The pre 30's crisis

  • un_charlie

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    Sep 09, 2014 1:46 AM GMT
    i am soon to turn 29 and well, things have turned out not that good. i used to have a profile on this site 4 years ago which got closed for not logging in... i am the youngest of 4, single, don't have a stable job, plenty of bills to pay, im starting to grow grayhairs and i'm away from home in a shitty city where people believe they're edgy and more civilized... i feel alone and well, i don't like myself that much...
    used to have evertyhing but took everything for granted and all of sudden, gone through water.
    how do you start from zero? icon_rolleyes.gif
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    Sep 09, 2014 1:49 AM GMT
    Take more risks. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. icon_wink.gif
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    Sep 09, 2014 2:41 AM GMT
    xrichx saidTake more risks. You have nothing to lose and everything to gain. icon_wink.gif


    This.

    "How do you start from zero"? Start by giving as much as you can away. "De-stuff" your life. It will give you the freedom to go, do, be without material "anchors".

    I started de-stuffing my life in the early 2000's. This prepared me for the opportunity to move to Honolulu in 2005. I could not have done it if I had not gotten rid of all the stuff. To this day, having less "is more". I continue to have the freedom to pursue amazing life experiences which I would not have been able to do if I had been anchored by stuff.

    Also, 29 was a challenging year for me too. The whole "I'm not going to be in my 20's" train of thought was running through my head. 30 was a great relief.
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    Sep 09, 2014 3:00 AM GMT
    un_charlie saidi am soon to turn 29 and well, things have turned out not that good. i used to have a profile on this site 4 years ago which got closed for not logging in... i am the youngest of 4, single, don't have a stable job, plenty of bills to pay, im starting to grow grayhairs and i'm away from home in a shitty city where people believe they're edgy and more civilized... i feel alone and well, i don't like myself that much...
    used to have evertyhing but took everything for granted and all of sudden, gone through water.
    how do you start from zero? icon_rolleyes.gif



    Scrap everything a start over I say, i'm doing it right now….I know people say we don't have all the time in the world to do what we want but I'm in no rush I'm actually redoing school right now so i can become a steiner school teacher. The retirement age in my country is 70 so i better pick a good job to get me through to that age.

    Its all about your attitude mate, you obviously afraid of growing old or being alone and its not the worse thing in the world, i can't wait to become 30 because I've already started working towards becoming a really hot 30 year old so i can get to a good start on my 30s its like I'm turning 20 again haha.

    I got grey hairs too?? who cares, look at yourself in the mirror and actually see yourself and have a moment to know your place in the universe and that you're a part of something more than the concrete jungle rat race with pretentious losers who think they've seen it all.



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    Sep 09, 2014 4:45 AM GMT
    un_charlie saidhow do you start from zero? icon_rolleyes.gif
    Add 0.00000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000000001
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    Sep 09, 2014 4:48 AM GMT
    Move cities. Update your style. Reinvent yourself. That's what I did. Still a work in progress but life is a journey, no?
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    Sep 09, 2014 4:48 AM GMT
    pre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS
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    Sep 09, 2014 4:51 AM GMT
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.
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    Sep 09, 2014 4:53 AM GMT
    jmusmc_85 said
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.


    did I hear a little non white latino midget squealing something ? I bet your ass is full of std
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    Sep 09, 2014 4:54 AM GMT
    #shade
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    Sep 09, 2014 4:56 AM GMT
    atlanticshore said
    jmusmc_85 said
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.


    did I hear a little non white latino midget squealing something ? I bet your ass is full of std
    His ass is full of rich guy cum. Too bad the rich guy he's currently with "saw the light" and is now fucking some other guy who actually has his shit together (a professional model with business skills).
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    Sep 09, 2014 4:58 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    atlanticshore said
    jmusmc_85 said
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.


    did I hear a little non white latino midget squealing something ? I bet your ass is full of std
    His ass is full of rich guy cum. Too bad the rich guy he's currently with "saw the light" and is now fucking some other guy who actually has his shit together (a professional model with business skills).


    Weren't you all up on my dick before? Get back in line gramps. I would never give you the time of day.

    #asif
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    Sep 09, 2014 5:11 AM GMT
    Ok you might be in a rough spot in your life at the moment, but that has nothing to do with pre 30 crisis, let's make that clear
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    Sep 09, 2014 5:13 AM GMT
    jmusmc_85 said
    paulflexes said
    atlanticshore said
    jmusmc_85 said
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.


    did I hear a little non white latino midget squealing something ? I bet your ass is full of std
    His ass is full of rich guy cum. Too bad the rich guy he's currently with "saw the light" and is now fucking some other guy who actually has his shit together (a professional model with business skills).


    Weren't you all up on my dick before? Get back in line gramps. I would never give you the time of day.

