Just got a nasty racist messages from someone off grindr

  • Matthew56

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    Aug 06, 2014 1:37 PM GMT
    Saying F off u ugly black cunt what makes you think us white guys are interested in an ugly black cunt like u

    I am like whoa
  • tj85016

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    Aug 06, 2014 1:40 PM GMT
    you and your racist bullshit are getting really predictable
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    Aug 06, 2014 1:47 PM GMT
    If I block and ignore the OP, will his threads still show up? I'm blocking and ignoring you because your threads are an eyesore.
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 06, 2014 2:09 PM GMT
    tj85016 saidyou and your racist bullshit are getting really predictable


    I am not making this up
  • shaunmccarron

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    Aug 06, 2014 2:30 PM GMT
    So what, you are just keeping his negative, honest and real Racism real by bringing it up on here... People can be mean... Its true... sorry.... Move on
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    Aug 06, 2014 3:40 PM GMT
    Dude get over it. Nobody is everybody's type. There are plenty of people out there I'm sure consider you their type.
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 06, 2014 4:13 PM GMT
    bk11789 saidDude get over it. Nobody is everybody's type. There are plenty of people out there I'm sure consider you their type.


    Erm he just messaged me out of the blue with his no face pic hurling racial abusive comments I did not message him
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    Aug 06, 2014 4:59 PM GMT
    Resentments are like sewing needles...you can stick them in yourself and live with the pain, or you can pull them out and heal.

    Ignorance is not bliss, but ignoring negative comments is.
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    Aug 06, 2014 5:05 PM GMT
    No screenshots, no evidence. I sense bullshit. Fuck off, fake/troll account and get a life.
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    Aug 06, 2014 5:07 PM GMT
    seems like this guys is living in a slavery times when he is beaten every day by white people and that is why he does not have any other threads just about racism, condolences
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 06, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    kevex saidNo screenshots, no evidence. I sense bullshit. Fuck off, fake/troll account and get a life.


    I would give screen shots but I just blocked him
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    Aug 06, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    kevex saidNo screenshots, no evidence. I sense bullshit. Fuck off, fake/troll account and get a life.


    I would give screen shots but I just blocked him


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  • frogman89

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    Aug 06, 2014 7:33 PM GMT
    kevex said
    Matthew56 said
    kevex saidNo screenshots, no evidence. I sense bullshit. Fuck off, fake/troll account and get a life.


    I would give screen shots but I just blocked him


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    Come on, kevex, YOU gotta talk?!
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    Aug 06, 2014 7:39 PM GMT
    Is the OP Isaiah? icon_confused.gif
  • jjguy05

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    Aug 06, 2014 7:46 PM GMT
    bk11789 saidDude get over it. Nobody is everybody's type. There are plenty of people out there I'm sure consider you their type.


    Yeah, but the response he got from the guy was clearly racist. If you're not interested in someone, just politely turn them down.
  • jaroslav123

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    Aug 06, 2014 7:58 PM GMT
    tj85016 saidyou and your racist bullshit are getting really predictable


    Charmingly vile message.
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    Aug 06, 2014 8:28 PM GMT
    jjguy05 said
    bk11789 saidDude get over it. Nobody is everybody's type. There are plenty of people out there I'm sure consider you their type.


    Yeah, but the response he got from the guy was clearly racist. If you're not interested in someone, just politely turn them down.
    Yeah it is messed up for people to say stuff like that but they are just ignorant people. Can't let shit heads like that keep you down.
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    Aug 06, 2014 8:32 PM GMT
    bk11789 said
    jjguy05 said
    bk11789 saidDude get over it. Nobody is everybody's type. There are plenty of people out there I'm sure consider you their type.


    Yeah, but the response he got from the guy was clearly racist. If you're not interested in someone, just politely turn them down.
    Yeah it is messed up for people to say stuff like that but they are just ignorant people. Can't let shit heads like that keep you down.


    Hen doesn't have evidence of that conversation. The OP always posts victimhood threads about his blackness. He's just trying to make white people look bad icon_rolleyes.gif
  • tj85016

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    Aug 07, 2014 12:45 AM GMT
    jaroslav123 said
    tj85016 saidyou and your racist bullshit are getting really predictable


    Charmingly vile message.


    oh please, he makes this crap up just to instigate
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  • Matthew56

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    Aug 07, 2014 6:25 AM GMT
    jjguy05 said
    bk11789 saidDude get over it. Nobody is everybody's type. There are plenty of people out there I'm sure consider you their type.


    Yeah, but the response he got from the guy was clearly racist. If you're not interested in someone, just politely turn them down.


