Had sex in a club?

  • Pleasedelete

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    Aug 27, 2014 4:19 PM GMT
    I've seen a few sites for London gay nightclubs that encourage guys to come along strip off and choose to have sex in public or private areas. There are nudity and foam parties etc.

    I never realise they existed and thought just saunas were for this.

    The thought of going along turns me on although I probably wouldn't have the nerve.

    Have you ever been to a similar one and did it live up to the fantasy?

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    Aug 27, 2014 4:22 PM GMT
    probably the best place to catch HIV
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    Aug 27, 2014 4:53 PM GMT
    vile and disgusting.

    enjoy your HIV
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    Aug 27, 2014 6:06 PM GMT
    atlanticshore saidprobably the best place to catch HIV


    talknerdy2me saidvile and disgusting.

    enjoy your HIV


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    Aug 27, 2014 6:13 PM GMT
    i went to the 'gay mardi gras' one year and saw a number of people having (at least oral) sex in the clubs. not that you won't find straight people doing it during non-gay mardi gras..

    i think it's otherwise pretty rare for most standard clubs though, probably due to the legalities.

    i've been to a few 'foam parties' at clubs but never went into the foam. not even being able to see who is groping you is no thanks :p
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    Aug 27, 2014 7:34 PM GMT
    I have not done so myself, but a couple of decades ago, that was fairly common to see in the more popular clubs. Gay and straight. As an aside, I notice that most or all of the clubs have now removed the restroom partitions. To discourage their use as mini-hook-up rooms, I assume.
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    Aug 27, 2014 7:34 PM GMT
    GAMRican said
    atlanticshore saidprobably the best place to catch HIV


    talknerdy2me saidvile and disgusting.

    enjoy your HIV


    President Barack Obama saidWhen people -- when ignorant folks want to advertise their ignorance you don’t really have to do anything, you just let them talk. And that’s what happened here.






    nice when you give a general quote without any real arguments, makes you look intelligent

  • Pleasedelete

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    Aug 27, 2014 8:08 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidI have not done so myself, but a couple of decades ago, that was fairly common to see in the more popular clubs. Gay and straight. As an aside, I notice that most or all of the clubs have now removed the restroom partitions. To discourage their use as mini-hook-up rooms, I assume.


    Who would want other guys seeing you have a shit?
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    Aug 27, 2014 8:11 PM GMT
    I went to an underwear night with a friend, he soon disappeared off into the back room (the sex room) and I was left at the bar where I got propositioned by a series of decreasingly attractive and increasingly persistent guys. If you are going to go, bring protection, don't hold out too long for a better offer and know when to leave (which is when you aren't having fun any more).
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    Aug 27, 2014 8:16 PM GMT
    markthebuttlover saidI've seen a few sites for London gay nightclubs that encourage guys to come along strip off and choose to have sex in public or private areas. There are nudity and foam parties etc.

    I never realise they existed and thought just saunas were for this.

    The thought of going along turns me on although I probably wouldn't have the nerve.

    Have you ever been to a similar one and did it live up to the fantasy?





    been there, done that, Q Babylon, no judgment, how soon we forget icon_rolleyes.gif

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    Aug 27, 2014 8:20 PM GMT
    Does the ENNJJPT liquor storage room of the Officers Club count?

    If so

    There was no fantasy and I don't think about it ever.
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    Aug 27, 2014 8:44 PM GMT
    mindgarden saidI have not done so myself, but a couple of decades ago, that was fairly common to see in the more popular clubs. Gay and straight. As an aside, I notice that most or all of the clubs have now removed the restroom partitions. To discourage their use as mini-hook-up rooms, I assume.


    But! Lounge bars in Hell's Kitchen (in New York) still have separate washrooms. Take a Bann for example lol.
    Ou last saturday was fun in there :p
  • jaroslav123

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    Aug 27, 2014 8:49 PM GMT
    Went to a gay club once with a whole minibus of our university's LGBT society...

    Anyway...Heard rumours and minor titterings on the minibus journey back that people were fucking in the toilets - and I didn't even realise because I was too busy getting pissed and enacting my terrible dance-moves. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif
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    Aug 27, 2014 9:29 PM GMT
    jaroslav123 saidWent to a gay club once with a whole minibus of our university's LGBT society...

    Anyway...Heard rumours and minor titterings on the minibus journey back that people were fucking in the toilets - and I didn't even realise because I was too busy getting pissed and enacting my terrible dance-moves. icon_lol.gificon_lol.gificon_lol.gif


    Where was that? I can't imagine places like that in this country!

    I've seen sex acts near car parks but never in a bar or club lol
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    Aug 27, 2014 9:30 PM GMT
    I've never done it and it sounds like an offence you could be arrested for.
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    Aug 27, 2014 11:08 PM GMT
    ^^ you are living quite a sheltered existence! these places are around I can assure you...
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    Aug 27, 2014 11:11 PM GMT
    Ohno said^^ you are living quite a sheltered existence! these places are around I can assure you...

    That's just it though I don't live a sheltered life so these places must be very niche.
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    Aug 28, 2014 8:53 AM GMT
    dannyboyUK said
    Ohno said^^ you are living quite a sheltered existence! these places are around I can assure you...

    That's just it though I don't live a sheltered life so these places must be very niche.

    No, they aren't very niche. Why is it so surprising for you? You can easily find such places around Europe, whether you are in Madrid, Amsterdam or Berlin. No one gets arrested or anything. Even the most innocent looking clubs might have a cabin or cellar in the back.
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Aug 30, 2014 4:31 PM GMT
    Sex clubs have been around for a long time now.

    There is nothing inherently good or bad about them. What you choose to do there may be either good or bad for you and for the people you are messing around with.

    The notion that by closing the famous gay baths in San Francisco at the height of the AIDS epidemics the City managed to stop the seemingly unstoppable spread has been mostly relegated to the world of urban myths.

    You can use condoms in most sex clubs. And you can have bareback sex in your own bedroom. We all know what the consequences may be.

    You never stop reading the stories of the people who were sure that they would not catch anything from their partners because they "knew" the guy... We all know how this usually ends.

    Going to a club where you do not know the people personally, you are really more likely to stick to the heavily promoted condom use. And you come out pretty clean once the games and fun are over...

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