Aug 25, 2014 7:16 PM GMT
This question applies online and in the real world as well. I often find that I do get attention from guys but most of them aren't exactly my type. Then I go after guys that are online and it's extremely rare that they end up responding or even that we have a conversation that goes anywhere. I think might be a bit shallow in that respect. I usually like well kept white guys ideally my age between 18-25 though often guys in there 30's and 40's catch my eye if they take good care of themselves. Ideally I like guys with red hair and green eyes, of course these guys are rare, sometimes I like it long and wavy or if it's short clean cut, I don't like a whole lot of body or facial hair but usually don't mind. For the most part I'm ok with any body type but a good muscular build is very attractive. Of course most people probably find this sort of build attractive especially on a site like this which emphasizes fitness. It may be selfish for me to want hot guys to come to me, especially when I don't have the ideal physic that I like to see in other guys while they have already done the work. Building a nice body takes time and effort and I am putting in the time but it's frustrating that it takes so long while I get to idolize guys who have nice bodies who get their pick and overlook me so often. Moreover, I don't know why but it's very difficult to get guys in my own age group interested. Tell me what you think? Am I too young to be caring so much and should wait a bit longer to start seriously dating. Is this just a distraction for now and should I be focusing on bigger and better things?