Spending money I do not have

  • Matthew56

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    Aug 08, 2014 11:29 AM GMT
    On try to look good and appeal to other gay men I spend so micg money on trying to look good as possible gym barbers the whole she bang and I get tired and exhausted from doing all this effort and sometimes I feel depressed and think that I will never measure up

    I know you think I am trolling with all these self-conscious threads but I really cannot help being so self aware and paranoid about my appearance
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    Aug 08, 2014 11:32 AM GMT
    I wonder how many of your total posts are about yourself. Maybe you should stop being so self-centered, it's not a very attractive feat. Just my 2 cents.
  • Matthew56

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    Aug 08, 2014 1:52 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]Truppensturm said[/cite]I wonder how many of your total posts are about yourself. Maybe you should stop being so self-centered, it's not a very attractive feat. Just my 2 cents.[/quote

    I know a lot but lol we all have issues
  • mybud

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    Aug 08, 2014 2:04 PM GMT
    He's like a lot of gay guys...It's all about him. Attractiveness is more than just looks. It's intelligence,interests,sincerity....Looks fade, what else do you got?
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    Aug 08, 2014 2:11 PM GMT
    Except for the very lucky few, looking good, and even trying, is exhausting.

    I may never win the Nobel Prize but I've made peace with that.

    Lots of people spend much more money they don't have on far worse things.
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    Aug 08, 2014 7:11 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]Truppensturm said[/cite]I wonder how many of your total posts are about yourself. Maybe you should stop being so self-centered, it's not a very attractive feat. Just my 2 cents.[/quote

    I know a lot but lol we all have issues

    ah buddy
    Sorry, but "we all" don't.
    It is my understanding that you have access to free health care...
    If you would only put a minuscule fraction of your self-hating time into making an appointment with a therapist...
    Please, do us all a solid and make the call.

    http://www.southwesthealthline.ca/displayService.aspx?id=15684