Revenge for Rejection

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    Sep 06, 2014 7:37 PM GMT
    What do you guys do for revenge when a guy rejects you? If you guys take revenge for that.
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    Sep 06, 2014 7:40 PM GMT
    what?

    what is rejection?
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    Sep 06, 2014 7:50 PM GMT
    Why revenge? If he's not interested, then move on.
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    Sep 06, 2014 7:54 PM GMT
    Living well, without the burden of useless grudges, is always the best revenge.


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    Sep 06, 2014 7:59 PM GMT
    I've always found that being happy and not carrying hate around makes for a more fulfilling life.
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    Sep 06, 2014 8:04 PM GMT
    Revenge for Rejection because I work so hard to build up confidence and I'm feeling too much emotion and then I get my world crush by some a$$hole who thinks he's all that, probably has a racist preference (that's what it is in my books), or think's I'm sh!t and then probably goes on to talk crap about to his friends who are just like him.
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    Sep 06, 2014 8:06 PM GMT
    Yakuza saidRevenge for Rejection because I work so hard to build up confidence and I'm feeling too much emotion and then I get my world crush by some a$$hole who thinks he's all that, probably has a racist preference (that's what it is in my books), or think's I'm sh!t and then probably goes on to talk crap about to his friends who are just like him.




    how ... sad
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    Sep 06, 2014 8:10 PM GMT
    honestly, just learn to accept the fact that not all guys will like you. It will make your life a lot more easier, trust me.
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    Sep 06, 2014 8:13 PM GMT
    The ones that ignore me, I move on. The ones that express interest in me and then ignore me.. Well I just figure I can work on my body and some of them will come back anocking. Then I'll tell them they can go fuck themselves.

    But the best revenge is for you to just not give them a moment's thought and move on so they don't feel important, for they really are not.
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    Sep 06, 2014 8:17 PM GMT
    I agree with the OP on this. Too many of these dudes think they're hot shit when they're not even all that and it seems like they make it their life's mission to make other people feel badly. I have retaliated in revenge against dudes who rejected me. It's probably my own insecurity but it is what it is.
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    Sep 06, 2014 8:17 PM GMT
    I always move on with my life and fuck its just that the grudges feel good to me I realize and without them I feel vulnerable and weak.
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    Sep 06, 2014 9:30 PM GMT
    Varus saidhonestly, just learn to accept the fact that not all guys will like you. It will make your life a lot more easier, trust me.

    Yes, this works. Or you'll lead a miserable life with low self-confidence.
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    Sep 06, 2014 9:33 PM GMT
    You sound so pathetic.
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:05 PM GMT
    By seeking revenge, you are not only keeping those feelings of rejection alive, you are actually feeding them. You are continuing to make this other person important and significant in your life. And for what? Whatever satisfaction you gain from petty retaliation will dissipate quickly, and you will be left with the same insecurities that were yours to deal with all along.

    Even if the other person was an a-hole, what makes you think that it's his responsibility to make sure that you feel good about yourself? Don't spend the rest of your life trying to make other people behave the way you want them to in order to prop up your own sense of self worth. Drop it. Look yourself in the eye in the mirror and ask what you can learn from the experience, and what you need to be doing differently on your own behalf.
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:08 PM GMT
    Alright guys I'm putting the past behind me KK
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:09 PM GMT
    Lol you move on and date a hotter guy? Lol a better guy ?? Hotter or Better is just very subjective to you. I don't get mad if I get rejected, it just means I'm not his type. I've done quite a bit of rejecting myself, so whatever, it's just a dating cycle.
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:09 PM GMT
    No. I'm not 12 years old anymore.
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:22 PM GMT
    Scruffypup saidNo. I'm not 12 years old anymore.



    needs one more number
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:43 PM GMT
    ∆ In the winter months, he rents his nose out as a ski slope.
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:49 PM GMT
    I used to want revenge on someone who was mean to me and then dumped me but I realised I didn't need revenge because he did me a favour so I realised revenge was pointless. There is literally no point in it!
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    Sep 06, 2014 10:59 PM GMT
    Scruffypup said∆ In the winter months, he rents his nose out as a ski slope.


    was your mother a goat?
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    Sep 06, 2014 11:45 PM GMT
    Brush it off and don't put too much thought into it. When you wake up the next morning, you'll forget about the unpleasant experience and you'll feel a lot better. I understand your frustration and the sad reality there are people in this world who think they are G*d's gift to humanity when they are not, but always remember, for every guy this dude rejects, 10 guys will be rejecting him.

    Having said that, if you still want to carry on with your vendetta, sugar or sand in his car's gas tank works wonders. If you want to fuck up with his mind, you can always go back to him and say that it was good that he rejected you, because you don't want to get infected with whatever he has on his lips.
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    Sep 06, 2014 11:57 PM GMT
    I WISH I get rejected more. Instead I have to deal with these long drawn-out mind games where the guy is half-interested, and wastes my time.
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    Sep 07, 2014 3:24 AM GMT
    My revenge is THEIR missed opportunity.
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    Sep 08, 2014 9:00 PM GMT
    ^Great answer.

    If you're a dude who can't handle rejection then you have issues.

    I have better things to do then to plot and plan any kind of revenge scheme because I was rejected. That shit is for fags. That's right. I said it. You were rejected? Mkay. Move on. It's that dude's loss. The best revenge is when they see you later in life doing good (don't remember you probably) and they're like "Oh hey! You lookin' good. Wanna hang out and stuff?" and you're like "Thanks. No. I'm good" in a subtle way.

    Dudes who get rejected need to get over that and just press on.