    #asif
    You fell for my mind games? What a dumbass. No wonder the smart guy is ditching you.
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    Sep 09, 2014 5:25 AM GMT
    The heck happened to this thread? O_o;
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    Sep 09, 2014 5:27 AM GMT
    KittenpasteCompany saidThe heck happened to this thread? O_o;



    I dont know I really don't know it happened so fast and escalated quickly
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    Sep 09, 2014 5:30 AM GMT
    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

    omgomgomgomgomgomgomg


    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^

    but so funny!
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    KittenpasteCompany saidThe heck happened to this thread? O_o;


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    Sep 09, 2014 5:42 AM GMT
    un_charlie saidi am soon to turn 29 and well, things have turned out not that good. i used to have a profile on this site 4 years ago which got closed for not logging in... i am the youngest of 4, single, don't have a stable job, plenty of bills to pay, im starting to grow grayhairs and i'm away from home in a shitty city where people believe they're edgy and more civilized... i feel alone and well, i don't like myself that much...
    used to have evertyhing but took everything for granted and all of sudden, gone through water.
    how do you start from zero? icon_rolleyes.gif
    Are you kidding me? Guys who are only about to turn 30 are stressing out now? What the hell is happening in our society. You are 30 now dude, you are still young. Your dick still works like it did when you were 18. You need to unplug from American commercial television. Seriously. Men in their 30s are some of the sexiest men in society. You are just now learning how the world really works, you are becoming responsible, and you can still fuck like a stallion. But one thing you must learn to accept is that you are no longer a little boy teenager. You are in the world of grown men now. Accept it or be destroyed by this truth.
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    Sep 09, 2014 5:53 AM GMT
    paulflexes said
    jmusmc_85 said
    paulflexes said
    atlanticshore said
    jmusmc_85 said
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.


    did I hear a little non white latino midget squealing something ? I bet your ass is full of std
    His ass is full of rich guy cum. Too bad the rich guy he's currently with "saw the light" and is now fucking some other guy who actually has his shit together (a professional model with business skills).


    Weren't you all up on my dick before? Get back in line gramps. I would never give you the time of day.

    #asif
    You fell for my mind games? What a dumbass. No wonder the smart guy is ditching you.


    Mind games? Nice try grandpa!!!

    Stop trying to back peddle now. Don't be jelly that you aren't MAN enough for me. You're just lonely white trash from Broward county. Better get used to city hall meetings and dinner dates with Art. That's pretty much all you have going for your future....
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    Sep 09, 2014 6:03 AM GMT
    What's wrong with 30? I'm looking forward to my late 20s and early 30s because I'll be further into my career at that point and I'll hopefully have grown into my body better. I swim and work out so fingers crossed I'll be hot around that point as I notice a lot of guys in their 30s are sexy!
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    Sep 09, 2014 3:52 PM GMT
    jmusmc_85 said
    paulflexes said
    jmusmc_85 said
    paulflexes said
    atlanticshore said
    jmusmc_85 said
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.


    did I hear a little non white latino midget squealing something ? I bet your ass is full of std
    His ass is full of rich guy cum. Too bad the rich guy he's currently with "saw the light" and is now fucking some other guy who actually has his shit together (a professional model with business skills).


    Weren't you all up on my dick before? Get back in line gramps. I would never give you the time of day.

    #asif
    You fell for my mind games? What a dumbass. No wonder the smart guy is ditching you.


    Mind games? Nice try grandpa!!!

    Stop trying to back peddle now. Don't be jelly that you aren't MAN enough for me. You're just lonely white trash from Broward county. Better get used to city hall meetings and dinner dates with Art. That's pretty much all you have going for your future....


    Whoa! Nice glimpse into RJ's demimonde, guys. Take it offline, huh?
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    Sep 09, 2014 5:55 PM GMT
    MGINSD said
    jmusmc_85 said
    paulflexes said
    jmusmc_85 said
    paulflexes said
    atlanticshore said
    jmusmc_85 said
    atlanticshore saidpre 30 crisis is for whiny little brats that have nothing better to do but write some BS


    Shut up you cunt.


    did I hear a little non white latino midget squealing something ? I bet your ass is full of std
    His ass is full of rich guy cum. Too bad the rich guy he's currently with "saw the light" and is now fucking some other guy who actually has his shit together (a professional model with business skills).


    Weren't you all up on my dick before? Get back in line gramps. I would never give you the time of day.

    #asif
    You fell for my mind games? What a dumbass. No wonder the smart guy is ditching you.


    Mind games? Nice try grandpa!!!

    Stop trying to back peddle now. Don't be jelly that you aren't MAN enough for me. You're just lonely white trash from Broward county. Better get used to city hall meetings and dinner dates with Art. That's pretty much all you have going for your future....


    Whoa! Nice glimpse into RJ's demimonde, guys. Take it offline, huh?


    learned a new word, thanks old overweight guy with a warm smile
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    Sep 09, 2014 6:03 PM GMT
    un_charlie saidThe pre 30's crisis


    Amazing how many members are going through quarter life crises:

    http://www.realjock.com/gayforums?searchtext=quarter+life+crisis
  • un_charlie

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    Sep 11, 2014 4:39 AM GMT
    thanks for the positive kind comments out there.