No Erection While Trying to Penetrate

  • mikeintoronto

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    Aug 27, 2014 11:23 PM GMT
    Never had an issue having an erection trying to penetrate my boyfriend. But for the past 2 years, I lose erection when the tip of my penis touches his anus and I simply lose erection and it has been really frustrating and depressing. I am 38 years old and have no issues maintaining erection with BJ and while masturbating. Anyone in the same situation?
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    Aug 28, 2014 3:59 AM GMT
    Sounds like pressure to perform.
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    Aug 28, 2014 6:24 AM GMT
    If you don't mind a few questions...

    What's been the history between you and your BF re anal sex?
    Are you and/or he versatile, or does one usually top the other?
    When you top him, has he ever complained of pain on entering?

    I'm wondering if you are reacting to some verbal or physical cues from him that he really doesn't like being topped, and if your reaction to those cues is causing you to lose your erection.
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    Aug 28, 2014 7:49 AM GMT
    It's your conscience. Think about it.