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    Aug 18, 2014 6:43 PM GMT
    Is it just me or does everyone else get extremely annoyed with people who either have blocked profile pics, or who are generally unattractive make forums blaming their lack of a relationship, continued rejections, or lack of self worth on ethnicity? I realize that this MAY sound "shallow" or "rude" to the hypersensitive out there but at this point I really don't give a ___. If you find yourself guilty of what I just mentioned above, maybe you should take some time off to work on the things you can change, accept the things you can't, develop a since of self worth and maybe you will have better luck in the future. Then you can create a fourm that another guy 5 minutes earlier didn't make already complaining about their inability to attract guys. Crying about how nobody isn't paying you any attention because your (insert race here) isn't gonna change anything. To be honest, a vast majority of the time is not your race, it's because you're just not attractive. Sorry but it's the raw truth and majority of the people that view the post are thinking it. So quit crying, fix WHAT YOU CAN and gain some confidence. Or go listen to Meghan Trainor's song "All about that bass" or something. End rant
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    Aug 18, 2014 6:48 PM GMT
    HolyHex001 said listen to Meghan Trainor's song "All about that bass" or something.


    LOL! Yes.
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    Aug 18, 2014 6:50 PM GMT
    I have a FB who is black. He has ZERO problem "making friends" he's hot, cute, funny, nice bod n dick....and a good heart. Great fun too.

    I'm sure he's had his share of negativity, but it doesn't rule his life.
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    Aug 18, 2014 6:52 PM GMT
    In other words, ugly people should just accept the fact that they're ugly and stop blaming their ugliness on unrelated bullshit.

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    Aug 18, 2014 6:55 PM GMT
    Kuestion said
    HolyHex001 said listen to Meghan Trainor's song "All about that bass" or something.


    LOL! Yes.


    Never heard of her.....but a real fun video!
  • Eli_jah

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    Aug 18, 2014 7:22 PM GMT
    unattractive people need love too icon_mad.gif
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    Aug 18, 2014 7:25 PM GMT
    Even though ugliness is subjective, I agree


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    Aug 18, 2014 7:29 PM GMT
    Another thing I've noticed is that those dudes with blocked pictures or hidden profiles almost always end up deleting themselves anyway. So, why make a huge rant about being forever alone and wanting advice on dating when you're going to delete your profile? Troll much?
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    Aug 18, 2014 7:31 PM GMT
    pazzy saidyou're feeling yourself a bit too much, breh. you're not even all that good looking to be saying that shit or to put others down. you aren't alone on the all that good looking part either. nobody on this web site is. icon_lol.gif not saying that you aren't attractive or nobody on this is attractive. just saying that not everybody is universally attractive or unattractive to everybody out there.

    the basic problem with this thread and the whole "dating preferences" shit is how people try to flip serious issues that are a problem in general into it being all about them and their issues. they either use it to diss somebody and make themselves look good like this thread or pull the whole "manipulative, you as a white guy must date me because i'm black and if you don't, you're a racist" shit. yes, racism is a REAL issue. that's what should be discussed. just because you and some of these guys don't feel like talking about it doesn't mean that it should be ignored or lumped into "it's about dating preferences" shit. it also shouldn't be used as a tool to have power over somebody else. nevermind about who is fucking who or whatever. folks need to stop pushing THEIR personal agenda and using it to their benefit. to me, fuckers only care about themselves.

    you can't take on the world BUT the world doesn't revolve around you.


    1) They (including yourself since you are obviously one of the people I was referring to) are putting there own self down. I wouldn't nor would I have to do that for them.

    2) I never once said I'm the hottest guy in the world. I am just confident and comfortable with myself. Yes, I do have self confidence. So if that "feeling myself too much" then yes I am and maybe you as well as your horde of self-esteem vampires should start working toward "feeling yourself".
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    Aug 18, 2014 7:32 PM GMT
    kevex saidAnother thing I've noticed is that those dudes with blocked pictures or hidden profiles almost always end up deleting themselves anyway. So, why make a huge rant about being forever alone and wanting advice on dating when you're going to delete your profile? Troll much?


    This is very true as well
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    Aug 18, 2014 7:56 PM GMT
    It really has little to do with one's physical appearance but rather a victim mentality which exists across all races. A handsome guy can play that card and get some people to listen but he will invariably attract the type of person that reinforces his victimhood. Moreover when he gets older he will be moaning about how everyone won't date him because he is old.

