Popping a dude's cherry - Overrated or Not?

  • SilverRRCloud

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    Aug 22, 2014 7:25 PM GMT
    This is largely a cultural issue.

    But is popping a dude's cherry something that gets you going or do you see it as vastly overrated/undesirable?

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    Aug 22, 2014 7:33 PM GMT
    Overrated. Usually turns into a hygiene lesson. icon_redface.gif
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 22, 2014 8:16 PM GMT
    It isn't all that great physically, but, it is lots of fun mentally. The connection between you and the guy is pretty intense. Only had the experience twice, as far as I know. Though when I lost my virginity, I didn't tell the guy and he said later on that he would never have guessed. I had prepared myself, though by experimenting with a dildo and reading the Joy of Gay Sex. So I wasn't a total neophyte. One of the greatest sexual athletes I've ever known. We got together many times after that and he was always amazing.
  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 22, 2014 9:40 PM GMT
    pazzy saidas a virgin, reading this thread frightens me. icon_neutral.gif don't know about doing destinharbor's method of playing around with a dildo. the closest i've done to that was trying to shove my middle finger up my ass 2 years ago and it felt uncomfortable. icon_sad.gif before that, it was my mom shoving a thermometer up my ass as a kid to check my temperature. dunno about sex, period. afraid of it. kissing even scares me. how the fuck do you kiss somebody or tounge kiss? can't picture myself doing it. romance and all that... i'm gay BUT acting it out.... my first time will probably end up being some big embarrassment to the point where it's a joke.

    With the right guy it will be amazing. And all those nerves? They will all be focused on the greatest feeling imaginable. Nice guys don't mind going slow with a first timer. Be prepared to laugh a lot.
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    Aug 22, 2014 10:16 PM GMT
    When these guys do it, it's not just fun; it's a ficken PARTAY!

    http://www.xvideos.com/video8649998/training_gio
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    Aug 22, 2014 11:13 PM GMT
    I wouldn't desire to be someone's first time (like it's not something I fantasize about) but I would do it and I would be patient and go slow because I know what a horrible/awkward experience it can be so I'd probably think it's better its me than some dickhead loser icon_redface.gificon_cool.gif
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    Aug 23, 2014 12:20 AM GMT
    First what?
    His first kiss? His first blow job? His first time topping? Bottoming?
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    Aug 28, 2014 7:07 AM GMT
    Had a friend who said he heard I was gay having sex with guys , told him yes..well , he wanted to know what it was like to get fucked.
    So , I was his first guy to do anything with him, and his butt hole cherry was easy to fuck,