Asking the guy out?

  • Onemoresummer

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    Aug 26, 2014 6:39 AM GMT
    On Saturday night I met a really cute guy at club, we spoke, danced, made out and he came back to mine.
    We didn't go 'all the way' though.

    Anyways, he added me on fb and I got his number on Monday.

    It's Tuesday now, is it okay to ask him if he wants to hang or too soon still?

    I HATE making date plans, and I don't wanna do the cliche coffee thing.

    Thoughts?
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    Aug 26, 2014 10:11 AM GMT
    Just say you had a good time and would like to get together , ask him what works for him
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    Aug 26, 2014 1:49 PM GMT
    be sensitive what is going on in his life, maybe his weekends are the only time he can see you.

    just buy him coffee
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    Aug 26, 2014 2:31 PM GMT
    No, it isn't too soon. He gave you his number. He's interested. Any further delay will indicate you aren't all that interested. Just call and ask if he's interested in meeting for dinner, or a coffee date, a bike ride through the park, etc., etc., etc.
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    Aug 26, 2014 2:51 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidNo, it isn't too soon. He gave you his number. He's interested. Any further delay will indicate you aren't all that interested. Just call and ask if he's interested in meeting for dinner, or a coffee date, a bike ride through the park, etc., etc., etc.


    I agree. I think the sooner the better.
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    Aug 26, 2014 5:37 PM GMT
    It's within 2 days, not too soon. He may lose interest if you wait too long.
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    Aug 26, 2014 7:20 PM GMT
    When I have had a lovely encounter with a lovely gentleman, my words to him as we part company are: I had a lovely time tonight. When may I have a repeat performance?


    I'm thinking of opening a finishing/charm school for gays. So many are lacking in the social graces.
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    Aug 26, 2014 8:36 PM GMT
    Wait a minute. You don't wanna do the cliché coffee thing as a date but you'll do the "met him at a bar and brought him back to my place and halfway fooled around thing " cliché thing (which translates to a bj and making out).

    Why be selective of clichés at this point? Fail.
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    Aug 26, 2014 10:13 PM GMT
    I definitely think sooner is better than later. Give him a call and if you don't want to grab coffee, enjoy a nice dinner together. Good luck!
  • Apparition

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    Aug 26, 2014 11:59 PM GMT
    ask him out for breakfast, and if you should call him or nudge him.
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    Aug 27, 2014 5:21 AM GMT
    Guy101 saidWait a minute. You don't wanna do the cliché coffee thing as a date but you'll do the "met him at a bar and brought him back to my place and halfway fooled around thing " cliché thing (which translates to a bj and making out).

    Why be selective of clichés at this point? Fail.


    I lol'd icon_lol.gif

    Not judging, but this was pretty funny.