    We could all sit here and write threads about how tough it is to be gay because of how straights or other gays treat us. It is a useless exercise since when the thread ends the world is still the same.

    Pick your battles. If you are lucky enough to be healthy and are able to make ends meet, you are doing better than a lot of people on this planet. Now let's focus on self empowerment and not victimization because everyone loves to see someone lead by example.



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    Aug 18, 2014 8:02 PM GMT
    friendormate saidIt really has little to do with one's physical appearance but rather a victim mentality which exists across all races. A handsome guy can play that card and get some people to listen but he will invariably attract the type of person that reinforces his victimhood. Moreover when he gets older he will be moaning about how everyone won't date him because his old.

    We could all sit here and right threads about how tough it is to be gay because of how straights or other gays treat us. It is a useless exercise since when the thread ends the world is still the same.

    Pick your battles. If you are lucky enough to be healthy and are able to make ends meet, you are doing better than a lot of people on this planet. Now let's focus on self empowerment and not victimization because everyone loves to see someone lead by example.






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    Aug 18, 2014 8:09 PM GMT
    pazzy saidno, this tool didn't.

    1. first off, pull up ANY response or thread that i made where i implied or said some shit about "why won't a white person date me?", "i can't get any dates because i'm black", "i'm unattractive so i can't get dates" or anything of that nature. PULL THEM UP. i NEVER made anything of that nature. NEVER. i don't make those type of threads or responses, PERIOD because that's NOT my style nor do i approve or get down with that type of shit. don't ever accuse me of anything like that or say some shit that you can't back up, breh. i always talk about overall racism. you already exposed yourself on that front.

    2. you are feeling yourself. there's like 101 threads about this shit and you decided to make another one instead of just voicing your opinion in the ones already there trying to be the center of attention. there's a difference between being confident and acting like the world revolves around you and acting real arrogant. you're not fooling anybody. gtfoh with your trash thread.



    Ok I can play this again.. but after this hopefully you can find somewhere else to troll because im done feeding you.

    1) You might not make the forums but you sure love egging them on. Obviously you feel the same way there OP does because your in here defending them. So there is no need for me to waste my time looking for another post you felt like crying on because you can just scroll up to your original post in this forum to read your water works....

    2)You call it arrogance, I call it confidents, but if more people in this society had my state of mind maybe they wouldn't spend there days and night crying at there reflections. They would find things they like about themselves, like I do, and won't let pessimistic attitudes like yours effect there state of mind. You can call me arrogant all you want but I much rather be confident then live in a cave because I think "nobody likes me". Get over yourself. Finally, I'm referring to your last sentence now. Nobody is making you stay or comment so you can leave now. Trust me you crying will not be missed. You are a prime example of a the "hypersensitive" real jock member

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    Aug 18, 2014 8:13 PM GMT
    friendormate saidIt really has little to do with one's physical appearance but rather a victim mentality which exists across all races. A handsome guy can play that card and get some people to listen but he will invariably attract the type of person that reinforces his victimhood. Moreover when he gets older he will be moaning about how everyone won't date him because his old.

    We could all sit here and right threads about how tough it is to be gay because of how straights or other gays treat us. It is a useless exercise since when the thread ends the world is still the same.

    Pick your battles. If you are lucky enough to be healthy and are able to make ends meet, you are doing better than a lot of people on this planet. Now let's focus on self empowerment and not victimization because everyone loves to see someone lead by example.





    Pazzy needs to read this. Should put this in a message and send it to him. I'm almost positive he will tell you " you're feeling yourself", but he might not since you fluffed it up a little be for him to lighten the blow. Nevertheless, I COMPLETELY agree with what you have to say
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    Aug 18, 2014 8:20 PM GMT
    So OP....why do you care what others think of themselves and what their issues are in terms of their relationship status (or lack there of)? This post is literally just as bad and whiny as the ones you claim you're tired of seeing. Fail.

    Lions care not of the opinions of sheep and don't entertain sheepish issues. Lol.
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    Aug 18, 2014 8:21 PM GMT
    Sometimes it is good to be unsure of something. What is wrong with a little doubt? Doubt is good.
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    Aug 18, 2014 8:30 PM GMT
    Guy101 saidSo OP....why do you care what others think of themselves and what their issues are in terms of their relationship status (or lack there of)? This post is literally just as bad and whiny as the ones you claim you're tired of seeing. Fail.

    Lions care not of the opinions of sheep and don't entertain sheepish issues. Lol.


