It's not easy

  • Matthew56

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    Sep 09, 2014 7:52 AM GMT
    Being black in the gay world after spending time in the gay scene/world I have really come to detest being black and sometimes wish that I was white/Caucasiod. As Know matter how much effort I take In my appearance being black is still going to act as a racial barrier. It really hurts and stings like hell when you are already seen as ugly and worthless by other gay men because you are black

    If you are white consider yourself lucky unless you are old or obese the you can have haur about anyone well not anyone just a wider choice of men just on the virtue of being white
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    Sep 09, 2014 8:42 PM GMT
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    Sep 09, 2014 8:45 PM GMT
    This is such bullshit on so many levels

    I wish I could give arguments, but I do not want to talk about my private life publicly

    anyway I feel tired I'm off to sleep
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    Sep 09, 2014 8:50 PM GMT
    Would you stop already?
    You're saying that all the problems you face in the gay world stem from you being black. That's not it.
    They come from you having low self-confidence. It honestly sounds like you don't even like yourself. Why would anyone be attracted to that?

    Just because someone has told you they don't like black guys doesn't mean that no one else is. Stop using your race as a scapegoat.

    Not all black guys have problems finding guys (different races or not) so stop trying to bring the rest of us down.
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    Sep 09, 2014 8:54 PM GMT
    ACRO_Slim saidWould you stop already?
    You're saying that all the problems you face in the gay world stem from you being black. That's not it.
    They come from you having low self-confidence. It honestly sounds like you don't even like yourself. Why would anyone be attracted to that?

    Just because someone has told you they don't like black guys doesn't mean that no one else is. Stop using your race as a scapegoat.

    Not all black guys have problems finding guys (different races or not) so stop trying to bring the rest of us down.


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    Sep 09, 2014 8:54 PM GMT
    Matthew56 saidBeing black in the gay world after spending time in the gay scene/world I have really come to detest being black and sometimes wish that I was white/Caucasiod. As Know matter how much effort I take In my appearance being black is still going to act as a racial barrier. It really hurts and stings like hell when you are already seen as ugly and worthless by other gay men because you are black

    If you are white consider yourself lucky unless you are old or obese the you can have haur about anyone well not anyone just a wider choice of men just on the virtue of being white


    You really have to stop with this pity party. We get it. You either let the BS of life break you or you make lemonade.
    Time to make the call.
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    Sep 09, 2014 8:58 PM GMT
    Not this shit AGAIN
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    Sep 09, 2014 9:35 PM GMT
    ACRO_Slim saidWould you stop already?
    You're saying that all the problems you face in the gay world stem from you being black. That's not it.
    They come from you having low self-confidence. It honestly sounds like you don't even like yourself. Why would anyone be attracted to that?

    Just because someone has told you they don't like black guys doesn't mean that no one else is. Stop using your race as a scapegoat.

    Not all black guys have problems finding guys (different races or not) so stop trying to bring the rest of us down.



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  • Matthew56

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    Sep 09, 2014 10:35 PM GMT
    [quote][cite]atlanticshore said[/cite]This is such bullshit on so many levels

    I wish I could give arguments, but I do not want to talk about my private life publicly

    anyway I feel tired I'm off to sleep [/quote

    Well to me I face a lot of difficulty in terms of attracting men
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    Sep 10, 2014 3:01 AM GMT
    I'm willing to bet good money that the problems you're having, don't stem from you being black.

    Next>>>>>>
  • Slender95

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    Sep 10, 2014 6:38 AM GMT
    LMFAO kkkkk what??lol I am black and black is beautiful....I just myself I can have any Man I want and it happens like I plan....lool I've been approached by almost races just that then I was still immature and would turn them down....You have a very low-esteem,you lack confidence and you are a very sad person....Please don't blame being black for all your personal reasons...Ok I'll say maybe in your area It's tough but surely there are other areas to explore!!...lol start by accepting yourself for who you really are..I feel pity for you Man...Start praying maybe you'll be white..
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    Sep 11, 2014 4:38 PM GMT
    If you're so upset about being black, why not become Japanese and commit hari-kari.
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    Sep 11, 2014 4:42 PM GMT
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]atlanticshore said[/cite]This is such bullshit on so many levels

    I wish I could give arguments, but I do not want to talk about my private life publicly

    anyway I feel tired I'm off to sleep [/quote

    Well to me I face a lot of difficulty in terms of attracting men


    You don't want to talk about your private life publicly? The fuck do you think you're doing? This is therapist-grade shit, the kind of stuff you should be telling a fucking THERAPIST. Not a bunch of random guys on a fitness website.

    That being said. You could be the HOTTEST MOTHERF*CKER ON THE PLANET but if you don't like yourself than neither will anyone else. Get that through your thick-ass skull and move on. Ain't nobody got time for this shit.
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    Sep 11, 2014 5:29 PM GMT
    Life2Short said
    Matthew56 said[quote][cite]atlanticshore said[/cite]This is such bullshit on so many levels

    I wish I could give arguments, but I do not want to talk about my private life publicly

    anyway I feel tired I'm off to sleep [/quote

    Well to me I face a lot of difficulty in terms of attracting men


    You don't want to talk about your private life publicly? The fuck do you think you're doing? This is therapist-grade shit, the kind of stuff you should be telling a fucking THERAPIST. Not a bunch of random guys on a fitness website.

    That being said. You could be the HOTTEST MOTHERF*CKER ON THE PLANET but if you don't like yourself than neither will anyone else. Get that through your thick-ass skull and move on. Ain't nobody got time for this shit.


    excuse me? go die of ca***r, what did I say? prick