from anything) until things get worked out so I can get back to my normal life down here in South Florida. I exact words were "There's nothing for me in rural Arkansas...no jobs suitable for my skillset (commercial pilot), no activities other than fundamentalist churches and religion-oriented stuff, and no people I can relate to. Remember how I grew up? I'll live and die on the streets here on the beach before I move back to that hell hole." Fortunately things took a turn for the better today, but that's a whole different story.

    In other words, if you're having so many problems finding friends, first look inward to see if it's something about you (for me, it is). Then see if it can be changed (for me, it can't). If it can't be changed, then move to a place where you can find like-minded people. And trust me, living on the streets with friends is much better than living with a family that thinks (and constantly reminds you) that you're going to hell for being gay.




    Thanks for that insight. The fact is that I am bi, but trying to find like-minded people like myself has been difficult, and considering my mental impairment, that makes it even harder. I cannot move either. So I'm stuck.
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    Aug 06, 2014 2:25 AM GMT
    Sigh, some help would be nice......


    Prvt me as well on any ideas/solutuions