Meo710 saidI've been keeping this to myself and I think this is a good place to talk bout things freely since I don't friend with gays that much (mostly straights). What I want to tell is my problem, I have this difficulty on getting turn-on whenever I am in partner with other people (anal sex, blowjob, etx.). However whenever I am alone like watching porn by myself it is easy to get hard...have anybody ever experience this kind of problem? I feel worry with this seriously...I am a bottom btw *sigh*
Well chances are you are addicted to pornography.
If this is something you have been doing for awhile then you have been bonding to porn rather than physical experiences. If you have to think about porn that you watched while you are trying to physically enjoy a person infront of you then that is when you know you have to make a change.
You could try abstaining from it completely and take notice to how you feel if you were to be intimate with a person. You have to learn to distinguish fantasy from reality. A lot of those addicted have unrealistic expectations on what sex should be/feel like due to what they watch.
But the first step I want you to do is look into this information yourself. Don't take anyone's word here, not even mine. Look into why you are having this problem. Read on others who may share your experiences and then decide for yourself what the best decision is for you to do..