Am I a pervert for wanting public sex?

  • Markz0ne45

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    Sep 05, 2014 2:22 AM GMT
    I am vacationing in Miami and I'm 21. I went to go to the beach to change and this man standing outside the bathroom door wasn't happy when I talked to him He's in his 40s and he must've thought I was sexy or something. In the bathroom he was up to my shoulder and said " Hey want a bj" I instantly said no out of fear. Then as I walked away with a hard on. I regretted not letting him suck me or me suck him. I know it's being a whore. But that would have been awesome and well worth it.
  • Markz0ne45

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    Sep 05, 2014 2:27 AM GMT
    I knew he wasn't a cop. I know I did the right thing. My animal nature wanted it though.
  • Markz0ne45

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    Sep 05, 2014 2:32 AM GMT

    was it a public restroom? undercover cops aren't going to reveal that they're undercover cops. [/quote]

    It was a bathroom by south beach. He was looking for money and his act didn't look like a cop. A cop wouldn't be a whore in an act.
  • Destinharbor

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    Sep 05, 2014 3:26 AM GMT
    No. Exhibitionism is normal. Added thrill. We guys are always trying to think of new ways to notch up sex. That instinct will come in handy when you find a partner. Have fun but stay safe.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Sep 05, 2014 3:30 AM GMT

    Yes you are a pervert. If you are that horny and want to do this guy or vice versa, get a goddamned room. Its that plain, pure, and simple.
  • AMoonHawk

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    Sep 05, 2014 3:31 AM GMT
    noun
    noun: pervert; plural noun: perverts
    ˈpərvərt/

    1. a person whose sexual behavior is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.
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    Sep 05, 2014 3:32 AM GMT
    Yes, you are.
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    Sep 05, 2014 3:32 AM GMT
    hahaha…. and even if he was a cop, he might have just wanted to suck your dick!!! Now that is hot!!! icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
  • jo2hotbod

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    Sep 05, 2014 3:38 AM GMT
    Do it, do it, just do it
  • Webster666

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    Sep 05, 2014 3:48 AM GMT
    Markz0ne45 saidI am vacationing in Miami and I'm 21. I went to go to the beach to change and this man standing outside the bathroom door wasn't happy when I talked to him He's in his 40s and he must've thought I was sexy or something. In the bathroom he was up to my shoulder and said " Hey want a bj" I instantly said no out of fear. Then as I walked away with a hard on. I regretted not letting him suck me or me suck him. I know it's being a whore. But that would have been awesome and well worth it.



    Throughout the ages, far too many people have presented sex as something dirty or forbidden, when, actually it's a harmless, animalistic urge. There's nothing perverse about it. And, enjoying sex doesn't make one a "whore."
  • Webster666

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    Sep 05, 2014 3:51 AM GMT
    roadbikeRob said
    Yes you are a pervert. If you are that horny and want to do this guy or vice versa, get a goddamned room. Its that plain, pure, and simple.



    Oh, don't be ridiculous.
    You can only choose what's right for yourself.
    While it's true that, in some instances, it's possible to get arrested for having public sex, for a lot of guys, it's a huge turn on.
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    Sep 05, 2014 3:55 AM GMT
    Public places are public and I don't want to see some 2 horny obnoxious people sucking each other in the middle of day, children could have seen that as well

    those kind of people should be jailed
  • Markz0ne45

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    Sep 05, 2014 1:52 PM GMT
    Webster666 said
    Markz0ne45 saidI am vacationing in Miami and I'm 21. I went to go to the beach to change and this man standing outside the bathroom door wasn't happy when I talked to him He's in his 40s and he must've thought I was sexy or something. In the bathroom he was up to my shoulder and said " Hey want a bj" I instantly said no out of fear. Then as I walked away with a hard on. I regretted not letting him suck me or me suck him. I know it's being a whore. But that would have been awesome and well worth it.



    Throughout the ages, far too many people have presented sex as something dirty or forbidden, when, actually it's a harmless, animalistic urge. There's nothing perverse about it. And, enjoying sex doesn't make one a "whore."


    I walked away getting turned on. I really didn't want to because first off I'm a virgin and a first time in a bathroom possibly getting herpes isn't my idea of awesome.
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    Sep 05, 2014 2:24 PM GMT
    Look dont listen to those ignorant mfs. If your sex drive is going crazy then by all means you are free to WANT whatever. I wouldnt do it, but hell yeah I've thought about it. So no you aren't a pervert
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    Sep 06, 2014 11:27 AM GMT
    you're all fuckin boring i would've sucked him off and taken his load all over my face icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif
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    Sep 06, 2014 8:08 PM GMT
    musclebottom93 saidyou're all fuckin boring i would've sucked him off and taken his load all over my face icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif


    Ha,ha,ha!!! icon_smile.gif
  • SilverRRCloud

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    Sep 07, 2014 8:30 AM GMT
    I agree. Having sex in public, (well, sort of) is hoticon_smile.gif

    You want to be smart about it. Just anyone would actually NOT do. True, that dude may have been trouble or not. You may be seen by someone who may call in the cops, and you'd be having loads of unnecessary shit to cope with. Estimating such risks ain't really that simple and easy.

    So, hook up with an adventurous dude. We all know what the rooms are foricon_smile.gif. And once all is good, suggest a little repeat in a secluded public space for the hell of it.

    Living a risk-free life is both impossible and killingly boring.

    But you have got to gauge the risks right...

    SC

  • Koaa2

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    Sep 07, 2014 6:09 PM GMT
    musclebottom93 saidyou're all fuckin boring i would've sucked him off and taken his load all over my face icon_twisted.gificon_twisted.gif


    Me to!
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    Sep 07, 2014 7:10 PM GMT
    Whatever you think you are, you're right.
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    Sep 07, 2014 7:26 PM GMT
    Sounds like you're heading in that direction. Do you want to be a registered sex offender for the rest of your life?
  • Markz0ne45

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    Sep 07, 2014 8:49 PM GMT
    I never knew a lot about my biological father's family. But they're from New York and are a poor family. I heard stories from my grandmother(mom's side) that my granddad(father's side) whom I never met, was always having sex with men and possibly had a record from the cops. I hope I am not like that, I know there's gay gene or behavior gene or evil gene. So I know I can't be like that.
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    Sep 07, 2014 8:56 PM GMT
    I can from personal experience the idea of getting g caught is hot. Actually getting caught is a bit of a buzz kill.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Sep 09, 2014 7:45 PM GMT
    Webster666 said
    roadbikeRob said
    Yes you are a pervert. If you are that horny and want to do this guy or vice versa, get a goddamned room. Its that plain, pure, and simple.



    Oh, don't be ridiculous.
    You can only choose what's right for yourself.
    While it's true that, in some instances, it's possible to get arrested for having public sex, for a lot of guys, it's a huge turn on.
    I am not being ridiculous. If you are that horny, than go release your harmless, animalistic urge behind closed doors where it rightfully belongs. The OP is a pervert, period.
  • roadbikeRob

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    Sep 09, 2014 7:46 PM GMT
    sf_swimmer saidSounds like you're heading in that direction. Do you want to be a registered sex offender for the rest of your life?
    Thank you. +1
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    Sep 10, 2014 3:02 AM GMT
    I had sex on the beach before but not full on home run though.