A Queschun to all Tops out there!

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    Jan 12, 2009 7:49 AM GMT
    Is it an issue for you if your partner is not hard whille topping him? Yes, I do mean for the whole durashun of the intercourse. I'm just curious to know. Thanks.
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    Jan 12, 2009 5:59 PM GMT
    I took a human sexuality course in college and one of the things we talked about was that an erection can’t stay hard indefinitely, it will cycles through both hard and flaccid over a prolonged sexual experience.

    And I have been both top and bottom so I know that a bottom can be really in to the experience with out being hard.

    Is there a reason you spelled “question” as “queschun” and “duration” as “durashun?” Because that is bothering the heck out of me.
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    Jan 13, 2009 3:50 AM GMT
    HermitIX saidI took a human sexuality course in college and one of the things we talked about was that an erection can’t stay hard indefinitely, it will cycles through both hard and flaccid over a prolonged sexual experience.

    And I have been both top and bottom so I know that a bottom can be really in to the experience with out being hard.

    Is there a reason you spelled “question” as “queschun” and “duration” as “durashun?” Because that is bothering the heck out of me.


    Oh thanks, HermitIX! I have used both excuses ("erection can’t stay hard indefinitely", "cycles", "a bottom can be really in to the experience with out being hard", etc.) 'cos sometimes I'm just not up for sex and yet just engaged in it 'cos it's there. It's just amazing I guess that sometimes when I'm so into my partner I just maintain my erecshun pre- and post-coital.

    As for the "shun" part --I suggest you hang out the main active forums more. Get ready to lose it. Hmm... you just joined last new year's eve, eh? 'Splains a lot. icon_lol.gif
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    Jan 15, 2009 7:00 AM GMT
    HermitIX saidI took a human sexuality course in college and one of the things we talked about was that an erection can’t stay hard indefinitely, it will cycles through both hard and flaccid over a prolonged sexual experience.


    I do not agree with the people in your class that this applies to everyone. My partner does have these cycles during sex. I use to be concerned about this because I thought it was something I was doing wrong but now I know that it is a natural thing for him and at the times that he is not hard he is still enjoying himself.

    I, on the other hand, am very hard through the whole experience and most of the time, at least a half hour after we are finished. I guess this is because I am very susceptible to becoming hard. Just the idea of having sex gets me rising and kissing makes me rock hard in seconds.

    Oh, and in case someone should think that I am bragging or trying to prove I am a manly man (there is too much of that on RealJock most days), I see this ever hardness as being a problem sometimes. I wish I could control it better by just thinking down boy but my dick, trite but true, has a mind of its own.
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    Jan 15, 2009 3:50 PM GMT
    doesnt bother me if he isnt hard
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    Jan 15, 2009 4:33 PM GMT
    If I'm topping and my partner isn't hard, it's usually because he just took a hit of poppers and that temporarily deflates him. If I'm getting fucked, I'm generally rock hard start to finish, regardless of poppers or Maximum Impact.

    To me, jacking off, being jacked-off or being sucked-off (if you have a third), while you're being fun is a big part of the whole experience.

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    Jan 17, 2009 2:20 PM GMT
    I still don't understand why he spells it 'queschun' and 'durashun'
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    Jan 17, 2009 2:31 PM GMT
    ...and you know... I really don't care why icon_wink.gif
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    Jan 17, 2009 8:06 PM GMT
    BigSETXjock saidIf I'm topping and my partner isn't hard, it's usually because he just took a hit of poppers and that temporarily deflates him...
    me 2! one snort of poppers and i am limp for at least 15 or 20 minutes, regardless of stimulation, cialis, viagra. so, no poppers unless i am bttming for a while!

    i can get hard/loose it 3 or 4 times when bttming. my current fb/bf is hard the second he sees me, while he is bttming, sleeping next to me and when he leaves.

    i DO envy him that! icon_cool.gif
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    Jan 18, 2009 10:03 AM GMT
    That's strange. Poppers get me real hard. And wide open. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Jan 19, 2009 12:00 AM GMT
    Meh, just get a penis pump installed like in that one episode of sex and the city if it's that important.

    Or just bitch slap the top and tell him to stop complaining and to get to work.
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    Jan 19, 2009 12:54 PM GMT
    U RLY N33D 2 STOP SPELLIN LYK DAT
  • rnch

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    Jan 19, 2009 1:15 PM GMT
    FBfugitive saidThat's strange. Poppers get me real hard. And wide open. icon_biggrin.gif
    yeh, like/appreciate the "wide open" effect. icon_twisted.gif