Best oral sex guide?

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    Aug 17, 2014 4:50 AM GMT
    Hey. Amazon reviews aren't helping me find a good guide. I've been away from my dude for a month & want to surprise him with some things. I'm not the best at oral & never really been into it, but want to do something for him that will make him feel amazing, & doesn't have me blowing him for longer than necessary.
    Any bj tips from guys here, or pointers to a good book? What makes a guy cum the quickest? note: he doesn't like hands on his dick.
    There's one called "blow me" on amazon, but not sure if it's just a cool looking package with not much in it as the reviews say.
    Thanks!
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Aug 17, 2014 5:26 AM GMT
    Surprising your dude with a good BJ sounds like a swell idea if you happen to enjoy the play, too. If you don't, and are wondering how to go through the motions as fast as possible, and have him cum, so that you score an A for effort...Well, that's a highway into an awkward situation, best to be forgotten ASAP.

    Try to re-think here and go for something genuine, and something that does not require any tricks or tips but flows naturally...

    SC
  • AMoonHawk

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    Aug 17, 2014 5:30 AM GMT
    practice on jumbo hot dogs ... they are tastey icon_biggrin.gif
  • PRDGUY

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    Aug 17, 2014 6:30 AM GMT
    Of course I am willing to make the sacrifice and let you practice on mine giving you pointers along the way. However practice makes perfect so shall we set up a 7 day a week schedule for you to practice?

    LOLZ
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    Aug 17, 2014 1:11 PM GMT
    PRDGUY saidOf course I am willing to make the sacrifice and let you practice on mine giving you pointers along the way. However practice makes perfect so shall we set up a 7 day a week schedule for you to practice?

    LOLZ


    Wow, how selfless of you to offer to help a brother in need. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 18, 2014 6:13 AM GMT
    AMoonHawk saidpractice on jumbo hot dogs ... they are tastey icon_biggrin.gif


    Just don't get "toothy" with it!
  • RyanChase

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    Sep 17, 2014 9:50 PM GMT
    Things that work when I give head:
    - eye contact
    - knowing / finding out if your guy likes a sloppy bj or just 'normal'
    - "inhaling" the cock, act like the end of the world is coming in X amount of time
    - practice deepthroating with a dildo, or a cucumber or banana or something
    - SWALLOW icon_smile.gif
    - continue sucking cock till he stops squirming ;)

    Let us know how it goes / went..
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 17, 2014 10:25 PM GMT
    There's a thing you can do with the back of your mouth to open up the top of your throat. On the first attack, take him all the way down with your mouth open like that. That will reduce the gag reflex and help you enjoy and deep throat him which is the key to any good blow job. Keep your tongue active and inventive and take him from tip to base on a regular rhythm. In my experience, beyond that, what makes it good for him is personal preference. Give him 5 good minutes of that, then ask him what you can do for him.
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    Sep 17, 2014 11:55 PM GMT
    RyanChase saidThings that work when I give head:
    - eye contact
    - knowing / finding out if your guy likes a sloppy bj or just 'normal'
    - "inhaling" the cock, act like the end of the world is coming in X amount of time
    - practice deepthroating with a dildo, or a cucumber or banana or something
    - SWALLOW icon_smile.gif
    - continue sucking cock till he stops squirming ;)

    Let us know how it goes / went..


    wow... i'll be there in 20 minutes..haha
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    Sep 18, 2014 12:23 AM GMT
    There are two ways to reduce the gag reflex that limits how long and how deeply one may accept a phallus into the throat and, let's face it, this is what makes the difference between good and GREAT fellatio.

    1. Practice on a sex toy that is about the same size of your partner's endowment. You will gradually be able to increase how far down the throat and how long you can keep it there by simply getting used to and not minding the feeling. The more you gag on the sex toy the less you will on him.

    2. Take an over-the-counter anesthetic containing Lidocaine, like cough drops, right before you have sex with him.

    Try the first technique for even a few days followed by the second and I think your partner will notice a big difference.

    Dr. Randy
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    Sep 18, 2014 12:37 AM GMT
    All the tips and tricks in the world won't help if you're not "into it"..

    You have to be enjoying yourself if you want him to enjoy it..