NiCkWoLf saidThere is nothing grosser to me than a guy with 4 inch long pit hair. Eww stinky and it shows u dont groom yourlself.
It astonishes me that even some gay men have no concept of personal grooming. I suppose trailer trash encompasses all sexual orientations.
And if the counter argument is that men are supposed to be "natural" then lets also dispense with trimming fingernails & toenails, cutting hair, shaving or trimming the beard, etc. Oh, and lets forget about soap & deodorant, too, since those aren't natural either, but human inventions that alter the way we really are.
And so I agree with you, that some men go around only "half-groomed" and gross-looking, in this and other ways. At the same time it does have advantages, in that one isn't misled about what quality of person they actually are, so they can be avoided.