Is it dangerous to take a 9 inch balls deep?

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    Aug 16, 2014 4:53 PM GMT
    So I'm talking to a guy who has a 9 inch penis. He is 5'11 and I'm 5'4. This is the first time I've had a penis this big since he is 32 and I am 13 years younger than him and less experienced. Whenever we have sex he starts pounding me out hard which I normally like but I always make him stop quickly not because of the pain but because I am nervous that his penis will damage my intestine. Since I am so short my rectum is nowhere near 9 inches and he always hits a wall which makes me terrified that he will rip my intestine or cause a hemorrhoid or hernia or something else that is really painful and just.. bad. Also I am scared that with such a long penis the motion will cause an "accident" to happen if you know what I mean. So I guess my question is, is it possible for me to get hurt/injured if I let him pound me that hard balls deep? And also do any short bottoms have any advice for this type of scenario?
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    Aug 16, 2014 4:56 PM GMT
    There's only one way to find out.

    Be sure to get video just in case you die, though, so your bf doesn't get charged with homocide.
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    Aug 16, 2014 4:58 PM GMT
    Well Mr. first post, I've seen guys take a traffic cone up their ass....and your problem is?
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    Aug 16, 2014 7:29 PM GMT
    paulflexes saidThere's only one way to find out.

    Be sure to get video just in case you die, though, so your bf doesn't get charged with homocide.


    This.

    OP: Post live stream link here, please.
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    Aug 16, 2014 7:38 PM GMT
    Words of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
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    Aug 16, 2014 7:42 PM GMT
    calguy456 saidWords of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
    Count me in as disagreeing....
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    Aug 16, 2014 8:46 PM GMT
    Apparently 31 does go into 18.
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    Aug 16, 2014 8:47 PM GMT
    mybud said
    calguy456 saidWords of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
    Count me in as disagreeing....


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    Aug 16, 2014 9:29 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidApparently 31 does go into 18.


    I know it did when I was 18.

    So did a whole lot of other numbers up to about 55.
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    Aug 16, 2014 9:54 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
    eagermuscle saidApparently 31 does go into 18.


    I know it did when I was 18.

    So did a whole lot of other numbers up to about 55.



    I agree with ya gamrican , I've been dicked by some big cocks from the time I was 18.
    Most of the cocks were my own age but a few were up in the 40's and 50's.
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    Aug 17, 2014 3:25 AM GMT
    OP is probably a minor. No one is really 18 or 19 on this site. icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 17, 2014 6:20 AM GMT
    lol I lost my virginity to a 9...sans lube icon_lol.gif so I was in pain for a day or so, but I wasn't too worried. I guess from that point on, the lesson was ALWAYS have lube annnnnd in regards to your height, I'm 5'7...which I consider short too. You just have to find a comfortable position...I like to ride on top of a guy because we're BOTH in control....now that I know where I'm comfortable sexually, I can take 9s and 10s and be 100% fine the next day! haha I also find that the bigger the guy is, the better it feels.....smaller ones actually kinda hurt to me...I dunno why...

    /sexrant
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    Aug 17, 2014 6:21 AM GMT
    Ratboy said
    mybud said
    calguy456 saidWords of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
    Count me in as disagreeing....


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    Why would a 31-year-old want to DATE an 18-year-old? Anyway, sounds like a creepy man-child relationship with the big age gap and big height gap.
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    Aug 17, 2014 2:37 PM GMT
    simonsayswhat said
    Ratboy said
    mybud said
    calguy456 saidWords of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
    Count me in as disagreeing....


    +2


    Why would a 31-year-old want to DATE an 18-year-old? Anyway, sounds like a creepy man-child relationship with the big age gap and big height gap.


    THANK YOU this is what I was thinking as well. Try to have some class and self respect.
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    Aug 17, 2014 3:40 PM GMT
    mybud said
    calguy456 saidWords of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
    Count me in as disagreeing....




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    Aug 17, 2014 6:23 PM GMT
    Be on top so you're in control. Use plenty of lube. Enjoy the ride.
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    Aug 17, 2014 6:47 PM GMT
    What it could look like: (NSFW)

    http://ricosoul.tumblr.com/post/94903596718/i-am-a-man-i-love-men-rocco-steele-armond

    http://ricosoul.tumblr.com/post/94873576403/domtop2u-this-is-what-happens-when-you-get-a
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    Aug 17, 2014 8:49 PM GMT
    Age is just a number and most older guys I've done anything with like been on dates or more etc have been super nice so people are being a bit mean about the age gap.

    Regards to the sex question I can't imagine that a penis could be so big it could do serious damage.
  • jaroslav123

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    Aug 17, 2014 8:54 PM GMT
    simonsayswhat said
    Ratboy said
    mybud said
    calguy456 saidWords of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
    Count me in as disagreeing....


