Aug 18, 2014 12:05 PM GMT
I've been married to my hubby for 3 years now.. The last time I had a penetration with him was practically 1 and a half years ago.. most of the time he gave me oral sex.. Since last couple of months he didn't even want me to blow him anymore.. I did ask him once or twice about my sexual frustration but he said I need to initiate sex, which I tried but got turned down every time. So I guess maybe it was my moves that are not really that initiating.. We kinda have an open relationship but only if I am away for more than 3 weeks.. When we are together in the same country we have a closed relationship. It seems that he's been taking it well since he even saved a sex vid he made with a friend of ours.. Yesterday was my last time trying to initiate sex with him and he said no I don't want.. So what now? Is there any good or better way to initiate sex? I am not hot enough? Or am I just a pet here? Really, I don't know who else to ask and I don't want my hubby to depend on other guys when it comes to sex. I am at the end of the rope now and horny too..