johnnyqhomo7 saidOn one hand I know what it is like to be abstinent. I am 35 and have never been with a man before or a woman. I'm a virgin because I wanted to wait for the "right guy". I want to have my first time with someone I love, not just some random stranger or something. Yet on the other hand, isn't everyone a stranger until you get to know them? I don't know what the gay community's stance on sex outside of love is, but from what I hear, it's pretty decadent. I just want to find a nice white man to settle down with and grow old together. -JohnnyQHomo7
Is it just me or did I not see a number of posts with essentially the same information? Would somebody please sleep with this dude already?!
But, seriously, you're probably not going to know if you love someone until after you have slept with him many times. Also, there is a big variety of sexual vibes out there... You need to find someone with whom the vibe is right for both of you, so, hopefully, that's the first guy you sleep with, but it's not exactly likely. I bet there are tons of nice white guys -- one might say "bears" perhaps -- who are just waiting for your tender, or not so tender, affections... so get to work sorting them out!