Underwear in the mail... too far?

  • Darwin1122

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    Sep 04, 2014 9:11 AM GMT
    Okay so there's this guy I brought home from the bar like 2 months ago. I met him just as he was about to be deployed to Texas for 3 months of training (thus, he will be back in about 3 weeks). We have been texting and sending a lot of pics. I got this idea in my head to send him a pair of my underwear in a box (maybe along with a rose?? lol) with a note. I think it's kind of sexy and I think he would like it. That isn't too creepy though is it??? I mean it's not as though this is my boyfriend here.. it's just a guy I've been talking to. Thoughts?
  • madsexy

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    Sep 04, 2014 11:16 AM GMT
    If it was me I'd think it was HOT if you did that! icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 04, 2014 11:22 AM GMT
    madsexy saidIf it was me I'd think it was HOT if you did that! icon_twisted.gif

    Me, too! Very hot!
    I just hope he doesn't open the package with other guys around - kinda hard to explain why a guy is sending him his underwear. ;-)
  • madsexy

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    Sep 04, 2014 11:30 AM GMT
    Premedmuscjock said
    madsexy saidIf it was me I'd think it was HOT if you did that! icon_twisted.gif

    Me, too! Very hot!
    I just hope he doesn't open the package with other guys around - kinda hard to explain why a guy is sending him his underwear. ;-)

    I didn't think of that - I was thinking more of him showing off the pics Darwin had sent him to his buds and they all got hot over them and jacked off together and . . . icon_twisted.gif
  • HndsmKansan

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    Sep 04, 2014 11:39 AM GMT
    I think it shows imagination... probably a good note with it would be awesome as well. Just make sure the underwear you send is clean. Some guys get off on the pair not being clean, but since you are mailing it, I'd encourage that. Otherwise.. why not?

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  • madsexy

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    Sep 04, 2014 12:03 PM GMT
    Sweaty? Certainly. Cummy? Maybe. But agree - not dirty! icon_eek.gif
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    Sep 04, 2014 12:08 PM GMT
    madsexy saidSweaty? Certainly. Cummy? Maybe. But agree - not dirty! icon_eek.gif

    Not dirty - definitely! Worn - absolutely!
  • madsexy

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    Sep 04, 2014 12:09 PM GMT
    Premedmuscjock said
    madsexy saidSweaty? Certainly. Cummy? Maybe. But agree - not dirty! icon_eek.gif

    Not dirty - definitely! Worn - absolutely!

    Worn HARD! icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 04, 2014 12:15 PM GMT
    that seems like a bit much for someone you've "just been talking to" - although it seems like more than that if you're asking for advice... icon_lol.gif
  • meritmark

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    Sep 04, 2014 1:34 PM GMT
    Well if you've been flirting and you want to up the tempo a bit - why not? It'd knock me sideways if someone did that for me... I'd spend the rest of the day on a cloud trying to think how to respond. Oh and the note plus a rose is a must - otherwise it risks seeming odd rather than romantic. Go for it - and let us know how it worked! x
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Sep 04, 2014 1:38 PM GMT
    Darwin1122 saidOkay so there's this guy I brought home from the bar like 2 months ago. I met him just as he was about to be deployed to Texas for 3 months of training (thus, he will be back in about 3 weeks). We have been texting and sending a lot of pics. I got this idea in my head to send him a pair of my underwear in a box (maybe along with a rose?? lol) with a note. I think it's kind of sexy and I think he would like it. That isn't too creepy though is it??? I mean it's not as though this is my boyfriend here.. it's just a guy I've been talking to. Thoughts?


    Yup. This is totally hot, and shows some class, tooicon_biggrin.gif

    Since you have been texting, and sending each other pix a lot, it is a good idea to warn him ahead of time that he should not be opening the box before his buddies in the camp...

    Sure, he ain't your BF but you have spent a night together, AND have stayed in touch over couple of months. So, yeah, show some initiative, too!

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  • madsexy

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    Sep 04, 2014 3:00 PM GMT
    jockfever saidDisagreeing with two of my favorite RJ members, Sexy and Premed (and others), feels wrong, but my take on this is a bit different...

    Making sure the gift is on-target outweighs the value of the surprise, in my opinion.