    +2


    Why would a 31-year-old want to DATE an 18-year-old? Anyway, sounds like a creepy man-child relationship with the big age gap and big height gap.


    Oh please. As long as they're of age and consenting then it's fine. Stop moralising the consensual sexual ethics of other people.
  • highforthis

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    Aug 18, 2014 4:08 AM GMT
    calguy456 said
    simonsayswhat said
    Ratboy said
    mybud said
    calguy456 saidWords of advice: a 31 y/o messing with an 18 y/o is borderline unacceptable. I know you might not think it's a big deal but you might regret it when you get older. I think other guys on here would agree with me.
    Count me in as disagreeing....


    +2


    Why would a 31-year-old want to DATE an 18-year-old? Anyway, sounds like a creepy man-child relationship with the big age gap and big height gap.


    THANK YOU this is what I was thinking as well. Try to have some class and self respect.


    Lots of gays conflate "legal" with good. Given the demographics of this forum, our opinions would be in the minority icon_lol.gif
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    Aug 18, 2014 10:02 AM GMT
    Break up with this inconsiderate looser, you deserve to experience pleasure not pain, he should be forced to bottom by a rough top with at least 10" thick cock mercilessly and see if he is such an inconsiderate prick.

    If you haven't told him yet how it hurts you & want to stay anyway, do so but seriously leave him. If you continue to allow that kind of attack to go on you will expose yourself to major internal injuries.

    Note what you said about who he is smashing in hard. It's not about relaxing or just putting up with pain till you learn how to avoid pain, all gay men's literature.

    If you really want big cock you can find a better who will respect your body and even find yourself a bigger dicked guy who will treat your body with more respect


    http://www.scarleteen.com/article/bodies/with_pleasure_a_view_of_whole_sexual_anatomy_for_every_body

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    Aug 18, 2014 1:02 PM GMT
    I don't know anything about the physics of your size and his cock, but I can tell you that the bottom needs to be able to communicate what feels good and what is too much.

    I'm a small guy too and yet can take a huge long cock with patience and communication. One guy I have been with will adapt when I ask, but quickly goes back to pounding away even when I would ask him to slow down or pound less hard.

    After several times it became clear he was less interested in how I felt and just wanted to do his thing. I had to stop seeing him, not because he was too big or I was too small but because he was a selfish lover.

    People have commented about the age difference which is big, but can work with the right guys. If he can't listen he is not the man for you.
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    Aug 18, 2014 2:08 PM GMT
    To clarify, I don't think there's a problem with a 13 year age gap. I do however think it's creepy, especially on the older guys account, to be seeing and having sex with an 18 year old. Just my opinion and advice....take it or leave it.
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    Aug 20, 2014 1:53 PM GMT
    Lumpyoatmeal saidWhat it could look like: (NSFW)

    http://ricosoul.tumblr.com/post/94903596718/i-am-a-man-i-love-men-rocco-steele-armond

    http://ricosoul.tumblr.com/post/94873576403/domtop2u-this-is-what-happens-when-you-get-a


    These kind of sights are for sadomasicism & not i feel sorry for those who feel that they need to have a website devoted to their need to be stretched and torn or see other having that done to them. Not saying over sized penis's should be stopped from finding sex or love, but we shouldn't pretend that big dick loving bottoms are something to be celebrated and normalised as if to turn harm minimisation into a normalised behaviour.

    Let's be clear regarding the sight links, This is a fantasy sight for guys like yourself who believe that this is something everyone should do. It is not something most people should try and most certainly an 18yr old who should be looking to build positive experiences.

    There are some useful tips, sure for those who want to dive into the world of huge cocks but as per usual the problem is what is left out. Regardless of the care and time taken by the huge top, the bottom will get damaged by regularly being screwed by even a careful top. I really wish that facts like 7-9 days of no receptive anal sex is required to avoid longer term damage from even average sized penis's and with larger penis's that is a minimum.

    People can decide as adults to deal with the consequences of their choices to ignore the caveats in engaging in Higher-risk sex and to those who said to this young man to be more assertive, I am very pleased to hear that you have the welfare of people over your own pleasure/fantasies ( those of whom advocate for a big cock being preferred or spreading information that indicates that receptive sex from a monster cock is normal).
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 20, 2014 2:42 PM GMT
    You guys are so full of shit. Mind your own business. They're both adults and you're no better than any other religious crazy who wants to tell others what they can't do in the bedroom.

    And to those of you who jumped to what a bad guy his partner is, you're no better, though it is mostly the same people. Read the post (if you can read). The OP is enjoying his partner. He is just worried there are anatomy issues that could cause a problem.

    The answer is NO. As long as he enters slowly or at a speed that is comfortable for you, which you should communicate, then you'll be fine. The anatomy can handle it. Tearing is the issue but not because he's going too deep into you. So as long as you're comfortable, you're ok.