Interested in a guy who is much taller and bigger than me

  • Peter94

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    Aug 24, 2014 12:35 AM GMT
    Hello, everyone. ^_^

    I know I might make a big deal out of this, but there is a guy that I have noticed at a club I often visit, and I think he is reeeally hot.
    My "problem", though, is that he is a whole lot taller and "beefier" than me - he is about 6'8" and really muscular, and I am only 5'6" and very slender without muscles, and it feels like he might think I look too boyish and unmanly or something.
    I love big strong men like him, but I am worried that he might think I look "weak".
    What do guys like him usually tend to think of small guys like me?
  • SilverRRCloud

    Posts: 875

    Aug 24, 2014 2:38 AM GMT
    There is no rule here.

    Some of the big, beefy guys are into other similar guys only. The others are looking for a small, younger bro type dude.

    And some dudes just go with the flow, and are not too focused on their "ideal type" at all.

    The only way to find out is to really put out a feeler or two, and see where this goes...

    I love gutsy dudes, and have grown to believe that daring is sexyicon_twisted.gif

    SC
  • Peter94

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    Aug 24, 2014 9:25 AM GMT
    Yes, well I sort of hope that he is a natural "leader type" with a dominant personality, that could probably.mean that he finds me cute and petite, and feels a desire to hold me and protect.me. ^_^
    Not sure how I could figure out if he is that type of guy, but maybe there are signs to look put for that can give that away...?
  • Jockasian703

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    Aug 24, 2014 9:18 PM GMT
    You never know... he might prefer someone with your type of body over someone taller. You took the time express your feelings on a forum, the least you can do is why not give it a try. :-)
  • Peter94

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    Aug 24, 2014 10:17 PM GMT
    Jockasian703 saidYou never know... he might prefer someone with your type of body over someone taller. You took the time express your feelings on a forum, the least you can do is why not give it a try. :-)

    Yes, certainly, I have been checking him out quite a bit the last two times I have seen him, but never really dared to approach him. icon_razz.gif
    His body size does not trouble me at all, I love when a guy like him is way taller, bigger and seemingly a whole lot stronger than me, it's some weird fetish I have. ^_^
    The thought of him standing close to my slim little body with his massive muscles and towering over me is truly incredible.
    I hope he feels the same about me (but the other way around of course), so that he thinks I am petite and cute that way.
    I really enjoy feeling small for some reason, and play fighting with a guy this size is really fun when I keep losing no matter how much a struggle, heheh. ^_~

    It would also be great if he turns out to be naturally dominant in everyday life, like a guy who takes charge a lot and tends to end up as the center of attention and all that.
    If he has that personality and thinks I am cute and adorable for being tiny and shy (which I tend to be, especially around big and hot guys like him) then that's absolutely perfect!
    I have no idea how to "test" his personality without making it too obvious, but I guess I can just be myself, and he will notice how I am.
  • BloodFlame

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    Aug 28, 2014 3:46 AM GMT
    I understand where you are coming from. I'm a small built guy myself and would love to be with a bigger man who was more of a leader. But with that said, just give it a try. You never know unless you try and like some others have said, he may be into guys opposite of himself.

    Good luck!
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    Aug 28, 2014 1:30 PM GMT
    My BF is about a feet shorter than me and we've been together for more than 6.5 years. And my advice is, don't look for or give too much importance towards physical qualities in a relationship.
    My Best Wishes.
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    Aug 28, 2014 8:24 PM GMT
    If a girlishly built blonde Swedish 19 year old pretty boy (if that's indeed your picture) can't land a 6'8" adonis, there's no hope for the rest of us.

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  • Destinharbor

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    Aug 28, 2014 8:43 PM GMT
    Just give it a go. You might be exactly what he is looking for. Just remember, no one is going to date a fetish. Just be yourself and let him be himself. Interpersonal relations are much more interesting and surprising than role-playing. And give him some room to be something other than dominant in all things. He may be sick of that expectation.
  • Peter94

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    Aug 28, 2014 9:54 PM GMT
    eagermuscle saidIf a girlishly built blonde Swedish 19 year old pretty boy (if that's indeed your picture) can't land a 6'8" adonis, there's no hope for the rest of us.

    Heh yep, that's my picture, although I probably look a little "girlier" there than I actually do. icon_razz.gif

    Thanks for the links by the way, I just removed them to save some space. xD
    I had no idea there were that many threads on the subject.
  • Apparition

    Posts: 3529

    Aug 28, 2014 10:27 PM GMT
    dont be a pussy and ask already, the worst he can say is no.

    I would lead with "hey, I can suck your dick without leaning over...wanna see?"
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    Aug 28, 2014 11:53 PM GMT
    Just ask, the worst that can happen is that he says no.

    While it's true that the majority of the super muscular guys out there are only interested in other super muscular guys, there are still quite a few out there who are actually NOT interested in other very muscular guys and only like guys with your build. He might be one of those. icon_biggrin.gif
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    Aug 29, 2014 2:24 AM GMT
    6'8??? I am sure he is not looking for taller guys
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    Aug 29, 2014 3:45 AM GMT
    Okajuurou said6'8??? I am sure he is not looking for taller guys


    I'm 6'6... it's rare i find someone taller than me icon_lol.gif at least in Westwood.

  • DSHANE

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    Aug 29, 2014 4:42 AM GMT
    Why don't you ask him? You will never know unless you ask! icon_smile.gif
  • Peter94

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    Aug 29, 2014 7:06 PM GMT
    DSHANE said Why don't you ask him? You will never know unless you ask! icon_smile.gif

    Hehe yes, hopefully I will see him this weekend. icon_razz.gif
    I have seen him at that place 2-3 times before, so he might go there regularly, but I have no idea if he actually lives here or anything, I have never seen him before as far as I can remember.
    Hopefully he has moved here and lives here now.

    But yes, I might see him this weekend, and I am going to make a move then. icon_smile.gif