    Hmmm I can honestly see where you are coming from. Truth is I have almost created this thread at least 10 time before. I just got tired of seeing the same thing. I have even taken a break from real jock, came back and the same people were crying about the same thing. That is all
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    Aug 18, 2014 8:39 PM GMT
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    pazzy saidyou're feeling yourself a bit too much, breh. you're not even all that good looking to be saying that shit or to put others down. you aren't alone on the all that good looking part either. nobody on this web site is. icon_lol.gif not saying that you aren't attractive or nobody on this is attractive. just saying that not everybody is universally attractive or unattractive to everybody out there.

    the basic problem with this thread and the whole "dating preferences" shit is how people try to flip serious issues that are a problem in general into it being all about them and their issues. they either use it to diss somebody and make themselves look good like this thread or pull the whole "manipulative, you as a white guy must date me because i'm black and if you don't, you're a racist" shit. yes, racism is a REAL issue. that's what should be discussed. just because you and some of these guys don't feel like talking about it doesn't mean that it should be ignored or lumped into "it's about dating preferences" shit. it also shouldn't be used as a tool to have power over somebody else. nevermind about who is fucking who or whatever. folks need to stop pushing THEIR personal agenda and using it to their benefit. to me, fuckers only care about themselves.

    you can't take on the world BUT the world doesn't revolve around you.


    1) They (including yourself since you are obviously one of the people I was referring to) are putting there own self down. I wouldn't nor would I have to do that for them.

    2) I never once said I'm the hottest guy in the world. I am just confident and comfortable with myself. Yes, I do have self confidence. So if that "feeling myself too much" then yes I am and maybe you as well as your horde of self-esteem vampires should start working toward "feeling yourself".


    Just for the record, I'm feeling myself right now! icon_wink.gif
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    Aug 18, 2014 8:43 PM GMT
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    pazzy saidyou're feeling yourself a bit too much, breh. you're not even all that good looking to be saying that shit or to put others down. you aren't alone on the all that good looking part either. nobody on this web site is. icon_lol.gif not saying that you aren't attractive or nobody on this is attractive. just saying that not everybody is universally attractive or unattractive to everybody out there.

    the basic problem with this thread and the whole "dating preferences" shit is how people try to flip serious issues that are a problem in general into it being all about them and their issues. they either use it to diss somebody and make themselves look good like this thread or pull the whole "manipulative, you as a white guy must date me because i'm black and if you don't, you're a racist" shit. yes, racism is a REAL issue. that's what should be discussed. just because you and some of these guys don't feel like talking about it doesn't mean that it should be ignored or lumped into "it's about dating preferences" shit. it also shouldn't be used as a tool to have power over somebody else. nevermind about who is fucking who or whatever. folks need to stop pushing THEIR personal agenda and using it to their benefit. to me, fuckers only care about themselves.

    you can't take on the world BUT the world doesn't revolve around you.


    1) They (including yourself since you are obviously one of the people I was referring to) are putting there own self down. I wouldn't nor would I have to do that for them.

    2) I never once said I'm the hottest guy in the world. I am just confident and comfortable with myself. Yes, I do have self confidence. So if that "feeling myself too much" then yes I am and maybe you as well as your horde of self-esteem vampires should start working toward "feeling yourself".


    Just for the record, I'm feeling myself right now! icon_wink.gif


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    Aug 18, 2014 8:44 PM GMT
    HolyHex001 said people who either have blocked profile pics, or who are generally unattractive make forums blaming their lack of a relationship, continued rejections, or lack of self worth on ethnicity? I realize that this MAY sound "shallow" or "rude" to the hypersensitive out there but at this point I really don't give a ___.


    I understand what you are trying to say, but I cant help but feel like this is a bit Subjective and some part of this is about you. I do feel like some non-Caucasians often blame their own misfortunes in love on race and more often than not it isn't about race. That's not right and their self pity wont find them (genuine) love either. If People do reject them based on race, they obviously are going for the wrong type of people.

    We all get your frustration, yes the ways these people react to their inability to find someone isn't always the most efficient way to approach and tackle the problem, but you make it sound like tackling self confidence issues is a walk in the park. Some of these peoples insecurities more than skin deep and sometimes an insecurity in one part of you life can translate into another part of your life (their love life for example).

    pazzy saidthe basic problem with this thread and the whole "dating preferences" shit is how people try to flip serious issues that are a problem in general into it being all about them and what they can get out of it. they either use it to diss somebody and make themselves look good like this thread where it's like "fuck that shit" or pull the whole "manipulative, you as a white guy must date me because i'm black and if you don't, you're a racist" shit. why can't racism being discussed without it turning into some bullshit?


