Trend: Twinks being tops, and muscular guys being bottoms.

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    Aug 14, 2014 7:51 PM GMT
    I want everyone's thoughts on twinks becoming tops and muscular guys being more bottoms these days.
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    Aug 14, 2014 7:52 PM GMT
    How is that a sex role reversal?
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Aug 14, 2014 7:57 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidHow is that a sex role reversal?


    Agreed. Its still just a guy screwing another Guy, but I must say I do find it really hot when a big guy gets it good icon_twisted.gificon_cool.gif
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    Aug 14, 2014 8:03 PM GMT
    What does body type have to do with whether someone is a top or a bottom?
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    Aug 14, 2014 8:23 PM GMT
    And now it's a "trend." Nice thread title change, but it still sounds stupid.
  • Aleco_Graves

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    Aug 14, 2014 8:48 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidAnd now it's a "trend." Nice thread title change, but it still sounds stupid.


    I think what we are (at least I am) trying to say that your kind of backwards thinking towards this thing is the same as saying: NEW TREND - Woman working outside the kitchen

    Anyone can fill any role sexually, no matter how they are built and behave. Its the 21st century.
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    Aug 14, 2014 9:48 PM GMT
    I've two sayings in this regard. One I made up, the other I stole:

    Mine: A total top is a guy who sucks dick, just not yours.
    Stolen: The bigger the bicep the bigger the bottom.
  • Sunny_x9

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    Nov 26, 2014 1:34 AM GMT
    I still don't get the proper version of
    what exactly a top is or a bottom is , different people different statements
    anyway myself I m not a twink and also I m not submissive
    I m complete dominant
    I had 2 relationships earlier where we felt
    me top - filling their ass and mouth
    bottom - lying and enjoying the pleasure later BJ's my dick

  • BloodFlame

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    Nov 26, 2014 1:55 AM GMT
    I don't think it's a trend. I feel it's always been that way. Body type doesn't determine anything. It just depends on what the individual guy likes. It's not new that there are slimmer built guys who enjoy being tops while bigger guys enjoy to bottom or vice versa.

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    Nov 26, 2014 2:55 AM GMT
    xavierdc saidWhat does body type have to do with whether someone is a top or a bottom?

    Internal homophobia. Butch masc bros dudes are expected to be total tops. And skinny short femme twinks are expected to be bitch bottoms.
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    Nov 26, 2014 3:00 AM GMT
    Top and bottom work better as verbs than nouns. What you do in bed (or car or park or your parents basement!) Doesn't determine who you are or how you behave in the rest of your life. Your personality and how you get off are only tangentially related.
    I think it'd be better if we said "I enjoy topping/bottoming/both..." rather than "I am a..."
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    Nov 26, 2014 8:27 AM GMT
    Big muscular guys have wanted me to top them...;)
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    Nov 26, 2014 8:31 AM GMT
    Nebraskakid467 saidBig muscular guys have wanted me to top them...;)

    I know Yourname would (but he was never a top).
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    Nov 26, 2014 8:32 AM GMT
    HikerSkier said
    Nebraskakid467 saidBig muscular guys have wanted me to top them...;)

    I know Yourname would (but he was never a top).

    Yourname? Haha
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    Nov 26, 2014 8:36 AM GMT
    Nebraskakid467 said
    HikerSkier said
    Nebraskakid467 saidBig muscular guys have wanted me to top them...;)

    I know Yourname would (but he was never a top).

    Yourname? Haha


    Haha? Yourname2000 - no longer here.
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    Nov 26, 2014 10:23 AM GMT
    yes, i want me some big boys to bang.
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    Nov 26, 2014 2:20 PM GMT
    How does it matter if two people mutually consent to something?
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    Nov 26, 2014 2:59 PM GMT
    I m a twink and would love to top hot muscular guys.
    I think it's pretty sexy and hot to see a big beefy muscular guy moan with pleasure.
  • mybud

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    Nov 26, 2014 3:02 PM GMT
    It's caused by the North Korea underground nuclear test explosions...
  • tj85016

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    Nov 26, 2014 3:54 PM GMT
    generalize much?
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    Nov 26, 2014 5:02 PM GMT
    Wyndahoi saidTop and bottom work better as verbs than nouns. What you do in bed (or car or park or your parents basement!) Doesn't determine who you are or how you behave in the rest of your life. Your personality and how you get off are only tangentially related.
    I think it'd be better if we said "I enjoy topping/bottoming/both..." rather than "I am a..."


    Very true. The same goes for using 'a gay' or 'gays' as a noun (the preferred usage of RJ's own anti-gay rump and their socks). Is it really so much effort to say 'a gay person' or 'gay people'?
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    Nov 26, 2014 5:17 PM GMT
    Ex_Mil8 said
    Wyndahoi saidTop and bottom work better as verbs than nouns. What you do in bed (or car or park or your parents basement!) Doesn't determine who you are or how you behave in the rest of your life. Your personality and how you get off are only tangentially related.
    I think it'd be better if we said "I enjoy topping/bottoming/both..." rather than "I am a..."


    Very true. The same goes for using 'a gay' or 'gays' as a noun (the preferred usage of RJ's own anti-gay rump and their socks). Is it really so much effort to say 'a gay person' or 'gay people'?

    On the internet, yes, it is.
  • rnch

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    Nov 26, 2014 5:53 PM GMT
    BloodFlame saidI don't think it's a trend. I feel it's always been that way. Body type doesn't determine anything. It just depends on what the individual guy likes. It's not new that there are slimmer built guys who enjoy being tops while bigger guys enjoy to bottom or vice versa.

    Living in the most biggest/best (IMO) gayborhoods (Marigny-Bywater) in one of the bigger gay-tolerant cities of the USA (New Orleans, LA); I am constantly surprised/amused/delighted at who turns out to be a "top" and who "bottoms". There just is NO telling.

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    I also agree that seeing a bigger, muscle guy bottom for an in shape, thinner twink is quite a turn on.


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  • HndsmKansan

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    Nov 26, 2014 5:58 PM GMT
    I welcome flexibility...LOL

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    Nov 26, 2014 6:07 PM GMT
    HndsmKansan saidI welcome flexibility...LOL

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    Yes, flexibility is essential, top or bottom.