Aug 15, 2014 3:44 AM GMT
I had a conversation with a straight guy friend the other day who is head over heels for this girl he barely knows, or "evil succubus" as he calls her. All day he was complaining about how this "parasitic wasp bitch" is toying with him, yet he doesn't mind the games, and is convinced that he has to have her.
I just can't understand that feeling... I've never fallen in love with anyone, nor have liked a guy enough to make a fool of myself for him, like in the movies. All the guys I've dated and had relationships with were merely good enough. Some were hot, some had great personalities, but there was never some magical combo that compels me to risk everything for that relationship.
At least 2 other taken gay friends I know also feel this way; they're just with their bfs until someone better comes along. Am I too cynical? Thoughts like this often makes me consider casual sex.
I just can't understand that feeling... I've never fallen in love with anyone, nor have liked a guy enough to make a fool of myself for him, like in the movies. All the guys I've dated and had relationships with were merely good enough. Some were hot, some had great personalities, but there was never some magical combo that compels me to risk everything for that relationship.
At least 2 other taken gay friends I know also feel this way; they're just with their bfs until someone better comes along. Am I too cynical? Thoughts like this often makes me consider casual sex.