    Like Pazzy said, your getting a bit too personal about this. Your comparing yourself with others who might not be as fortunate circumstances or good looks that leads to a better self confidence. The reason for this forum is just to rant about how annoying THEY are to YOU. It doesn't seem like you intend on offering them any solution or are looking for one. You just told them to "develop a since of self worth" with no way or steps to developing that self worth.
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    Aug 18, 2014 8:45 PM GMT
    kevex saidEven though ugliness is subjective, I agree


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    Aug 18, 2014 8:51 PM GMT
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    Guy101 saidSo OP....why do you care what others think of themselves and what their issues are in terms of their relationship status (or lack there of)? This post is literally just as bad and whiny as the ones you claim you're tired of seeing. Fail.

    Lions care not of the opinions of sheep and don't entertain sheepish issues. Lol.


    Hmmm I can honestly see where you are coming from. Truth is I have almost created this thread at least 10 time before. I just got tired of seeing the same thing. I have even taken a break from real jock, came back and the same people were crying about the same thing. That is all


    So what you're saying is that you're a habitual repeat offender and being a hypocrite since you just admitted to [almost] talking about this topic several times already, took a break from rj, and have come back again only ask the same questions again about a topic that's been done before waaaay before you ever showed up? Sounds like you're being a troll, bro, and being extremely judgmental to boot. Might wanna fix that.
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    Aug 18, 2014 8:54 PM GMT
    Aleco_Graves said
    HolyHex001 said people who either have blocked profile pics, or who are generally unattractive make forums blaming their lack of a relationship, continued rejections, or lack of self worth on ethnicity? I realize that this MAY sound "shallow" or "rude" to the hypersensitive out there but at this point I really don't give a ___.


    I understand what you are trying to say, but I cant help but feel like this is a bit Subjective and some part of this is about you. I do feel like some non-Caucasians often blame their own misfortunes in love on race and more often than not it isn't about race. That's not right and their self pity wont find them (genuine) love either. If People do reject them based on race, they obviously are going for the wrong type of people.

    We all get your frustration, yes the ways these people react to their inability to find someone isn't always the most efficient way to approach and tackle the problem, but you make it sound like tackling self confidence issues is a walk in the park. Some of these peoples insecurities more than skin deep and sometimes an insecurity in one part of you life can translate into another part of your life (their love life for example).

    pazzy saidthe basic problem with this thread and the whole "dating preferences" shit is how people try to flip serious issues that are a problem in general into it being all about them and what they can get out of it. they either use it to diss somebody and make themselves look good like this thread where it's like "fuck that shit" or pull the whole "manipulative, you as a white guy must date me because i'm black and if you don't, you're a racist" shit. why can't racism being discussed without it turning into some bullshit?


    Like Pazzy said, your getting a bit too personal about this. Your comparing yourself with others who might not be as fortunate circumstances or good looks that leads to a better self confidence. The reason for this forum is just to rant about how annoying THEY are to YOU. It doesn't seem like you intend on offering them any solution or are looking for one. You just told them to "develop a since of self worth" with no way or steps to developing that self worth.


    Ok I get what you are saying. So here is my question to you. How is creating a new topic about the SAME internal issue here on RJ over, and over, and over, again helping them gain confidence? Or is it just creating more unrest?
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    Aug 18, 2014 9:00 PM GMT
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    Guy101 saidSo OP....why do you care what others think of themselves and what their issues are in terms of their relationship status (or lack there of)? This post is literally just as bad and whiny as the ones you claim you're tired of seeing. Fail.

    Lions care not of the opinions of sheep and don't entertain sheepish issues. Lol.


    Hmmm I can honestly see where you are coming from. Truth is I have almost created this thread at least 10 time before. I just got tired of seeing the same thing. I have even taken a break from real jock, came back and the same people were crying about the same thing. That is all


    So what you're saying is that you're a habitual repeat offender and being a hypocrite since you just admitted to [almost] talking about this topic several times already, took a break from rj, and have come back again only ask the same questions again about a topic that's been done before waaaay before you ever showed up? Sounds like you're being a troll, bro, and being extremely judgmental to boot. Might wanna fix that.


    As you stated ALMOST is the key word. I never created the forum until now, nor did I comment on a forum similar to mine. So there is nothing to fix. I was trying to be civil with you so instead of digging for blood and calling me names, maybe you should show down and re-read what I typed to you.