    Why not discuss it?

    If he's into you sending something, maybe he would prefer your used jockstrap? Or your gym socks? Or something else that has special erotic significance for him.

    Since he's going to be back in 3 weeks, maybe he'd rather wait and get your underwear with you in them (temporarily of course)?

    I make it a point never to disagree with someone as hot and smart and experienced as JF - BUT - this time you're wrong, my sexy friend! The part I think you've added though is -
    Send not only your used underwear but ALSO your sweaty gym socks and jock strap! SEND IT ALL! If he's hot - and he obviously is and is hot for you - give it all ya got and make him boned until he gets back . . . and then you can take care of that for him! icon_twisted.gif
  • madsexy

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    Sep 04, 2014 3:14 PM GMT
    jockfever saidmadsexy: ...Send not only your used underwear but ALSO your sweaty gym socks and jock strap! SEND IT ALL! If he's hot - and he obviously is and is hot for you - give it all ya got and make him boned until he gets back . . . and then you can take care of that for him!

    Showing once again why your boyfriend should be one happy man.

    Awww shucks - you humble me . . . again! We're pretty well-matched for sure. When he was still traveling for work to Europe every week I used to ziploc something for him and hide it in his suitcase for him - I got plenty of grateful texts! Just remember, it's YOU who has helped me hone my sox fetish! icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 04, 2014 3:20 PM GMT
    Sounds creepy.
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    Sep 04, 2014 3:34 PM GMT
    you could ask him!

    honestly I'd think it's kinda weird.

    I'd think it's weird even if my bf did that.
  • mybud

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    Sep 04, 2014 4:05 PM GMT
    Don't do it...
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    Sep 04, 2014 4:07 PM GMT
    Hot. Do it. If I were him I'd love it. I used to trade jockstraps with a guy... icon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 04, 2014 4:09 PM GMT
    Alpha13 saidSounds creepy.


    Waaaaay creepy, and just plain gross! Since when did the antics of the lower classes set the behavioral tone? For the record, if nothing else, don't do it - and don't be surprised to get responses like this one if you ask.
  • LJay

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    Sep 04, 2014 4:18 PM GMT
    Creepy.

    MAYBE send just the rose.
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    Sep 04, 2014 4:24 PM GMT
    Lol used undies? Lol buy him some new pairs, u don't know him well enough. Either he'll love it or freak out. I'd say dooooo ittt. Lol
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    Sep 04, 2014 4:31 PM GMT
    MGINSD said
    Alpha13 saidSounds creepy.


    Waaaaay creepy, and just plain gross! Since when did the antics of the lower classes set the behavioral tone? For the record, if nothing else, don't do it - and don't be surprised to get responses like this one if you ask.

    "lower classes"? Excuse me??? You don't know anything about me or my socio-economic status.
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    Sep 04, 2014 4:46 PM GMT
    OP, I personally think it's HOT! However, I would send a new pair with a note: Saw these and thought you would look sexy in them. I can't wait to see you in and then out of them!

    I assume some of the "a lot of pics" you two have been sending are of the racy variety.

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    Sep 04, 2014 5:05 PM GMT
    Premedmuscjock said
    MGINSD said
    Alpha13 saidSounds creepy.


    Waaaaay creepy, and just plain gross! Since when did the antics of the lower classes set the behavioral tone? For the record, if nothing else, don't do it - and don't be surprised to get responses like this one if you ask.

    "lower classes"? Excuse me??? You don't know anything about me or my socio-economic status.


    1. You're not the one sending the skivvies, are you.
    2. My criticism went to the origin of the practice, not the persons perpetuating it.
    3. Methinks the laddie doth protest too strongly.

  • Sep 04, 2014 5:06 PM GMT
    i will go with a : "ok he freaks me out" dude....
    hahah, just my opinion.
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    Sep 04, 2014 5:06 PM GMT
    UndercoverMan saidOP, I personally think it's HOT! However, I would send a new pair with a note: Saw these and thought you would look sexy in them. I can't wait to see you in and then out of them!

    I assume some of the "a lot of pics" you two have been sending are of the racy variety.



    Now, THIS I can see; in fact, I've given my brothers-in-law and past partners boxers for Xmas and they've always liked them. But used trou? No.