ChristopherPercy1 saidMost gay guys prefer straight acting or straight looking. But most guys you can't find them. Most gay guys are drag queens, fem gays and normal guys. I think people should just stop wanting a straight acting guy, if you want one them i hope you are able to turn a strt8 guy Gay. People should just go for whoever seems like a perfect match fo them
And what if a drag queen or "fem gay" isn't a perfect match for me? I have to force myself to be attracted to them? No thanks, I'd rather be alone.
Personally, I am attracted to straight/masculine guys. It's not something I chose (the same way none of us chose to be attracted to men in general), it's just the way I am.
Does the guy need to be the most macho man on earth without a hint of femininity? No. But I am generally more attracted to guys who act/carry themselves like a normal guy without flaunting their sexuality. It's okay if the guy has a feminine side to him, but I just want someone who you wouldn't be able to tell is gay unless they told you or you saw them holding hands/kissing another man, which is similar to the way I carry myself.
stop it, man. what the fuck do you mean "stop flaunting their sexuality?" not every effeminate guy you see moving around is gay. that's an assumption on your part as well as a display of ignorance. just because you're ashamed to be gay or embarrassed by your sexual orientation where you're closeted doesn't mean that others should be. don't make your struggle somebody elses. work on yourself. if you're ashamed of yourself now, you're going to have much difficulty later.
Aw, did I strike a nerve or something? I said that I am personally attracted to guys who can be gay "without flaunting their sexuality", not that anyone who does needs to "stop". Read my posts before you go shooting your mouth off.
Not every effeminate guy is gay, yes, but most men who are over-the-top feminine are gay. It's really not that difficult to tell. Call it a stereotype, but it's true.
And who the hell are you to say that I'm "ashamed" of myself? You don't know me. Stop getting your panties in a bunch because of my personal preferences. I have nothing against anyone who is feminine, all I said was that I PERSONALLY don't admire that trait in a partner. If you're offended by that, then that's your problem.