How do you know if a guy is checking you out

  • Kromethius

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    Aug 08, 2014 12:03 AM GMT
    Maybe I'm completely oblivious but when I'm at work, the gym, or at school I always wonder if a guy maybe interested in me or if they are too shy to approach me. Ive had this concern for a long time now and didn't know if you guys could help me identify if a guy is interested or not.
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    Aug 08, 2014 12:09 AM GMT
    Follows you around?
  • Kromethius

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    Aug 08, 2014 12:14 AM GMT
    kevex saidFollows you around?


    hmm i don't notice that honestly since its not much to follow do you mean sitting next to me all the time?
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    Aug 08, 2014 12:26 AM GMT
    If you find him staring at you... When you look his way, then he suddenly looks away.
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    Aug 08, 2014 12:30 AM GMT
    Say hello. See what happens.
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    Aug 08, 2014 12:35 AM GMT
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  • Kromethius

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    Aug 08, 2014 5:14 PM GMT
    polfsky saidIf you find him staring at you... When you look his way, then he suddenly looks away.


    what do you consider a stare? Sometimes I do notice that but I really don't want to give off an awkward vibe haha.
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    Aug 09, 2014 12:27 PM GMT
    he asks paper or plastic icon_wink.gif
  • Kromethius

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    Aug 10, 2014 10:56 AM GMT
    helloandgoodbi saidhe asks paper or plastic icon_wink.gif


    lol what does that translate too?
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    Aug 10, 2014 12:10 PM GMT
    When his cock is in your mouth is always a sure bet.
  • helloandgoodb...

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    Aug 10, 2014 1:03 PM GMT
    MIS37 said
    helloandgoodbi saidhe asks paper or plastic icon_wink.gif


    lol what does that translate too?



    It's a "check out" grocery store clerk joke...our supermarket clerks ask if you want paper or plastic bags.


    How do you know if a guy is checking you out?...
    he asks "paper or plastic?"

    it's less funny if I have to explain it. lol
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    Aug 10, 2014 1:12 PM GMT
    MIS37 said
    polfsky saidIf you find him staring at you... When you look his way, then he suddenly looks away.


    what do you consider a stare? Sometimes I do notice that but I really don't want to give off an awkward vibe haha.


    If you catch his eyes, just smile back and see what happens. No awkwardness. Do you find him attractive?
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    Aug 10, 2014 1:41 PM GMT
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  • Kromethius

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    Aug 12, 2014 2:04 PM GMT
    polfsky said
    MIS37 said
    polfsky saidIf you find him staring at you... When you look his way, then he suddenly looks away.


    what do you consider a stare? Sometimes I do notice that but I really don't want to give off an awkward vibe haha.


    If you catch his eyes, just smile back and see what happens. No awkwardness. Do you find him attractive?



    I do find some attractive but I always fear of rejection or confrontation like if they are homophobic.
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    Aug 12, 2014 2:06 PM GMT
    if you see him staring at you intently?
  • Kromethius

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    Aug 12, 2014 2:19 PM GMT
    talknerdy2me saidif you see him staring at you intently?


    well in my area alot of guys are discrete so its hard to interpret it as a stare because it could be a glance just to see if im still using the equipment but no one has ever approached or talked with me.
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    Aug 14, 2014 3:16 AM GMT
    MIS37 saidHow do you know if a guy is checking you out
    Seems like it would be pretty obvious, unless he has a more androgynous look.

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    Aug 14, 2014 5:11 AM GMT
    helloandgoodbi saidhe asks paper or plastic icon_wink.gif

    They only have plastic at mine and I always use my credit card so for me they ask "credit or debit?"
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    Aug 14, 2014 6:12 AM GMT
    Eye contact - if he stares at you for more than 5 seconds and smile or look away if you catch him, chances are he's interested.
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    Aug 14, 2014 6:22 AM GMT
    In gyms is pretty normal to be cheked out, straight or gay, dudes like to compare themselves, so its actually more tough to interpret the eye contact. Many of the advises are here, but you will know if the are interested in you and not in your workout until you TALK to them
  • buddycat

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    Aug 14, 2014 7:25 AM GMT
    Really depends on the context. As people mention guys check each other out in a non-sexual way. Usually in a gay environment, they look, look away, look again then smile. They will then walk by you and if you make eye contact with them, they will approach you.