    I did not message him as I only message people on grindr to compliment them. Basically got some racist messages out of the blue from someone who had no profile pic and information so could be anyone
  • frogman89

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    Aug 07, 2014 9:36 AM GMT
    Matthew56 said
    jjguy05 said
    bk11789 saidDude get over it. Nobody is everybody's type. There are plenty of people out there I'm sure consider you their type.


    Yeah, but the response he got from the guy was clearly racist. If you're not interested in someone, just politely turn them down.


    I did not message him as I only message people on grindr to compliment them. Basically got some racist messages out of the blue from someone who had no profile pic and information so could be anyone

    So why does it hurt you? If it's true what you say, it was a dumb coward who tries to make you feel bad. And he succeeded. Just ignore it and move on.
  • BlackCoach

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    Aug 07, 2014 11:18 AM GMT
    Funny thing is the guy who sent you the racist remark has forgotten about you and moved on. You should too. Don't let negativity linger in your mind for so long for a stranger you never will meet.
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    Aug 07, 2014 12:53 PM GMT
    Most important word in that whole title is "grindr."

    Some people gain a psycho-sexual high from being deliberately racist toward others (e.g., scroll through the All Things Gay section)... and some people get their jollies off of being treated like a racial victim 24-7 (again, see this forum for samples). Homeboy's the first example, and he's fishing for the second example on "grindr" because the Sharpie-penned ads in glory-holed restroom stalls and the classifieds in the backs of third-rate newspapers aren't such hot ideas anymore.

    Racial Adversary Roleplay is as old as time... or at least as old as the Middle Passage. Remember Colonel DeBeers or, better yet, Ted DiBiase and Virgil? Google those wrestlers if you don't. Pro wrestling plays up and sexualizes every adversarial role you can imagine. Creating characters worthy of "boos" and ill responses, without getting shot or stabbed, is kind of The Point.

    At least pretending the above events are true, dude didn't stop by your house and offer these bon mots to you. He didn't whisper them in your ear while you were picking among the cantaloupes in the produce aisle. He didn't utter them in passing while you were on the pec deck at the gym. He didn't even pester you while you were sitting in your car outside the Dollar General (cough).

    He, allegedly, logged on to a notorious sexual hookup site. He pretended to read their ever-so-sacred Terms and Conditions, and accepted them. He then went on a hunt for a person who (A) had the potential to be the most butthurt by what he says and would reverberate his commentary on other sites, OR (B) would play along, and become his "TOBY" for some electronic racially-tinged BDSM, OR (C) would go Full Sista Soulja on him, and tell his lily white azz off, in no uncertain terms, inciting back-and-forth arguments ad nauseum. Any of those options expands his stubbie to double its two-inch size. He knows all three types of those people are on there, somewhere. He simply has to fish for them.

    Even the very race of the messenger (as with many people who first-post and only-post race-related issues right here on RJ) is completely up in the air, a total grab bag. Black/Asian/etc people can get on sites and pretend to be stuffy racist white guys. Some do it to try and prove to others The Big Bad Racist Boogie Man really is hiding under everyone's beds. Others do it to project whatever hangups they have with their own existence onto others.

    Any fool can type ugly words and hit "send." They do it for the jollies they get that come with the reactions. Do they unnerve and upset you, or at least make you say, "whoa" and run and tell somebody? Yes? That's The Point. Do THEY wind up with a bloody nose? No? That's The Point. No skin off their backs, no matter what happens to you.

    Similar with the "woe-is-me" racial victims on the other end of the Get-a-Rise-Outta-People spectrum... they may not even be of the race they claim they are. The scaredy-cat kid in his momma's basement doesn't have to be who he really is on RJ, or on "grindr," or anywhere else. Does Mr. "woe-is-me" incite unnecessary catfights among other people online? Yes? Good. That's The Point. It earns him a boner, too.

    Electronic interpersonal communication is the penultimate form of performance art. You reacting in any way, either toward him or about him, helps him to jack off. Now, if you're Kunta, and being dude's "TOBY" somehow turns you on, go right ahead and play his reindeer games and see where it leads. If he's not your cup of tea, report him, block him, and move on to the hundred other substandard guys who "sup?" and "Yer HOT!" and "u looking?" you to death on a regular basis.

    The only time The Ignorant Gum-brained Nasty Online Racist (IGNOR) isn't reaching for his lube is when you're not wasting your time (or the time of others, like us) taking his filthy thoughts at face value.
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    Aug 07, 2014 2:44 PM GMT
    There is no such thing as "tldr"
    When it comes to Dayumm's post